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[–] tiramichu@sh.itjust.works 109 points 1 month ago (2 children)

The only thing on my phone that's allowed to notify me are messaging apps, and even then, only for direct messages, not groups.

Social media, games, sites, and everything else can all fuck right off - you do not get to demand my attention unbidden, and if you misbehave you are going in the trash.

[–] Pechente@feddit.org 22 points 1 month ago

Doing the same. It’s way too common for people just to leave on everything and then they barely reply to messages because they didn’t see them and are stressed all the time.

[–] SidewaysHighways@lemmy.world 9 points 1 month ago

this is how i live also, i mean the alternative would be how i see everyone with too many notifications; they eventually get to be too many and they just get lost in the sauce.

[–] Agent641@lemmy.world 48 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Notifications are a cognitohazard

[–] ryannathans@aussie.zone 5 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] ZoopZeZoop@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago

I'd say more of an ISMB.

[–] jordanlund@lemmy.world 43 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] lugal@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 1 month ago (2 children)

I just ignore them. At some point they lose any meaning whatsoever

[–] ZoopZeZoop@lemmy.world 20 points 1 month ago (1 children)

That's nice for you, but the urgent feeling doesn't dissipate for some people.

[–] lugal@lemmy.dbzer0.com -1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I didn't expect my comment to be that controversial but I guess not everyone has the right decree and balance of stoicism, anxiety and procrastination to achieve perfection

[–] ZoopZeZoop@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Uh, sure. For the record, I upvoted you to offset the downvotes others gave. I didn't feel like your comment was a downvotable one.

[–] lugal@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 1 month ago

Sure, I didn't want to accuse you or something. I just wanted it to be a separate comment (and not just an edit) and didn't want to answer myself. In fact I'm not even mad at the downvotes. I just think it's funny how controversial it got. It's not downvoted into oblivion, it got quite a balance of up and downvotes. So I guess I speak to the hearts of some and the envy of others.

[–] thebestaquaman@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago

I do too, but I've started missing way too many of the notifications that I actually want to register receiving. Recently I've taken a round of actually enable/disable notifications on things so that I'll be better at filtering out and catching the stuff I want to pay attention to.

[–] tatann@lemmy.world 32 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I think most launchers (on Android) allow to hide these "dots"

[–] aeronmelon@lemmy.world 28 points 1 month ago (1 children)

The notification settings on iOS let you disable that entire feature. No badges, no banners, no dings, what happens when I open the Mail app after a week? IT’S A SURPRISE!

[–] tatann@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Lack of fine settings :/

I like the ability to have notifications (with or without sound) but no badge (or the opposite if someone likes it the other way)

[–] aeronmelon@lemmy.world 9 points 1 month ago

I was just being funny about it. Every type of notification has its own settings, and you can change those settings on an app by app basis.

[–] systemglitch@lemmy.world 28 points 1 month ago

I tur off notificatuons for over 90% of that shit. Direct messages I need and I need to know when my daily chess moves are (duh).

Nothing else compels me.

[–] SassyRamen@lemmy.world 27 points 1 month ago (2 children)

No one in my life understands this. I haaaaate having these notifications. The worst ones are those that can't be cleared.

[–] audaxdreik@pawb.social 18 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Some sites have started sending them to you before you've even done anything!

Never been to this site before? Don't worry, chat bubble in the upper corner already displaying a little red dot with a 5 in it. There's already an AI chatbot trying to offer help and discounts off on things and ... AUGH!

[–] qqq@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago

What's funny is those always make me immediately think the site is a scam of some sort even though they're everywhere. I get this feeling like I should leave the site as soon as I can

[–] systemglitch@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I've never seen that happen.

[–] xia@lemmy.sdf.org 1 points 1 month ago

You probably rightfully decline when your browser asks you "Allow somenews.site to send you notifications?"

[–] WhyJiffie@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 month ago

on android you can hide any of them, all from an app or just the category that annoys you. long press on the notification and tap the cog.

notifications that can't be cleared have their place too, formerly apps needed that to be able to keep running in the background. but that still works if you hide that specific notification.
but google shuffled that up in recent versions because people were complaining who didn't know notifications can be hidden permanently..

[–] Wild_Mastic@lemmy.world 23 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (4 children)

A friend of mine has more than 2000 unread mails, and he just left them there with that big fat number covering half of the icon. Like, bruh.

[–] SkunkWorkz@lemmy.world 5 points 1 month ago

yeah that's me, I don't care about inbox zero. I just read the subject line. If it is important i read the email if it's not i leave it. Not gonna waste time clearing my inbox. I look at my inbox like a couple of times a day, so the badge isn't that important for me. I could turn the badge off, but i just can't be bothered.

My dad’s iPhone. Oh no.

[–] salacious_coaster 2 points 1 month ago

Rookie numbers. My ex boss had at least 10k at any time. I'd help him clear them out down to 8k and he'd be back up to 15k the following week.

[–] StrixUralensis@tarte.nuage-libre.fr 1 points 1 month ago (2 children)
[–] Pechente@feddit.org 2 points 1 month ago

Not all of these are gonna be important and at this point most of them are expired anyway. Just read the last 200, archive the rest and do better from then on.

[–] Wild_Mastic@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago

Select all, mark as read, archive. Read the last 100 or 200. If he did'nt have the necessity to read them until now, he could also delete them for good.

[–] irelephant@lemmy.dbzer0.com 17 points 1 month ago

Every old-ish person I know has thousands of YouTube and Gmail notifications

[–] uyanagi@lemmy.world 9 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Can't they be disabled? I haven't got an iphone, but these would piss me off a lot

[–] fartsparkles@lemmy.world 13 points 1 month ago

Settings > Notifications > (App Name) > Uncheck “Badges”.

For whatever reason, you still can’t do it globally and must do it per-app.

[–] Tikiporch@lemmy.world 6 points 1 month ago

These went away on my MILs phone (I think after an update), so she was freaking out that she couldn't tell when someone had texted her. Other than the notification bar and chime when they were received, that is.

[–] Matriks404@lemmy.world 5 points 1 month ago

I rarely ever see these. What do people do for this to happen?

[–] desmosthenes@lemmy.world 5 points 1 month ago

I turn that off

[–] jjjalljs@ttrpg.network 5 points 1 month ago

I also only allow notifications like this on select apps. Direct messaging, mostly. I let Bandcamp tell me about new albums and the library tell me about when my books are available/due, but that's about it.

[–] roserose56@lemmy.ca 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

On android all my life and never had red dots. I guess this is on iPhones?

[–] MachineFab812@discuss.tchncs.de 2 points 1 month ago

Android has it. As does Windows, for taskbar icons anyways.