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Mildly Infuriating

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[–] h14h@lemmy.world 23 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Reddit: "Subreddits are for the community of reddit users who rely on them."

Community of reddit users: "We think the sub should stay private, and if you force it open, we'll spam sexy John Oliver and porn."

Reddit: "wait no not like that"

This message is mind-blowingly tone deaf.

[–] Flipht@lemmy.world 8 points 2 years ago

It's not tone deaf so much as it's gaslighting. Their intention isn't to get compliance or work through any of the valid concerns - their intention seems to be to cover themselves and give plausible deniability for potential investors.

They're sending this to mods as if they are the audience, which we know is not the case since anything the mods say is not actually considered.

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[–] AbsolutePain@lemmy.world 19 points 2 years ago (3 children)

A few days ago I didn't have a single reason to leave reddit. Yet, with so many reasons now, here I am, and I look forward to lemmy and kbin.

[–] fluxion@lemmy.world 5 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (6 children)

Ditto. I wasn't happy but I thought they'd find some sort of compromise since being reddit, the replacement for Digg 2.0, they'd surely understand they can't just be complete twats about it. Then they started denigrating/banning their own mods.... Wtf?

There are still a few niche subs I'll have to keep using reddit for for now, but for everything else I'm happy to move on. I'll also be cancelling my reddit monthly subscription, obviously.

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[–] Ekeko@lemmy.world 17 points 2 years ago

Can’t wait to see Reddit crash and burn

[–] Greg@lemmy.ca 17 points 2 years ago (1 children)

lol, "subreddits belong to the community of users..." clearly doesn't belong to the users. That's the whole problem

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[–] Suavevillain@lemmy.world 16 points 2 years ago

Yeah this type of stuff brought me Lemmy.

[–] TheOneWithTheHair@lemmy.world 16 points 2 years ago (8 children)

Moderating is volunteer work. Spez is a narcissist. Why volunteer for a narcissist?

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[–] Phoephus@lemmy.world 15 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Dear person volunteering your time and effort for what you thought was a worthy endeavor. We're trying to commodify your work so we can make a killing so don't fuck it up for us.

[–] atzanteol@sh.itjust.works 9 points 2 years ago

Dear Spez,

I've learned that Reddit wants to profit from my content. I've therefore decided to monetize my content going forward. I have very reasonable rates of $50 USD per post. $75 USD for long posts.

I'm willing to discuss this with Reddit but these rates are nonnegotiable.

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[–] traches@sh.itjust.works 15 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I love the condescension here - your protest is "taking a break from moderating"

[–] Deestan@lemmy.world 14 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

It's corporate rhetoric.

They define the reality they want their audience (press, investors) to see: No protests, no demands, no conflict with Reddit, just moderators not taking their job seriously while Reddit is taking its communities seriously and reaching out in good faith and with empathy.

Then they go all method actor and assume this reality, and start writing.

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[–] crabapplesteam@lemmy.world 12 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Im a reddit mod with a sub over 20 million - today they removed our top mod, and then sent us a message saying that 'we requested a re-ordering'. It's total bullshit.

[–] esadatari@lemmy.world 9 points 2 years ago

i wish they'd just fucking nut up and be up front about it. then you can at least see it in plain view as can everyone else.

"we're putting down dissent, regardless of if it kills our site usage or valuation. get on board or fuck off." is the exact same thing that's occurring, but is at least slightly more respectable than this microsoft-esque "we're doing this for your own good (whether you like it or not)" approach.

[–] green_dragon@lemmy.world 10 points 2 years ago (1 children)

They are slowly taking away the platforms of free speech. First they came for the self hosted websites; then they changed the search engine functions; then they came for twitter; now they are at Reddit. Make no mistake this is not just about an IPO. This is about controlling how the public communicates. Discourse is discouraged.

[–] wwaxwork@lemmy.world 5 points 2 years ago (1 children)

The trouble is they didn't like what actual free speech had to say which was we just want to use apps that work, so now he's having a temper tantrum.

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[–] RIotingPacifist@lemmy.world 10 points 2 years ago (5 children)

Subreddits belong to the community of users…

So you're providing tools to allow democratic control of subreddits, right?

Right?

[–] Necromnomicon@lemmy.world 7 points 2 years ago

I mean, one of the subreddits just gave all subscribers to it mod status. I think it was political humor. Something like 1 million people are now mods for that subreddit.

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[–] emi@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 points 2 years ago

Fuck Spez, Lemmy is doing alright. (I like community ran solutions better anyway)

[–] DBT@lemmy.world 10 points 2 years ago (4 children)

It’s hilarious to me that they are telling subs that they can’t just switch the NSFW button on like that, after they recently made the vape communities go NSFW against their will.

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[–] Jakeg@lemmy.world 8 points 2 years ago (2 children)

I really hope Reddit dies a slow painful death, it's already mostly bots talking with each other in the main subs. They got too greedy and think they're so large their sh* don't stink. Apologize for the crass, but man I just hope we get more major blunders and fuckups from spez&co

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[–] solidsnake911@lemmy.world 8 points 2 years ago (3 children)

Reddit's staff or the fucking mafia?

