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[–] Menschlicher_Fehler@feddit.org 160 points 1 month ago (2 children)

The Internet is not a place for children, stop trying to make it one and make parents responsible again for the things their kids consume.

Exactly. Let them access specific sites you trust as they need to, and monitor their use. As they earn your trust, teach them how to avoid the worst of it and let them go on their own more and more.

That's how anything works with kids. Monitor them as they do something new, then let out the leash as they earn your trust, until they no longer need the leash.

[–] phoenixz@lemmy.ca 15 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Well yes, but....

Loads and loads of parents simply aren't fit to fit the description. There are loads of idiots out there that just don't care that their five year old watches porn. Then there is the class of idiots that think their little angel would never do such horrendous things, they're with God, didn't you know?

As an aside, I'm really curious as to what the deleterious effects are on kids, say, 12+ that watch porn. I was a kid like that over 3 decades ago and though porn wasn't as readily available as it was today, I remember watching the encrypted porn channel for the eventual boob flash, or the mosaic channel that would show 20x20 px porn. Actual porn from BBS-es (pre internet dial in systems) came into my life at about... 15-ish, I'd say, and it didn't affect me negatively whatsoever.

I'd definitely would like to see the difference between the effects on kids watching porn vs kids watching ultra violent movies or even real violence online. I'd wager the latter being more harmful than porn (be it porn combined with well designed sex education in schools, so good with that US kids!)

[–] HotCoffee@lemm.ee 18 points 1 month ago

True but if we take bad parenting as a design point then we might as well ban 80% of all things in the world. Forks, knives, power outlets, glue, sharp furniture corners.... Baths, what if your kid drowns cus of bad parenting.

[–] CritFail@lemmy.world 92 points 1 month ago (3 children)

Or, you know, parents could actually use parental controls.

Or actually monitor their kids' internet use.

[–] aceshigh@lemmy.world 8 points 1 month ago

But that would mean parents would have to learn something new. Nah.

[–] gian@lemmy.grys.it 8 points 1 month ago

If only parental controls would work decently...

But I agree, this should be a matter of education and the parents should be present and educate their children.

[–] Sixtyforce@sh.itjust.works 39 points 1 month ago

Nothing disgusts me more than Puritans.

[–] NigelFrobisher@aussie.zone 12 points 1 month ago

I’ll bet they are!

[–] surph_ninja@lemmy.world 10 points 1 month ago (1 children)

The fascist censorship regime is just ramping up their efforts in Europe. The Nazis took over again.

[–] gian@lemmy.grys.it 7 points 1 month ago (1 children)

In most of EU there are laws that forbid minors to access some products (like, you cannot sell alcool to minors). Don't see as fascist to make those laws respected.

I mean, if a minor buys a liquor from a store and it is caught, the store pays a fine (or it is temporary closed or whatever the law says), why should be a company that sell pornography (or enable to watch it) not be responsible the same way ? Just because it is on internet and it is a US company ?

[–] surph_ninja@lemmy.world 22 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Yes, I am familiar with the ‘think of the children!’ Trojan horse tactic.

[–] UpperBroccoli@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 month ago

Good thing there are no actual problems to solve...

[–] rottingleaf@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago (2 children)

So not just I have to use Tor in Russia for those, but I'll also have to use non-EU exit nodes. Thank you morons.

[–] explodicle@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I can't believe the EU would be so inconsiderate to Russians like that.

[–] rottingleaf@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago

Yes! Ignoring their main realistic purpose

[–] coolmojo@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago

And not the American states were mandatory age verification is the law.

[–] atlien51@lemm.ee 1 points 1 month ago

Holy shit what? TLDR someone pls