LavaPlanet

joined 2 months ago
[–] LavaPlanet@lemm.ee 8 points 3 weeks ago

Us 90% ers up for a class action?

[–] LavaPlanet@lemm.ee 11 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

My Reply to him: What a fking stupid thing to say, men never fail to surprise me with their stupidity.

[–] LavaPlanet@lemm.ee 1 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

Close, but nah, it's the meaning of life

[–] LavaPlanet@lemm.ee 39 points 3 weeks ago (8 children)

It's a thing everywhere that women are routinely told "it's anxiety / depression" etc, and aren't listened to. It takes years longer for women to receive diagnosis for anything. Advocate for the women in your life. Go to doctors appointments with them. Apparently if a man goes with them, they'll, more likely be listened to, team up with someone who won't take no for an answer. It's not just the car dealerships that women face issues, it's everywhere.

[–] LavaPlanet@lemm.ee 6 points 3 weeks ago (9 children)

But you're operating from a state that, all people operate in good faith. These people will twist the narrative no matter what you do. They don't wait for you to validate them. They twist reality and logic and manipulate events. There is no reasoning with these types. If you sit back and do nothing, they'll twist that to their agenda just as much as if you do something. But sitting back guarantees a smooth path of no resistance, they get thier agenda easily. Resisting means they don't get there as easily. Nobody in history made changes by sitting back and sending love vibes, my friend, I truly wish that were the case. Women lost their lives, just for the right to vote. How many rights have been removed or are under threat right now? I mean absolutely no disrespect, and I can see your logic, I just feel like maybe you aren't personally familiar with these manipulative types. I get that you understand reactive abuse and you see they're trying to use that, but it really doesn't matter, they'll do the same thing anyway, so maybe the path is somewhere in the middle, not giving them a reason, but not sitting back quietly and there's no waiting for someone to oppose them, it's now, right now.

[–] LavaPlanet@lemm.ee 4 points 3 weeks ago

Omg, that's fucking hilarious!

[–] LavaPlanet@lemm.ee 13 points 3 weeks ago

Imagine how much they're manipulating the narrative for everything else, too. They can't hide, now there's the ability to live stream. It's all out on show.

[–] LavaPlanet@lemm.ee 33 points 4 weeks ago (2 children)

I read some article the other day, how they had noticed a heavy attempt, by Hollywood, to glamorise and humanise ultra rich, like Yellowstone. Is that so we just sit back and shut up and let the billionaires be. Fk that.

[–] LavaPlanet@lemm.ee 16 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

But it's included in a plex pass. I know a lot of people were saying, a while back, they were happy to purchase a lifetime pass, so as to support the software. I didn't actually realise you could share without the plex pass. I thought that was always a thing.

[–] LavaPlanet@lemm.ee 3 points 1 month ago

You're hyper critical of yourself, but not in any way noticing or assessing your partners behavior. Your partner is at very best a HUGE jerk,and ableist, and at worst, purposefully abusing you and utilizing your disability to gaslight. You just described emotional, psychological abuse and gaslighting, from your partner. No, you won't ever be able to repair this relationship, they will always make you feel like you aren't good enough, that's their aim, that's on purpose. If you do ever meet their (purposefully impossible) ridiculously unachievable expectations, the goal posts will move. Stress to this level will cause your adhd to become more enhanced, so even trying to not be adhd, isn't going to work in this, very damaging environment, you find yourself in. Please let this relationship end, and make plans to safely leave yourself. Don't let them know you're leaving. You need to leave.

[–] LavaPlanet@lemm.ee 1 points 1 month ago

I like your style.

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