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[–] cowmouse@lemmy.world 8 points 2 years ago

Fuck Reddit

[–] WillardHerman@lemmy.world 8 points 2 years ago (2 children)

I just deleted three of my reddit accounts. I am done. As an artist, I have more work to do on my primary current account. I feel I should delete my art from reddit so that they can not make money from my art and music.

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[–] EricHill78@lemmy.world 8 points 2 years ago (1 children)

It's ridiculous that they are referring to the protest as a "break". Are they that dilusional?

[–] keepthepace@lemmy.world 8 points 2 years ago

No, this is passive aggressive for "if you don't want to do your unpaid job then get out".

[–] Moonrise2473@feddit.it 7 points 2 years ago (1 children)

"we respect the protests, but we will remove everyone that will protest"

the part "decide that don't want to be a mod anymore" is so infuriating and unrespectful. Like they don't know what's goin on...

[–] TheOneWithTheHair@lemmy.world 6 points 2 years ago (4 children)

Actually, as a mod, that's the strongest action you could take... stop moderating for free for reddit. "Jun 12, 2023 When they're all functioning normally, Reddit boasts nearly 140,000 active subreddits at any given time" according to https://wegotthiscovered.com/social-media/how-many-subreddits-are-on-reddit/ Now imagine 1 in 10 subreddits were abandoned by their mods. That's 14,000 subreddits without moderation. Let Spez take over the role of the Landed Gentry for 14,000 subreddits. If he thinks he's not making money now, how much will he have to pay to take care of all those subreddits?

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[–] clutchmatic@lemmy.world 7 points 2 years ago

The only way to win is to not play (being a mod at reddit)

[–] Chadarius@lemmy.world 6 points 2 years ago

Well good! They can pay to mod everything then! Should be easy when everyone is gone or posting the new Lemmy community that is taking overr.

[–] ChrislyBear@lemmy.world 6 points 2 years ago (4 children)

I just blocked *.reddit.com on my DNS servers. This page is history.

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[–] CoolBeance@lemmy.world 6 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Reddit preaches democracy but suddenly when this same democracy votes to focus on John Oliver content, they threaten to take control.

From "redit is 4 evry1 guise lets be demcratic" to no, not like that. Fuck it I'm taking this shit "

What a disaster man

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[–] akira@lemmy.world 6 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

this is so desperate. they write this stuff to make up an excuse for take away its creators and in the name of the "users". it's just so they can keep up their advertisement revenue im agry

[–] possiblylinux127@lemmy.world 6 points 2 years ago (6 children)

What is reddit smoking? This message is so out of touch

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[–] Apollorbust@lemmy.world 6 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I’m so glad that we have an alternative to Reddit!

[–] ashketchum@lemmy.world 4 points 2 years ago

Me too :’) history in the making!

[–] Patariki@lemmy.world 5 points 2 years ago

At this point I'm cheering for reddit to keep going as they are so the migration keeps on going too.

[–] Weaselpanties@lemmy.world 5 points 2 years ago (3 children)

Reddit admin seem to be under the very mistaken impression that the passive viewers are the source of Reddit's success. Creating and modding a sub is a labor of love, and people who have the love, time, and patience to do it well are a tiny minority of Reddit's users. When they alienate mods, Reddit dies.

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[–] Alwaysfallingupyup@lemmy.world 5 points 2 years ago (2 children)

"Subreddits belong to the community of users". Followed by "a path forward to make sure your subreddit is available... which is it?? lol

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[–] Slynk@lemmy.world 5 points 2 years ago

It's pretty obvious that reddit needs these communities. But these communities don't need Reddit, clearly.

[–] RickRussell_CA@lemmy.world 5 points 2 years ago (4 children)

Subreddits belong to the community of users...

Spez, read that again. Slower this time.

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[–] Fernis@lemmy.world 5 points 2 years ago (1 children)

It's interesting how during numerous examples of users trying to fight mod teams over changing direction of the sub, new rules, unwanted new mods etc., and getting admins involved, the answer was ALWAYS the same "Subs are owned by their creators/mods. If you don't like it you can always create a new one".

Suddenly they belong to communieties? Communities that in numerous examples voted by themselves to stay closed? How absolutely full of shit they are...

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[–] Tamhenk@lemmy.world 4 points 2 years ago (7 children)

Fuck em. This is my first post on Lemmy and I'm happy it exists.

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[–] IndependentComb257@lemmy.world 4 points 2 years ago

Love how this is a full 180° from the "Create your own subreddit…for ___" messaging that appeared in the sidebar for more than a decade.

[–] c_c_combobreaker17@lemmy.world 4 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Fuck em. God its nice to be able to say "fuck em" without having to worry about elon or spez getting butthurt and banning my account.

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