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Most people just want a good life. If we stopped seeing each other as the enemies the world could be better.

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[–] Jonnyprophet@lemmy.world 41 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) (1 children)

Amen.

What the people who want to control us don't want us to realize is that you have a lot more in common with the Chinese/Russian/Ukrainian/Mexican/Indian working class... Factory worker/programmer/hard-working house wife... Then you do with your own political leaders and billionaires. People with servants who don't ever worry about bills. (Biden, Trump, Harris, Vance, Elon, Gates, Bezos, etc)... Don't look at the foreigners as different and the enemy... Look at the Rich and the Politicians (who want us to blame the foreigners)

[–] SexualPolytope@lemmy.sdf.org 16 points 8 months ago

No war but class war.

[–] thezeesystem@lemmy.blahaj.zone 38 points 8 months ago (5 children)

Idk one side wants to enslave, murder, and rape. The other does not.

Let's just be friends as they take away my rights and everyone I love rights away, we shouldn't be enemies as they hunt down and murder someone for "existing"

Maybe we shouldn't be friends with the enemy and fight against the regime?

This is one of the was Nazis came into power, by manipulating the mass thinking "oh we should all be friends" and now look what happened.

-a trans non-binary disabled person

[–] atro_city@fedia.io 15 points 8 months ago

There aren't only two sides to every issue. Thinking like that is limiting.

[–] yetiftw@lemmy.world 6 points 8 months ago

solidarity means solidarity. other working class people are not your enemy (re: 1984). the all or nothing mindset accomplishes nothing besides closing your mind off to the plights and perspectives of others.

-also trans and disabled

[–] Free_Opinions@feddit.uk 6 points 8 months ago (6 children)

Idk one side wants to enslave, murder, and rape. The other does not.

Seeing people hold this kind of views is fucking depressing.

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[–] demesisx 23 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) (1 children)

It’s by design. ~~Divide and conquer~~ Combine and conquer has been the playbook since they (anti-labor think tanks like the Progressive Policy Institute and others that seek to keep labor infighting) started studying group psychology.

FPTP contributes more than its share to the tribalism and poor infighting we see in the US and the UK.

[–] atro_city@fedia.io 18 points 8 months ago (1 children)

The major difference is money. We should be banding together against the rich, but instead we distract ourselves with what we look like, what we sound like, where we come from, what team (sports, town, city, state, country, ...) we support, which sex we have, and a bunch of other things that divide us.

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[–] MossyFeathers@pawb.social 18 points 8 months ago

I only see people as an enemy if they've declared themselves as such. I'm not gonna make the first move, life is too short to make enemies with everyone I meet. That said, if you've got a swastika tattooed on your forehead then I'm gonna take that as a declaration that you're my enemy.

[–] radicalautonomy@lemmy.world 13 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) (2 children)

I don't see MAGA people as the enemy because they want to pay less in taxes. I see them as the enemy because they don't think my kids should exist in society and are actively passing legislation to make it so.

Delete this shit take.

[–] kshade@lemmy.world 4 points 8 months ago (1 children)

It may be more directed at them than you.

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[–] possiblylinux127@lemmy.zip 3 points 8 months ago

Username checks out

[–] ininewcrow@lemmy.ca 10 points 8 months ago

If you prick us do we not bleed? If you tickle us do we not laugh? If you poison us do we not die? And if you wrong us shall we not revenge?

Like South Park on religion: "you're all so focused on the stupid little differences that you're not seeing the big, stupid similarities."

[–] ObviouslyNotBanana@lemmy.world 7 points 8 months ago (1 children)

Actually, I'm special. The right told me my parents told me so.

[–] Iheartcheese@lemmy.world 6 points 8 months ago (1 children)

I'm more special. I look down on you derisively.

[–] ObviouslyNotBanana@lemmy.world 7 points 8 months ago (1 children)

Exactly what someone who's just like everyone else would say tbh

[–] Iheartcheese@lemmy.world 5 points 8 months ago (1 children)

I'm so much more like everybody else than you.

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[–] aesthelete@lemmy.world 7 points 8 months ago

Yup we're all idiots

[–] possiblylinux127@lemmy.zip 6 points 8 months ago

This is something we all need to remember

Have empathy and realize that people can have there own views. They aren't dumb because they disagree with you

[–] Zacpod@lemmy.world 5 points 8 months ago (2 children)

I'm not sure that's true. One side has empathy. The other does not. I don't want to be friends with someone who doesn't have empathy.

[–] Free_Opinions@feddit.uk 12 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) (2 children)

The world is not binary like that. Your side is not all good and the other side is not all bad.

[–] Zacpod@lemmy.world 6 points 8 months ago (7 children)

I didn't say they were "all bad." I said they lacked empathy and I wasn't interested in being friends with them.

Conservative and progressive brains are different.
https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/conservative-and-liberal-brains-might-have-some-real-differences/

And one of those differences is empathy. https://academic.oup.com/scan/article/18/1/nsad029/7175525

[–] Free_Opinions@feddit.uk 4 points 8 months ago (1 children)

One side has empathy. The other does not.

You generalized as if everyone on the left has empathy and no one on the right does. That’s simply not true. Group differences like this are often larger within the group than between them. While it might be true that, on average, people on the right are less empathetic than those on the left, it’s neither fair nor accurate to imply that one side has empathy and the other doesn’t.

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[–] iii@mander.xyz 2 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) (1 children)

One would need empathy to see it that way ;)

[–] Interstellar_1@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 8 months ago

Empathy is something that can be learned like any ability, it isn't always a binary you have it or you don't.

[–] WeUnite@lemm.ee 9 points 8 months ago

I kind of see your point there. My hope though is that maybe people could gain more empathy for each other by understanding that we are all human and I hope that one day people can understand each other's struggles.

[–] Nougat@fedia.io 4 points 8 months ago

Some are fascists. Some are not. That's a pretty big distinction.

[–] Etterra@lemmy.world 4 points 8 months ago

True. For example we are all made of ~~delicious~~ nutritious meats.

[–] JustZ@lemmy.world 3 points 8 months ago

Every molecule that makes up our entire existence came from the fusion of a hot star, and no matter what it looks like right now, it will once again be both the precursor and the product of many more stars.

In that regard we are all identical and inconsequential.

[–] 9point6@lemmy.world 3 points 8 months ago

Paradox of tolerance

[–] babybus@sh.itjust.works 3 points 8 months ago

Yeah, but also people have very different ideas of what good life is, and what stops them from having it.

[–] Randomgal@lemmy.ca 3 points 8 months ago

Bro discovered Christianity

[–] SynopsisTantilize@lemm.ee 3 points 8 months ago

I think if you peel back the ego, the "self" is just obligations that we've made to try to create an "identity" like "I have to draw I'm an artist". "Oh, I have to go to school because I'm a smart person and I don't want to XYZ."

It's all just fluff, or an illusion. If we were to truly be free of all obligations we would find out quickly that we are all the same consciousness wearing different masks. I am me, and I am you, and you are me. If you were to be able to switch perspectives with someone else I'd be surprised if it felt any different than being in your own body.

[–] rikudou@lemmings.world 3 points 8 months ago (1 children)

No. Some people want to control other people because of their various sky daddies or a simple greed. And those are the ones fucking up your life. Everyone else could more or less get along, but fanatics, billionaires and other people hungry for control of others are actively make sure we don't.

[–] Free_Opinions@feddit.uk 8 points 8 months ago

fanatics

Half of Lemmy users included in that group

[–] Tehdastehdas@lemmy.world 2 points 8 months ago
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