Colors

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[–] Colors@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago

I should clarify that my intent was never to say all children should be pushed. I just meant that there is now way to tell what the right choice would have been until the child is already grown. Of course, dragging a kid kicking and screaming through the mud is never the way, but for every story an adult has about working in a career they hate, there’s another (see below) that wishes they were playing the piano like they were as a child, but gave up when it was hard and their folks let them quit. We can only reflect on the path taken, good or bad, because the path not taken is unknowable. Of COURSE you know now what the best choice was, you are living in the future of your past self.

Unfortunately, all we humans can do is try to gauge what will bring our children happiness in the future, and maybe we get it right, maybe we fuck it up. As long as you are coming from a place of love, compassion, and understanding, that’s all we can do.

I work in the construction industry, and when talking g about safety, we say that you’ll never know the thousands of lives your choices saved. You only know the choices that didn’t. And you’ll never forget them.

[–] Colors@lemmy.world 19 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

There’s no catch-all plan for parenting. Some kids need to be pushed, some need space, and there’s no way to tell whether the approach was the best approach until “Monday Morning”. All we can do is reflect later on when kids become adults, and even then who knows what the path not taken would have sown? Hopefully, being loving and compassionate is enough, and the fact that we did our best is what will be remembered.

Happy Mother’s Day to all you Moms out there doing the best you can!

[–] Colors@lemmy.world 11 points 1 month ago (2 children)

They’ll feel better after typing in all caps.

[–] Colors@lemmy.world 20 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Can’t confirm the quantity that would release, but a front-loading cement truck would certainly dump at least a small amount of concrete when slamming on the brakes that hard. The slump of the concrete seems to be 7-8”(loose) and there is no mechanism that would completely prevent concrete from spilling forward that I am aware of.

That said, the concrete does appear to continue for a while after reasonably assuming gravity would stop the flow. Maybe he turned on the hydraulics since he was pissed?

[–] Colors@lemmy.world 51 points 2 months ago

It’s actually the pig that says that.

[–] Colors@lemmy.world 2 points 3 months ago

Probably gonna be a hot take but I’ll observe Hat Day as a federal holiday if it means another day I don’t have to be at my shitty job.

[–] Colors@lemmy.world 8 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Oh no, Henry has lupus!

[–] Colors@lemmy.world 9 points 4 months ago (2 children)

The average per capita cost come in Los Angeles county in 2023 was $78,302, up from $29,938 according to FRED. Lots of millionaires live in LA, yes, but many poor folks too. Add this to the average cost of a home of ~$950,000 and the privilege seems less likely for those under the median.

Besides, no one deserves to be homeless.

[–] Colors@lemmy.world 45 points 5 months ago (2 children)

This meme is from the future!

[–] Colors@lemmy.world 3 points 6 months ago

Looks like two trees fucking

[–] Colors@lemmy.world 22 points 10 months ago

Why is the caricature in this image not wearing wraparound sunglasses or sporting a goatee?

[–] Colors@lemmy.world 28 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Those are all expired!!!! Conspiracy to create superior athletic humans?

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