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I wanted to buy something second-hand. Unfortunately, Facebook Marketplace is the shit where I live. So I thought I could quickly register, contact the seller, and delete my account afterwards.

However, I refuse to participate in this insanity. Video selfie my ass, Facebook.

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[–] thermal_shock@lemmy.world 1 points 22 minutes ago
[–] C1pher@lemmy.world 13 points 10 hours ago

Let them continue filling the site with bots. Dont use that garbage.

[–] frog_brawler@lemmy.world 10 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

I left Facebook in 2009 or 2010 or so, but I attempted to register a facebook account for my business over the weekend. I can confirm, it wanted a selfie of my business. Wasn't sure what to do with that, so I still don't have a facebook account for my business.

[–] jdf038@mander.xyz 7 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

Leaving in 2010 was a great choice. I feel like I stayed on way too long only getting rid of it in 2020.

[–] frog_brawler@lemmy.world 4 points 8 hours ago

It was the “baby - sandwich - dog” era. Super easy decision at the time 😁

[–] Bebopalouie@lemmy.ca 36 points 16 hours ago (2 children)

I quit facebook 10 years ago. I am 67. If this old fart can quit so can you.

Don’t make it easier for the american fascist government to identify you even further on Facebook.

[–] Ledericas@lemm.ee 4 points 4 hours ago

Fb is nothing more than promoting right wing propaganda.

[–] A_Random_Idiot@lemmy.world 14 points 11 hours ago* (last edited 11 hours ago)

I am now, and will forever remain, a child of the old internet.

When your username was all that other people knew about you, and you didnt even like them having that for anonymity reasons, lol.

I continue to be baffled about how people on the internet went from "Don't tell anyone, anything about you!" to "Hi My name is Dan Rutherford, I like at 5849 Blasse Rd, in Tarry Birch,Kenfucky. Heres a picture of myself, my wife, my children, and a list of everything expensive I have in the house. Also my childs bedroom window wont lock. Anyway, we're going on a 3 week european vacation now! Expect hourly updates!

PS: Heres my birthday, and my childhood elementary school, where I was born, and the name of my childhood dog. In case anyone needs to answer my security questions"

[–] cley_faye@lemmy.world 6 points 11 hours ago

The dickvid potential is there.

[–] A_Random_Idiot@lemmy.world 57 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

"We, a company that has allowed AI generated propaganda to run rampant and destabilize global politics, need to make sure you are a real person so you must provide us with a video proving you are real that we totally wont use for AI and facial recognition purposes."

[–] LadyButterfly@lazysoci.al 12 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

I 100% trust this, Zuckerberg is fine upstanding man

[–] aeternum@lemmy.blahaj.zone 11 points 16 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago)

Yup. I can attest that he's never said about his users, "dumb fucks trust me"

[–] limelight79@lemm.ee 19 points 19 hours ago (3 children)

Who is actually creating a legitimate Facebook account at this point?

I moderate a few groups on Facebook, and every account I see for new members that was created within the last few years is a spammer. The people who wanted Facebook accounts already have them. Very very few actual human beings are signing up for new legitimate accounts at this point.

Facebook should just close the new account option. They're working toward AIs talking to each other and won't need human interaction any more anyway.

[–] Ledericas@lemm.ee 1 points 4 hours ago

boomers, and right wingers. i used to follow somed asian yotubers who fled to facebook, because it was easier to control content, and criticism, since they cant do anything to subreddits, and yes they brigaded the subs about them to shut down any controversy about them.

[–] PraiseTheSoup@lemm.ee 10 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

I deleted my Facebook account in 2010 after my college English professor forced us to use it for an assignment. He thought he was hip; I thought it was disgusting. Anyway fast forward a dozen years and like OP says basically the only way to buy and sell used shit now is through FB marketplace. I was willing to create an account just for that, but when they wanted my phone number I said nope no way. This video selfie thing is so much worse.

[–] Ledericas@lemm.ee 1 points 4 hours ago

i dint create one because of that too, when i used a some temp email, the account was autobanned for 6months. then i found a way to bypass thier login popups, because i just wanted to see some posts.

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[–] Raiderkev@lemmy.world 1 points 10 hours ago

Nextdoor is the place I buy / sell secondhand goods. I signed up years ago, but the way they verified you then was you gave an address and they mailed you a post card. It is still a hassle, but imo it keeps the bots out which is nice. A lot less scammers on there.

[–] Muscle_Meteor@discuss.tchncs.de 3 points 13 hours ago

I needed to make an account recently, if you make it via a proper computer you get this and it sends it as an "appeal".. Which means they werent clever enough to separate new account creation from actual appeals. So of course what happens is it goes to some call center in some poor part of the world where they're not smart enough to know the difference or dont care, they hit deny and you get perma banned.

This is not the same if you sign up via an app, which is amazingly stupid but whatever.

Ironically i learned about this by watching youtube videos for scammers on how to make fake facebook accounts.

Of course i immediately uninstalled the app, because i dont want that cancer on my phone.

[–] DempstersBox@lemmy.world 26 points 21 hours ago (2 children)

Literally over ten years ago, they wanted a photo of my government ID.

Haven't had an account since

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[–] MystikIncarnate@lemmy.ca 6 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

I gave up on Facebook when they banned my account for the second time after providing evidence that I exist in both cases.

Technically, my account is still "under review", for the past 8 years.

I used this name, Mystik Incarnate, because, believe it or not, there are more people who know me by this name, compared to how many know me by my legal name.

