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submitted 1 year ago by JustSo@hexbear.net to c/chat@hexbear.net

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I thought she just didn't want to do sex stuff or cuddle or show affection..

Anyway I just thought it was important to let the world know that you can be volcel army and still be in a committed ten year relationship. In fact isn't that what true comradeship is built on?

Weapons grade cope aside, I think I'm one of those weird types of humans who needs affection and so on. Am I really going to have to start dating again? FUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUCK

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[–] HexbearGPT@hexbear.net 16 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Honestly it sounds like she is on her way out of the relationship but doesn’t want to hurt you.

You should either break up and move on or have some deep conversations about how to get the flame of love back.

Sorry you have found yourself in this place. It can happen so imperceptibly. Relationships take careful attention and work. It took me several to figure that out.

Best of luck.