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If you have to whine or criticize something make sure to have a way to make it better. If you bring up a problem, bring up the solution with you.
This is great advice. I've heard it refined to "bring the energy to be part of the solution" - which clarifies that one doesn't have to have all the answers, but had better be willing to engage with solving whatever one complains about.
I really hate this advice.
You don't necessarily need to bring a solution.
The solution may come in many ways but the most important thing is bring the problem to the light so everybody become aware.
If you're not satisfied with something whine and criticize the hell out of it. If you're right others will show up and together we may find a solution.
Sometimes you feel something is wrong but not necessarily know how it can be fixed, but you know it's wrong.
Don't hold yourself from complaining just because you don't have a solution, bring whatever you feel to discussion.
A shit solution can absolutely be worse than the initial problem, for sure.
Good advice