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[–] peeonyou@hexbear.net 15 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

My dad told me this when I was a kid and I told him I was so smart because I got all As in school without even trying.

He cut me off and said "truly smart people don't have to tell others they're smart".

Popped my ego balloon in an instant and he was right.

[–] EelBolshevikism@hexbear.net 17 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

truly smart people don't have to tell others they're smart

There are situations where this isn’t true, especially if you’re neurodivergent or something where people just assume you’re stupid

Edit: also the phrase de-normalizes being confident in yourself which seems unhealthy

[–] squidlar@hexbear.net 2 points 1 year ago

yes & no. if someone assumes you're a dumbass, saying "I am very intelligent actually" is unlikely to help.

But you shouldn't be afraid to prove it.