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The longer you are on lemmy, the more you can step back and see the ebb and flow of manipulative posts in and out of circulation to create rifts between people and create short-lived topics of ‘conversation’ to busy the people here. The general anti-capitalism direction is pandered to singing the tune people think they want to hear and is no different I’m sure to the many bot posts aimed at facebook users to play the tune they also want to hear to manipulate, and get them to come back.

I’m sure facebook, twitter, and the other shitty social sites are far worse but for over a decade, a deep level of warfare has been fought online via manipulation and disinformation and young people are far too easily manipulated by a post because well, obviously a real person wrote it, right? Right? There’s even a picture of their face and everything!

So, I’d like to ask lemmy users to be particularly on guard, both here and any other site they visit with ‘user’ postings on in the future, and to perhaps step back, stop visiting sites, posts, forums, etc outside of your hobbies, and ignore it all. That’s the only way to be immune to the noise and to lead a better life. Whatever that direction is for you. Also, help your friends ignore the noise and help them focus on visiting information about just their hobbies.

Early internet was just information about hobbies and for the betterment of people and furthering knowledge. Let’s take that back.

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[–] PhilipTheBucket@ponder.cat 17 points 3 days ago (1 children)
  1. It's not clear exactly what you mean, what are some examples of posts that you think are being made by bots?
  2. IDK man, there is definitely a problem of misleading and disinformative posts and I will 100% agree with it as a problem, but just abandoning the idea of being able to talk about anything of substance because the disinfo is trying to fuck it up is not the answer, to me. I like being able to talk about politics / anti-capitalism / geopolitics / whatever. I don't find it "stressful" or the way some people receive it. If they don't want it presumably they are not subscribed to that stuff, but I really value being able to find out what's going on in the world and talk with a wide variety and population of people about it.
  3. The early internet was wild. It was not for hobbies and betterment, it was for ludicrous conspiracy theories, arguments between creationism and evolution, far flung neo-Nazis finally being able to communicate with each other, and snuff videos. That was what made it awesome. I think you are thinking of early Facebook.
[–] Buffalox@lemmy.world 13 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (1 children)

Maybe I'm naive, but I haven't seen this besides from spam accounts that are generally quickly closed.
The thing to do is of course to report it when you spot it.

Edit.
Quietly to quickly.

[–] 0101100101@programming.dev -1 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

Gen AI writes posts that can use specific dialects, that you would never be certain/realise. Hence the whole people-thinking-it's-the-thoughts-of-a-real-person-and-peer-pressure manipulation aspect.

If Gen AI algorithms are having difficulty with it also being used as training data due to the large amounts of it around, you can bet that you've read at least a few posts / comments each day written by gen AI.

[–] Eheran@lemmy.world 10 points 3 days ago

Could you link some examples?

[–] dragontamer@lemmy.world 8 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (3 children)

Lemmy.ml started off as marxist-lenninist site. All sites need to start with a niche and I doubt any future social network will avoid the niche issue.

I think normies are turning off of Lemmy recently, which naturally causes the extremists feel more loud (because the extremists will NEVER leave this site).

Trying to figure out a good social network is like looking for a good hangout in real life. The people who frequent is entirely the picture. It's hard to compete vs commercial interests like Blue sky or whatever as they pop up though.

Still, Threads, BlueSky and Twitter are all obviously suspect sites that will seed algorithms with their message. Lemmy doesn't do that. Lemmy has its own issues but it's very much a pick your poison situation.

Early internet was just information about hobbies and for the betterment of people and furthering knowledge. Let’s take that back.

Nope. After 2010s proved that the internet is the central location for political battles with Wikipedia Blackouts causing major political shifts, Pandoras Box has been opened.

The internet is now the premier location for propaganda and politicalization.

[–] hendrik@palaver.p3x.de 5 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

I don't think it's as easy as that. The developers hold that resentment. But that doesn't mean it translates to the users. Also Lemmy as we know it today has be very much shaped by the Reddit exodus. So even if it had been marxist at some point (which I'd argue it always played a minor role), that's long gone. And I don't think this is even one of the main issues as of today.

[–] 0101100101@programming.dev -1 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Nope. After 2010s proved that the internet is the central location for political battles with Wikipedia Blackouts causing major political shifts, Pandoras Box has been opened.

The internet is now the premier location for propaganda and politicalization.

This is only true if people feed the monster.

[–] dragontamer@lemmy.world 3 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Ummm. Elon Musk made $100,000,000,000 by making internet propaganda about how his electric cars are better than internal combustion, lies about their capabilities (full self driving), lies about how often they explode and lies about how well his Robots work. And then the propaganda is so strong he becomes Buddy in chief and people think that literally paying Musk another $50Billion is a good idea.

The cats out of the bag. Internet propaganda is too cheap and too effective. Everyone will be doing it if only to counter Elon Musk (let alone make money for themselves like through bullshit crypto coins or whatever).


You or I deciding to 'not fill the internet with shit' stops nobody. It's going to happen given this political climate and the benefits therein.

[–] 0101100101@programming.dev 0 points 3 days ago

Just to be clear, I'm not accusing lemmy (whoever / whatever that is as a 'thing) of adding messages, but bad actors are doing so to control the short-term narrative for (perhaps, mainly) capitalist reasons.

Kinda like propaganda gone wild. A Cambridge Analytica's former employee book, mindfuck is a good read.

[–] pewpew@feddit.it 5 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I'm just here for the memes :|

[–] PhilipTheBucket@ponder.cat 2 points 3 days ago

Hey everybody, this guy's having fun

Get him out of here

[–] hendrik@palaver.p3x.de 4 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

I'd support that. I mean I'm very okay with the anti-capitalist comments. But I agree that we participate way toi much in the rage-baiting, emotional news articles if the day, generally re-posting all the news and memes we got from the newsfeeds, Facebook and Reddit. That's all not very original. And not very useful to me either. I'd rather have a genuine conversation. Preferrably about things I like, so hobbies etc.

[–] jet@hackertalks.com 0 points 2 days ago

Disinformation is often a term thrown about when there is some fundamental disagreement. It's so overused as to be meaningless to talk about actual astroturfing

[–] DeathsEmbrace@lemm.ee -4 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Fuck if you’re pro capitalist you obviously drank leaded glue instead of the non toxic variant.

[–] 0101100101@programming.dev -4 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (1 children)

I think you're missing the point of the post. Or maybe the personal insult is the action of a bot to encourage other personal insults against me as a form of manipulation of others to build a group against me?

[–] DeathsEmbrace@lemm.ee 0 points 3 days ago

I don't think you understand how exploiting it is the only people who support capitalism now are the exploiters.