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No Stupid Questions

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[–] glimse@lemmy.world 129 points 1 year ago (8 children)

I downvote a lot of posts here because I don't think they're questions appropriate for this community. They're either loaded questions, opinions, obvious bait, or asklemmy material.

If this community is supposed to be the Lemmy version of r/nostupidquestions, the questions should be things that you think should know but don't. Things that might make you feel stupid asking.

A good question for this sub is "How often do I actually have to wash a hoodie?"

A bad question is "Why is [company] doing [something anti consumer]"

We get a LOT more of the latter here.

[–] theedqueen@lemmy.world 16 points 1 year ago (2 children)

A similar problem would happen on r/ELI5 that drove me nuts. Originally the kinds of questions you were supposed to ask were things like “the origins of the Gulf war” or “the rules on how to play poker”. But instead there were too many questions that were like “what’s going on in my stomach when it growls”.

[–] glimse@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

"Can someone explain [complicated geopolitical conflict] to me like I'm 5?" were my least favorite. At least pretend you tried to get the answer yourself

[–] echodot@feddit.uk 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

There should be a rule where someone actually has to explain it as if they were explaining it to a 5-year-old.

[–] glimse@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

That's how the sub started. Answers were broken down into the most basic of analogies, it was great. But like most big subs, the rules got lax and it lost what made it special.

In my opinion, stricter posting rules make for a better community...as long as they're not arbitrary.

[–] hamFoilHat@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago

That might not be the best counter example. Now I'm interested in why exactly my stomach growls, and would probably need it explained in simple terms since I'm not a doctor.

[–] Styxia@lemmy.world 11 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I appreciate your work. (sincerely)

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[–] bustrpoindextr@lemmy.world 9 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Okay but like, how often do I actually have to wash a hoodie?

[–] OldManBOMBIN@lemmy.world 11 points 1 year ago (2 children)

You should wash your hoodies (and jeans) when they are soiled, sweaty, or smelly; if they've been wet; if they have any sort of chemical on them.

Your situation will vary, and thus you must rely on your own judgement.

[–] Silentiea@lemm.ee 3 points 1 year ago (3 children)

And basically always if someone you meet says you need to wash it.

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[–] Shard@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Mate, that read exactly like a typical title on r/lifeprotips.

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[–] glimse@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago

I don't know!!! Someone should pose the question in a post

[–] Acamon@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Ah, I wasn't familiar with the subreddit, so I was just taking it as a free for all, so no question is out of place. Especially as lemmy is smaller, and lacks enough traffic in niche communities, it makes sense to have a bigger community for just answering whatever comes to mind.

But obviously there's issues with that, if the community was swamped it would make sense to have a stricter guideline.

[–] glimse@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I mean if this is gonna be a catch-all for every question ever, why do we need it when asklemmy exists?

Guidelines make communities unique. And why did we remake the sub if we weren't going to continue the spirit of it?

[–] Acamon@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

Totally. I was just being descriptive not prescriptive. I wasn't aware of the sub, and thought this was a fun lemmy thing, particularly suited to its smaller user base. And I've always associated asklemmy / askreddit with asking people's opinions, wanting a broad range of answers.

Looking at the guidelines, there doesn't seem to be any guidance about what kinds of questions beyond "ask away". The rules are mostly about no trolling, NSFW, etc. So, my comment was giving the perspective of someone who didn't associate the community with a reddit thing, and the message it's giving off is "ask any question" and that seemed cool to me. But I have no problem at all with it being more specific than that, having explicit guidelines or just a culture of up/down certain types of questions. Community guidelines and specialisation are good! But with lemmy smaller user base more broad communities can also be good!

I think most people don't like to see obviously leading/rhetorical questions, but I'm (personally) happy with seeing more abstract, whimsical, or interesting questions than just "stuff you feel like you should know but don't ". Looking at the top posts in the community, there are some "what is wage theft/a sovereign citizens/etc" which seem to be the classic "everyone else seems to know something I don't" situation. Then there's a bunch of fediverse, corporation and tech industry opinion questions, which definitely do seem more like an asklemmy thing. But "can you live on pickles?" or "would nuclear weapons be useful in a space battle" are the kinda questions I think are fun and I generally enjoy reading the responses and learn something, but they're not "stuffy you should be expected to know" (well, maybe the pickles answer is pretty obvious, but the reasoning isn't necessarily...)

