Jay

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[–] Jay@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Yea I would have rather been in prison. There is food and medical care in prison. Poverty kills. I was also lucky enough to have an awesome grandmother to prevent the worse :). Also I want to say that I would never start a 'who has it worse' competition, but I thought my experience could be valuable to my point. I'm glad that you made it out and are doing good now, cheers.

[–] Jay@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Why didn't your father simply move then? What I was trying to say is that being poor isn't as easy and free as you make it sound. I couldn't visit any nice place ever when I was at my lowest. In fact I remember being rammed to the ground by police because I couldn't buy a tram ticket to school and took it illegally anyway. Most days there was nothing I could do other then sit in my flat, sometimes without power or warm water. Eventually I was days away from ending up on the street. I would have welcomed a Norwegian prison cell with open arms and i think your comment downplays the horrors of absolute poverty. Especially considering that in a lot of these fancy prison countries you are actually allowed to leave prison during the day, because they are about reintegration rather then punishment.

[–] Jay@lemmy.blahaj.zone 13 points 1 week ago (5 children)

you sound like you have never lived in true poverty

[–] Jay@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 2 months ago

Brussels can suck my balls we'll wait 6 months and Strasbourg is in power ez bro

[–] Jay@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Not only did they fuck up the translation but also the German. Genderneutralenumkleide can't be one word. Genderneutral is an adjective and Umkleide the object. So it would be "genderneutrale Umkleide".

Edit: unless they refer to the gender neutral people as a group but that wouldn't make a lot of sense. The changing room would only be for Agender people then.

[–] Jay@lemmy.blahaj.zone 15 points 2 months ago (3 children)

That fuck has robbed me of the chance to test my set of morals and improve apon them. I will forever wander this earth uncomplete. Never knowing what the best me could look like. Thanks

[–] Jay@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 2 months ago (2 children)

That's really interesting. But ok I don't want to insult anyone, but wasn't Siddhartha Gautama only one of many many enlightened ones? And do you know if he didn't endorse the entire bhavacakra or just the Bodhisattva?

[–] Jay@lemmy.blahaj.zone 38 points 2 months ago (6 children)

This is a bit intense but praxticrs like this have been used not only by the Buddhists but also the internet's favourite emperor Marcus Aurelius for example. It seems to be really good for you. For a more feasible exercise just tape a square onto the floor and only leave that box for hygiene, work, food and walks. You sleep in the box you meditate in the box and you exercise in the box.

[–] Jay@lemmy.blahaj.zone 17 points 2 months ago (5 children)

I assume you don't believe in Buddhism, but if you do it makes sense. The Dalai Lama is the reincarnation of an enlightened being. Its like if jesus would have come back all the time instead of just once for a few days. (It's not exactly like that and I'm not Buddhist)

[–] Jay@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 2 months ago

I'm in the top 0,75% for System of a Down, Laufey and MF DOOM (and formerly FiftyFifty). I am the "I listen to all genres" personified.

[–] Jay@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 2 months ago

Yea thats tough. I found myself in the same situation 1-2 years ago. I just moved to a different city when I finished highschool. This might not be feasible for your you unfortunately. Even my closest friends in my hometown whom I've known for almost 10 years now don't know. But I found support in local queer community in my new city. It might feel weird at first but it really helps. If you can find a group then reach out.

[–] Jay@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 2 months ago (2 children)

For me all the "female" stuff is just FINTA stuff instead. Easy fix and conservatives don't really know what FINTA means so they don't care and I can celebrate alternative gender identities in peace.

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