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Hello! I've got a very peculiar person who is currently accusing Me of lying about My pronouns, and saying I changed them within the last two hours to try and trick them. It's very strange.

I last changed My pronouns in Piefed's settings yesterday, 17 hours ago, as per this post: https://multiverse.soulism.net/c/piefed_help/p/94882/why-aren-t-my-pronouns-showing-up-next-to-my-name

There's got to be a log of when they were last changed, right? I'm an admin, I should be able to pull it. How do I prove that My pronouns are what I say they are?

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[–] Grail@multiverse.soulism.net 1 points 17 hours ago

Well what was happening is we were arguing about anarchist praxis, and they were calling Me a fake anarchist. And I was pretty upset by that, and since I thought they could see My pronouns and weren't using them, I was feeling pretty hurt and also a lot of righteous indignation. So I made a point about if they're the one true anarchist why are they misgendering Me? And right as I said that, their instance fetched My pronoun data. So they thought I just changed them right then. Truth is, if I had just changed them right then, it would have been up to 24 hours before it showed up on their screen. So we were both mistaken about how fast the updates come through and both got mad at each other about it.

PS: I love the þorns, please consider trying My instance. I made it for weirdos who take control over the way they construct our social-perceptual world, and I think bringing back þorns is that kind of vibe.