[–] eronth@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

The asklemmy ones are the annoying ones. It's less a question and more a conversation starter

[–] glimse@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

There's one up now that's basically "can someone recommend some songs to me?"

[–] fellowmortal@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I thought hard about whether to put it on ask lemmy, but didn't want to look stupid. The only advice I could find was this:

!nostupidquestions is a community dedicated to being helpful and answering each others’ questions on various topics.

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[–] Xtallll@lemmy.blahaj.zone 96 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Or it might just be offensive or a dog whistle.

[–] half_built_pyramids@lemmy.world 39 points 1 year ago (1 children)

ive wanted to make an alt account and name it something like dog, and just bark at comments that hurt my ears

[–] idiomaddict@feddit.de 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Is Dooku fast?

Fuck it, bark bark bark bark bark bark

[–] abbadon420@lemm.ee 11 points 1 year ago (3 children)
[–] TootSweet@lemmy.world 20 points 1 year ago

Frequently how it shows up on "No Stupid Questions" is that they're pushing a bigoted agenda under the guise of "I'm just asking a question and everyone's attacking me for it." Like if someone came to No Stupid Questions and asked (and this is just an example, not my position at all) "why is there so much trans propaganda on Lemmy?" or whatever. (And in the thread when people are like "you're a bigot" they respond with "I didn't say anything bigoted. I just asked a question.")

But yeah. Like what Xtallll said, it's more generally using language/symbols that for the in group is a reference they'll all get but for everyone else at least retains an air of plausible deniability. Often it's done by politicians (particularly right-wing politicians) to try to straddle the fence between the extremits and more moderates in their party. If a politician speaks in support of "states' rights," they'll get the vote of the extremists who know that "states' rights" actually means racist policies and also the moderates who still think or perhaps are still deluding themselves that it means somthing vague but more benign.

[–] Xtallll@lemmy.blahaj.zone 14 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (6 children)

urban dictionary Dog whistle is a type of strategy of communication that sends a message that the general population will take a certain meaning from, but a certain group that is "in the know" will take away the secret, intended message. Often involves code words.

Republicans say they want to make civil rights for gays a state issue, which is really just a dog whistle strategy for saying that they will refuse to grant equal rights on a federal level.

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[–] Silentiea@lemm.ee 3 points 1 year ago

It's a shibboleth, a way of asking a question that people who share your ideology will recognize as pushing it, while those who do not will not. This is like a dog whistle that can be heard by dogs but not by humans.

In question form it's also often subtle propaganda, asking a question that presupposes something controversial, like "Why are trans players allowed to win so much on sports?" where the simple shibboleth might be "Should trans players be allowed in sports?" Both are confronting the same point, but the former assumes a trend that has not been demonstrated, while the latter simply assumes some reason without making it clear what the reason is.

[–] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 17 points 1 year ago
[–] RightHandOfIkaros@lemmy.world 11 points 1 year ago

If anything is heavily downvoted on Lemmy, the most likely cause is that people don't like what it says. On rare occasions downvoting is used to correctly identify wrong information or rule breaking content, but most of the time people use it as an "I agree" or "I like this" button.

So if a question here is heavily downvoted, its probably because people don't like the question, despite the necessity of such questions.

[–] fuckwit_mcbumcrumble@lemmy.world 11 points 1 year ago (1 children)
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[–] andrewta@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago

Simple answer is : yes

The problem is everyone is going their own way with it.

[–] amio@kbin.social 6 points 1 year ago

People have their own reasons for downvoting. NSQ is for questions that could be considered "stupid" by people in more judgmental settings. When I downvote NSQ posts it's because I suspect soapboxing or an agenda, not an honest question. Or, in some cases, because it seems people take "no stupid questions" as an outright challenge.

[–] trolololol@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I'd upvote this post. It's spot on.

[–] howrar@lemmy.ca 4 points 1 year ago

Neither. It's because the question does not belong in the community for other reasons, such as being off-topic, or encouraging heated responses.

[–] Krudler@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago

If you down a question that is actually made in bad faith, just as you've done here, down is completely justified.

[–] Cinner@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

Do we have a highthoughts sub for questions like this?

[–] Nemo@midwest.social 3 points 1 year ago

It means it's boring.

[–] iiGxC@slrpnk.net 2 points 1 year ago

Could be a lot of people see it on their feed but don't know what community it's from, and they don't want to see it so they downvote. Especially when people are browsing local or all.

I know lemmynsfw.com had that issue where people would downvote stuff on local that they didn't like, even though it was a good post for the community it was posted to

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