I remember that Facebook challenged my name back in the day, like 10+ years ago. I took a form of ID and made it say "Mystik Incarnate" as my name, sent that in, and they unblocked my account for a while. A few years later and they did it again. By then, I was already on the fence whether or not I wanted to maintain a Facebook account... But I submitted basically the same thing and..... Well... It's still "being reviewed".

I do have an account under my legal name, mainly as a collector of messages for people that know me professionally or something that are trying to reach out. I check it every few months at most; but that account has no friends, no connections, nothing. I only keep it so people can message me. I don't use their apps or anything, I only log in on the website and usually incognito so that they can't track me across the web.

Every time I see someone's logged in Facebook account, I'm disgusted by how cancerous it has become. Anyone who reaches out to me on that platform I usually try to have them connect with me by email, or some other chat program that's more trustworthy.

Fuck Meta.

[–] KuroiKaze@lemmy.world 5 points 15 hours ago

Weird nowadays many people I know are using alias on FB without incident. It's a safety issue for women.

[–] brachiosaurus@mander.xyz 18 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

There are no more excuses, people who say that these services are easier to use are stupid

[–] Slovene@feddit.nl 7 points 18 hours ago

Hey! No I'm doesn't! 😠

[–] blackn1ght@feddit.uk 34 points 22 hours ago (3 children)

I get it. They want to combat bots and potentially even detect if a person is old enough to use the platform. However Facebook has eroded absolutely any trust that there's no way I'd give them this. Not that I use Facebook anyway.

[–] brax@sh.itjust.works 20 points 22 hours ago (4 children)

There's no way they want to combat bots. You report bot content and they're like "nah, this doesn't go against our community guidelines" all the fucking time.

[–] tarknassus@lemmy.world 11 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

What do you expect from a company that removed independent fact-checkers, wanted to add AI profiles as users, amongst other things? I think they relish bots and the engagement they bring to the platform, completely blind-sided by how bad it looks for them long-term.

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[–] pineapplepizza@lemm.ee 10 points 20 hours ago

Zuckerborg is literally promoting bot "friends"

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[–] Edgarallenpwn@midwest.social 4 points 15 hours ago (3 children)

Is there a good 2nd hand market beside FB now? We are buying our first house and will be needing some stuff once we move in. My account is long gone and my wife's is deactivated, close to closing it out. We have some good antique and thrifts around us, but my SIL gets killer deals on FB market.

[–] privatizetwiddle@lemmy.sdf.org 4 points 11 hours ago (2 children)

some areas have active nextdoor.com marketplaces, but you have to prove your residence by receiving a code in the mail.

[–] boonhet@lemm.ee 1 points 10 hours ago

Doesn't seem to be in my country yet, but apparently it's in a few other EU countries so there's hope yet!

In the meantime I log into Facebook when I need to buy used car parts. There's other sites but it's nowhere near as usable as just writing "hey someone wanna sell me a 3.0 tdi (BMK/ASB) turbo pls" into the Audi group on Facebook. Such is the life of driving shitboxes anyway.

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[–] rolling_resistance@lemmy.world 2 points 10 hours ago

for us it's craigslist

[–] lemmycloud666@lemm.ee 2 points 14 hours ago

Depending on where you live you always got something eg: craigslist or whatever.

[–] javiwhite@feddit.uk 11 points 19 hours ago (2 children)

Are there any fediversians out there familiar with friendica? From what I can tell, it looks like a FOSS equivalent to Facebook. I was never really into Facebook or Instagram, so on the surface it seems to tick the boxes, but I appreciate they have addiction tier levels of interaction with the majority of people around me, so differences will be glaring for hardcore users.

My partner is an artist, and she's been trialling pixelfed for me; all seems to be going smoothly, but the older generations are FB diehards, so if I have any chance of adoption, it has to be something closer to that experience.

I'm looking to potentially spin up an instance for friends and family to migrate to. They currently have the desire due to the stream of enshittification we're seeing; but people are fickle and I've no doubt that desire can be extinguished by the slightest inconvenience. so any insight on what's good and what's missing regarding friendica (or other FB FOSS alternatives), is definitely appreciated.

[–] odelik@lemmy.today 3 points 13 hours ago

The only reason I have a frednica is because that's where I chill and hang out with the Fediverse Chick.

[–] klao@sh.itjust.works 9 points 18 hours ago

afaik Friendica is the closest to Facebook usage among Fediverse platforms, im not aware of new features on Facebook since I quit it a few years ago but for ordinary people i only think to be missing games i know some people used (do they still?) to play to get "achievements" which they could share they got it, i'd usually see it more often from farming or guitar hero-like games, other than that they have plenty of stuff that you won't find in other Fediverse platforms but its also not a platform where you'll find general instances with as many people as in Lemmy/Mastodon/Pixelfed general instances but since you are willing to host for yourself and your friends it might be worth it, you can even have your own RSS feeds within Friendica and browse posts from other platforms outside the Fediverse, you can check the features list on friendi.ca/about/features

[–] Underwaterbob@lemm.ee 38 points 1 day ago (11 children)

Last time my buddy sent me a Facebook link, it wouldn't let me view it without giving them my phone number. I did not.

[–] klao@sh.itjust.works 6 points 18 hours ago

Discord does this for logging in from different places a lot which is bonkers to me how many people dont care about it, it doesnt even matter if you have TOTP 2FA activated, they still try to gaslight the need for phone number is for "security"

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[–] liv@lemmy.nz 16 points 22 hours ago (2 children)

It's going to require DNA samples in my lifetime.

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