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I asked if people chose iPhone for the blue bubbles elsewhere a couple days ago, and while there was some good discourse on that post, the blue bubbles definitely also came up as a reason.

In my experience, when people find out my texts are green, they oftentimes would rather switch to a different platform altogether like Instagram or just not text at all.

Is this actually a deal-breaker in friendships out there?

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[–] alexius@lemmy.world 1 points 2 years ago

The OS of people’s phone isn’t relevant at all in my social circles. I don’t even know who’s using what. The whole green bubble stigma is an extremely American thing. Everyone else moved away from the default messages app at least a decade ago. I only get some 2FAs there.

I know for sure that I bought Whatspp in 2010. It was a paid app back them.

[–] TriflingToad@sh.itjust.works 1 points 2 months ago

Just a reminder, Lemmy is VERY biased on topics like this.

[–] hunt4peas@lemmy.ml 0 points 2 years ago (2 children)

I use Android with Snapdragon processors to be able to unlock bootloader and flash a custom ROM. This allows me to get Google goodies, even those which current Pixels and any other device, be it an Android or an iPhone, lack. For example: Unlimited original quality photo and video uploads to Google Photos. Regarding your bubble situation, as others have already chimed in, non-US peeps just don't care about it.

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[–] daniskarma@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Which country are we talking about?

I barely know people using iOS, much less being elitist about it.

[–] Charcoal8645@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago (2 children)

I've heard this bubble thing is only truly relevant in the US. Here in Brazil we mostly use whatsapp...unfortunately

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[–] Infinity13@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I don't care much about iMessage. All the people I know who are not an iPhone users use facebook messenger and cry about how bad quality sending pictures and videos are. But do nothing to change that. Thats the problem. I was going though hell to convince my girlfriend to use Signal to chat with me. Because she is an Android user. I hate FB, Insta, WhatsApp and all that stuff.

[–] Lifetrip@sh.itjust.works 0 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Yeah I've been looking for a while for an app to switch to. All those messenger apps sucks so much. They all seems to be going to shit everyday we use them.

Should I try Signal ?

[–] encode8062@lemmy.one 0 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Signal is the best in regards to privacy.

[–] chaddy@feddit.de 0 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Signal uses the same E2E encryption as WhatsApp and is also not Open-Source. One could argue that not being owned by Meta makes it inherently more private, to which I would somewhat agree.

The most private Messaging-App would be some kind of federated Chat, like Jabber or Matrix, that you or a collection of family/friends can self-host.

Unfortunately, nobody uses those ¯\(ツ)

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[–] Encryption@feddit.ch 0 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (4 children)

Wait, so people decide on a phone based of OS because of blue or green chat message colors? This is the first time I'm hearing this, is this something more of a USA thing or does this apply to other ocuntries as well?

Buying a phone based on chat bubble color seems something that occurs in a toxic society, where you are judged based on phone model. And why do they then change to an other platform to write you?

I never had a discussion about Andriod or IPhone based on this parameter, it was more about UI, services and design of the phone. To be fair we all use third party messengers like Signal or Threema.

[–] ediculous@lemmy.fmhy.ml 0 points 2 years ago

It's not about the color of the bubbles, it's about SMS vs. iMessage. SMS/MMS is outdated, slow, and limited; nobody should be using it anymore. iMessage is fast and feature-rich; arguably the best chat platform that exists, but it only works from one Apple device to another. Apple uses its position (50 percent of the U.S. smartphone market) to alienate anyone not using their hardware by rolling back to SMS when communicating with a non-iOS/MacOS device. This happens behind the scenes, all directly from the same Messages application. So from the iPhone user's perspective, they're either getting a fantastic experience (blue bubbles) or the absolute worst one (green bubbles) and it's all dependent on what the other person is using.

It's by design. Apple wants the default experience between an iPhone and an Android to be uncomfortable. And getting 125 million American iPhone users to use a different chat application is impossible since they have a truly premium experience with iMessage to iMessage communication.

Here's a great explanation of it.

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[–] qwed113@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I myself use an iPhone, but I don’t at all look down on people who use android.

Hell, I love android and really wish I could use android phones. But I have had several unfortunate occurrences on my two android phones I owned in the past - OS bugs, buggy apps, OS that slows down significantly after one year, dropped texts, dropped calls, dropped voicemails, the list goes on.

Android (in my experience) was incredibly unreliable. Ever since getting an iPhone I haven’t had any of those issues.

[–] JTskulk@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago (1 children)

What brand were the phones? That makes a huge difference.

[–] qwed113@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Motorola Droid Razr Maxx and Samsung Galaxy S5

I understand that these devices are from years ago and things may have changed since then, but I have friends who still run into odd OS glitches on their new Pixel phones

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[–] rufus@discuss.tchncs.de 0 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Excuse me. i don't know what i'm saying but i havent had any green or blue bubbles yet in my life. i guess you're referring to apple's messenger? i don't like that term, but i think people who just believe in iphones (without thinking any further) are sheep. you get nice cloud services, a clean ecosystem and colored bubbles, but little to none control over your device, privacy and a skewed perspective on other people. Idk. Just don't let your phone define you and your friends. I won't. And i won't accept friends who define friendship by the operating system on somebodys phone.

[–] Rhoeri@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (2 children)

Dude… let it go. Seriously. You’re clearly trying to drum up some drama. It doesn’t matter what people use. It doesn’t effect you at all. They will use what they want, and you will use what you want.

And I’ve read that post. You’re fishing from conflict there as well, but most of the responses were well thought out reasons for using the product- you just didn’t like/agree with them. So now you’re here trying again.

If you have such a hate-boner for apple, don’t use apple.

Deal with it.

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