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[–] Echo71Niner@kbin.social 39 points 2 years ago (7 children)

forget a 3rd monitor, you need 1 giant curved one.

[–] First@programming.dev 9 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Suuuucks for development at least, it's too small to divide into 3 zones, and if you divide by 2 you will just end up with a kink in your neck from always looking to the side. I'd rather have a single 27" with infinite virtual desktops I can shuffle around, than a 49" (my 49" has actually been collecting dust in storage for a couple of years now).

[–] b3nsn0w@pricefield.org 8 points 2 years ago

or three 27" monitors so that the middle one is centered. it's the coolest shit ever imo

[–] scarrtt@lemmy.zip 1 points 2 years ago (2 children)

What's a good virtual desktop application?. Windows used to have an amazing animation when you switched desktops, but it's gone now and I'm not sure I can learn to trust again

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[–] SuspiciousUser@lemmy.ml 7 points 2 years ago

I bought a 49” super ultrawide to replace my dual monitor setup and I found while 32:9 gaming I still wanted to watch fullscreen videos so I added back my 27”. Might add back my other 27” so I can do fullscreen discord/other stuff. Lemme tell you, SUW absolutely ruins a person.

[–] GBU_28@lemm.ee 5 points 2 years ago

3rd giant curved one

[–] spacedancer@lemmy.world 4 points 2 years ago

I finally joined the club and got a 34” curved monitor this month. Pretty good so far. It has also cleared up space on my desk instead several monitors taking up most of it. I still use my laptop as an extra screen to the side though.

[–] BorgDrone@lemmy.one 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I hate curved monitors, can’t stand the distorted image. Fortunately there are a few non-curved ultrawides on the market.

[–] Lodespawn@kbin.social 8 points 2 years ago

I went curved and now the flat monitors at work are annoying because the far edges are too far away ='(

[–] Nfntordr@lemmy.world 27 points 2 years ago

I already feel less lonely just thinking about it.

[–] XTornado@lemmy.ml 17 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Me having a third monitor: No.

[–] OtakuAltair@lemm.ee 11 points 2 years ago (1 children)
[–] lazylion_ca@lemmy.ca 3 points 2 years ago

He has four, the laptop is just partially closed.

[–] TheFriendlyDickhead@lemm.ee 4 points 2 years ago

Your monitors just doesn't has enough hrz.

[–] lowleveldata@programming.dev 12 points 2 years ago (1 children)

idk. How about a 4th one too?

[–] MisterFrog@lemmy.world 1 points 2 years ago

I bring a portable monitor from home to work to have 4 screens 💀

[–] provomeister@lemmy.ca 12 points 2 years ago

Knowing you have N monitors, the perfect amount is N+1

[–] DmMacniel@feddit.de 10 points 2 years ago

Well of course, how else are you going to enjoy 3rd monitor content?

[–] TheBat@lemmy.world 9 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Anything but talking to other people

[–] ArcaneSlime@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 2 years ago (4 children)

Fr though, "where?"

I'm seriously looking for ideas, I never got into social media, I will not sign up for them nor dating social medias, and as I age I've become disenfranchised with alcohol in general and the alcoholics I used meet in bars which was the last vestige of a local meeting place once school ended. My hobbies are all sort of loner hobbies as well like books and old bad movies, probably a consequence of being an only child in a single parent household, which tbh, I like that I can be mostly self sufficient and don't seek to find my happiness in others, but I'd like to meet someone if the option is available. But where do I meet people now? It is rather uncouth to ask people out for coffee while they're working somewhere I am a customer even if I do it super politely, but that is likely the only place I will interact with other humans all day outside of work and lemmy, unless I have to go to two stores. Afaik, the 80s are over and you can't ask other customers in the grocery store either anymore lest you come off as a creep for just saying "hey I think you look super cool and I was wondering if you weren't seeing anyone maybe you'd like to get some coffee sometime?" (To be fair, I haven't tested this theory, I just feel creepy every time I think "I should just fucking ask" and psych myself out, so, maybe? Maybe if I just lead with "hey it's hard af to meet people these days right? Well anyway I'm ArcaneSlime, what's your name, wanna get coffee?") Maybe use Alovoa since it respects privcy, but idk if that is viable just yet, and then I have to put pictures of me on an online acct? I haven't done that in 10yr because it is antithetical to the concept of privacy in and of itself! Work I can make friends at all day, even on the go it can be done though it is certainly more rare, but I can't date people from work because if it doesn't work out it might get weird for one of the two parties, I don't like that dynamic.

