cats

I've got a cat (indoor only) who's normally a lovely little guy who love pets and cuddles. The occasions he slips outside he becomes a rage monster and it often involves getting mauled to catch him and get him back inside.

Being outside their normal space can make cats anxious, anxiety makes affection unwanted. She's concerned her idiot humans will get hurt/lost and she's being vigilant for threats.

She is probably leading you back home (out of danger). She will continue to melt over your years with her and it will be totally worth it as it unfolds.

Cats can be very much like human beings in the way they deal with trauma. Clearly your little girl has had a lot of trauma in her short life. The fact that she is following you and communicating with you are good signs. Just let the relationship grow on her terms. Also, remember humans and cats can be food motivated. 😸

By giving her treats, she eventually sees you as beneficial to her survival. As her comfort with you grows, she will surprise you pleasantly. The key is patience, understanding, and time. Just like a traumatized human takes time to recover, so does a cat's. She may jump into your lap when you least expect it and claim you as her own.

She looks like she hates that collar with a passion.

I had one that did that.

Also a rescue. All affection had to be on her terms as she was a strong independent cat who needed no human. But if we wanted to feed her, and give her a comfortable place to sleep, that was acceptable I guess.

She does not agree with your lifestyle choice.

If she feels anxious or on the alert while outside then petting could cause her to feel overstimulated. For cats just being around you is a way for them to show affection, so if she doesn't like being overstimulated that may be why she's avoiding physical affection. Try just letting her sniff your fingers and maybe rub herself against you, and if she let's you, keep the petting to just her head if she's alright with that much. Then let her leave if she wants to. If even that much is unwanted then that's okay, just avoid petting her. Being near you seems to be enough for her. But it is definitely a sign that she cares about you, if she follows you the whole way.

The cat has a range that she lives and hunts in. If you walk beyond that, she’s stressed. She wants to lead you back into the home area.

Do you take the Egiptyian Goddess out for a walk everyonce in a while, hooman?

Aangriest looking catto

She probably sees the dog as her pet and wants to make sure you are taking care of him.

I like cats.