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Pretty wild! All states give you at least 30 days to dump your baby, no strings attached. Some states give you 60 days!

I feel like more people should know about this! It seems like a highly under utilized ability.

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[–] doed@lemmy.world 3 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

As a person who was dropped off somewhere as a baby, I completely love this, this can help many babies live a full filling life tbh.

[–] so_pitted_wabam@lemmy.zip 1 points 1 hour ago

Most based source in the thread πŸ’―

Thank you for sharing you’re experience πŸ™

[–] nutsack@lemmy.dbzer0.com 8 points 6 hours ago (2 children)

why can't you drop it off if it's older than a month? what if I want to drop off my 4-year-old

[–] AngryRedHerring@lemmy.world 7 points 5 hours ago

Yeah, and what's the latest I can pick them up? 11:00?

[–] Rooster326@programming.dev 2 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

There once was a state with no age limit and people were driving tens of hours to drop 15/16 year olds off. Which they didn't have enough resources to handle.

[–] nutsack@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 3 hours ago

that's completely fucked actually

[–] InvalidName2@lemmy.zip 8 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

But, but I don't even have a baby.

[–] Hossenfeffer@feddit.uk 14 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

Drop by a fire station, you might be able to pick one up!

[–] InvalidName2@lemmy.zip 11 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

But aren't fire stations kind of heavy?

[–] Hossenfeffer@feddit.uk 7 points 11 hours ago

Ah, the ol' lemmy switcheroo!

[–] quick_snail@feddit.nl 26 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

TIL the US has free child care.

[–] lightnsfw@reddthat.com 20 points 16 hours ago* (last edited 16 hours ago) (1 children)

Where do you think firemen co.e from?

[–] droans@lemmy.world 13 points 15 hours ago

Toddlers are perfect for getting in all the small fiery caverns which the grown firemen can't fit into.

[–] Abundance114@lemmy.world 24 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

From what height am I allowed to drop off my child?

/s

[–] daychilde@lemmy.world 3 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

Depends. How high are you?

;-)

No it is: Hi, how are you?

[–] melsaskca@lemmy.ca 5 points 17 hours ago (1 children)
[–] thethunderwolf@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 12 hours ago* (last edited 12 hours ago)

read the page

it says that all states, dc, and puerto rico

[–] abbiistabbii@piefed.blahaj.zone 32 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Reasonable. Now who's gonna bet that some dip shit in Washington makes it illegal because "mothers should face the consequences of their decisions" or some bullshit.Β 

Call me a cynical old bitch but when the US does something reasonable I always think "how they gonna fuck it up this time?"

[–] Triasha@lemmy.world 7 points 16 hours ago* (last edited 16 hours ago) (2 children)

Reasonable for the mother. The baby is rolling the dice.

Healthy babies are in high demand for adoption, so the odds are good, but not perfect, and its a terrible system to get stuck in, at least in my state.

[–] ronl2k@lemmy.world 5 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

Healthy babies are in high demand

Healthy white babies are in high demand.

[–] Triasha@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago

True, if you aren't white, the decision is gonna be a lot harder.

And people are going to use that argument to get rid of safe haven zones.

[–] DoomedFromTheStart@lemmy.zip 8 points 21 hours ago* (last edited 21 hours ago) (1 children)

Can you drop off your baby, once a month, for a couple of hours on a date night?

[–] abbiistabbii@piefed.blahaj.zone 8 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

Nah, I was thinking something along the lines of the Right saying that Young mothers are abandoning their kids because "they're selfish" or "they are avoiding responsibility" so some state passes a law that states that abandoned kids get DNA tested and traced back to their mothers so they can be forced to raise kids they can't afford/can't raise "to protect the family".

The US has a track record of fucking over women and girls, what with their war against contraception, abortion, adequate child care, etc. It wouldn't surprise me if the next move is "stop women giving kids up for adoption" under the guise of "protecting the family" or "personal responsibility" or some shit, but in reality is just a way to create cheap labour from underpaid women with a mouth to feed.

KY is making abortion pills controlled substances, like heroin. Women must be punished apparently

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