Sometimes I think I should just become an alcoholic again just so that I can fucking meet people. Any ideas on where to meet people other than bars or online are welcome. We need weed bars like cigar bars and hooka lounges, I can still smoke weed without feeling physically ill.

/rant lol.

Oh and to preempt cries of "incel," I'm not complaining about women, I'm complaining about the lack of meeting places that aren't "the local bar or tinder," and looking for ideas on ones I may have missed. If I didn't like women I wouldn't be looking for more ways to meet them! Lol

[–] Freetheinternet@lemmy.ml 4 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

I feel that. It feels all the socials "wells or waterholes" have dried up, and everything's migrated to apps. I know some young people complain about the same regarding dating: you have to be on a dating app as trying to approach people outside them seem suspect... Meanwhile the culture on this apps can be atrocious, and favour the lowest common denominator...

/rant

On the more constructive side: I play the numbers game, I guess. I socialize with everyone and participate in anything I feel remotely interesting, when moving to a new place or similar. Visiting cafes, art sites, local clubs for this and that, sport events. And yeah, I used to hit the pubs. Then I just interact - not /to make friends/ explisitely, but just as part of me being normal. In the end, after talking with everyone, everywhere I go, you probably have interacted with hundreds of people, and you can of end with a handful that you hang out with from there. It just kind of happens.

Just to be clear, I'm not trying to do this in a (very) forced or creepy way, just in a way I feel is natural and "totally normal", at least to me. E.g. at a gallery looking at a picture, if I really like the picture, and I see someone else studying it - and they don't look aloof or like they would mind - I carefully try to strike up a chat. If they signal they don't want, I disengage.

But, yeah, I find the lack of non-drinking meeting places a drag...

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[–] gsf@lemmy.sdf.org 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Figure out what you can do to help people in your community or neighborhood and you'll end up meeting some nice people

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[–] scarrtt@lemmy.zip 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Go travelling. South East Asia is cheap and full of friendly locals and fellow travellers who are keen to meet new people all the time. The trick with this stuff is to get out of your comfort zone

[–] ArcaneSlime@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 2 years ago

Lol I have heard the "go to the Phillipines" one before but that unfortunately isn't an option for me. 90 day fiance is a fun show though.

[–] lazylion_ca@lemmy.ca 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Borrow a dog and go to dog parks.

[–] ArcaneSlime@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 2 years ago

Imma get home and my cats are gonna accuse me of cheating!

This isn't a bad idea though in all seriousness lol, I may give it a whirl.

[–] lazylion_ca@lemmy.ca 1 points 2 years ago

I use my third monitor explicitly for talking to other people, specifically email, teams, and sms.

If anyone is running multi-monitor on Windows, I highly recommend trying Actual Window Manager.

[–] pineapplelover 8 points 2 years ago

I got a 3rd monitor so it will be nice and symmetrical

[–] Viking_Hippie@lemmy.world 8 points 2 years ago

Given that her other suggestion is pickleball, I'm going to guess that the old adage of "if a headline is a question, the answer is usually just no" holds up..

[–] Andrew15_5@mander.xyz 7 points 2 years ago (1 children)

As a coder, I do feel lonely with only 2 monitors.

[–] mrgreyeyes@feddit.nl 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Portrait oriented monitor will warm your heart from the inside.

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[–] SubArcticTundra@lemmy.ml 5 points 2 years ago (3 children)

Come on lads, we all know what the third monitor is for

[–] Digestive_Biscuit@feddit.uk 4 points 2 years ago (1 children)

It's for angling with it's back more towards the door in case the Mrs walks in. It buys a few more seconds of safety.

[–] SubArcticTundra@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 years ago
[–] c0mbatbag3l@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago

One for game, one for Discord/Browser, one for stream Labs when recording/temp monitoring.

Can't imagine what else you'd need a full monitor for ⁠(⁠ಠ⁠_⁠ಠ⁠)

[–] lesnout27@feddit.de 1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Yeeah you got us, it's for discord.. you're right i don't realy need it it's for discord. But i like it!

[–] SubArcticTundra@lemmy.ml 1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Ahh you're right, didn't think of that but discord would also combat loneliness

[–] lesnout27@feddit.de 1 points 2 years ago

I have to admit i in fact feel kinda less lonely seeing my friends online on the third monitor, now that you say it. At first it sounded silly, but now, maybe the article realy was on the trail of something!

[–] BURN@lemmy.world 4 points 2 years ago

In total, I, a chronically single man, have 6 monitors and 2 TVs. I am very much in this picture and I don’t like it.

[–] AusatKeyboardPremi@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago

For some reason, I read it as “male baldness” and found it even funnier.

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