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I rejected a girl recently and she is depressed but says it's not my fault. Help? (lemmy.cafe)

submitted 4 days ago by Josephine@lemmy.cafe to c/goodoffmychest@lemmy.world

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So I (19F) have this friend (18F) who confessed that she had a crush on me. I turned her down. I also like a guy right now and prefer guys and want a boyfriend and am either bi with a heavy male lean or straight.

Recently, I found out one of her family members found her trying to hang herself so she got down and managed to slip the belt off so she wouldn't be questioned.

I am so confused. How is this not my fault for rejecting her? I won't say I will date her given I like men, but she says it's not my fault and she had a lot going on...

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[–] DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works 6 points 4 days ago (2 children)

Are y'all from the same couple-pair? lmao

[–] Ilovethebomb@sh.itjust.works 3 points 3 days ago

I did wonder if this was someone shitposting.

[–] Klarinette245@feddit.org 2 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Nah, probably not but that’s a funny asf coincidence 😂

I’m not that depressed about it fortunately

[–] catbum@lemmy.world 0 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (1 children)

Did you forget to switch accounts, Klarinette245? Josephine? Whoever the bleep you are?

Your drama has been popping up on my feed constantly. You use the same "woe is me" approach in narrating all these weird situations, however based in reality they are.

You've claimed to be every gender and orientation across a multitude of posts. It's getting old.

You're hoovering up advice and seeking validation from commenters who believe you're being sincere, but I doubt it. You're probably shitposting. But either way, you're wasting everyone's time.

Find a therapist, get real help.

*Edit to add: I don't know how much empathy I dare let you steal from me in adding that I am looking for a positive outcome here, all around. Even shitposters do be havin problems. 🤷‍♀️

[–] may_be@thelemmy.club 1 points 3 days ago (1 children)

What?