Ninjasftw

joined 2 years ago
[–] Ninjasftw@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago

Well yeah, its a hard choice but that's what happens.
Just because its a hard choice doesn't mean it doesn't need to be made if the alternative is a lifetime of unhappiness.

[–] Ninjasftw@lemmy.world 1 points 2 days ago

Im not American so i simply cant relate to the shooting aspect of it although from ive seen are mostly politcal/racial rather than misogynistic. I dont have a great deal of knowledge of it though so happy to admit i could be wrong with it. There are a lot of garbage men out there, no doubt about it. There are also a lot of lost men that fall for the tate type crap. What i really dont get are the conservative women who support it all. Why?

This has drifted a bit from the original subject and i dont want to end up inadvertantly linking lack of housework to domestic violence! My point is that I think far too many people tolerate but complain about a situation without doing anything to fix it. Obv when it comes to violence it needs ti be viewed through a different lense

[–] Ninjasftw@lemmy.world 1 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Threaten to do what?

If women don't put up with it en masse then there is fuck all men can do about it. Mass action is how things change

[–] Ninjasftw@lemmy.world 1 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Some women may believe that changing it is just too much work- it’s not an immutable nor innate property of men that they don’t cook or clean or know anything about the children, but changing that would be an overwhelming amount of work. If the man’s not interested in changing anything, it’s even more daunting, and may damage the relationship

That's what I mean though. Why stay or care about damaging the relationship? Sunk cost fallacy. Some times a hard choice needs to be made. This choice should be made before children/mortgages etc. There's the old stereotype of men enter a relationship thinking the women wont change and women enter a relationship hoping the man will.

[–] Ninjasftw@lemmy.world 2 points 2 days ago (8 children)

The thing i don't get is why do women put up with it?
I think some of it boils down to different standards, generally the neater/cleaner person will expect the other person to change their behaviour. When I hear people moaning about significant others doing nothing I do think that it takes both people to allow it. Most people will live together for a while before marriage/kids so you have no excuse to complain if you know what they're like and still marry etc

[–] Ninjasftw@lemmy.world 10 points 6 days ago (2 children)

A terrorist organisation and every other living thing in the area. So noble....

[–] Ninjasftw@lemmy.world 21 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I think you'll find that what they wanted was Europe to increase their defences spending by buying US made weapons not make their own.

[–] Ninjasftw@lemmy.world 4 points 1 month ago

That's only one very small component of what cloudflare does.
We were affected by the recent issues and spent some time working out alternatives to all the features we use. It was daunting....

[–] Ninjasftw@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago

Well the average website isn't going to be able to protect itself from DDoS attacks or easily provide local cache copies of its content in multiple regions all over the world or create secured tunnels protected from general attacks. My company was affected by this and we are putting in contingency plans for this happening again but the whiteboard that we've created with all the features we need to reinvent is very full...

[–] Ninjasftw@lemmy.world 7 points 1 month ago (1 children)

The thing is though that unless you have a fully remote job you are probably not going to stay earning 100k in colarado springs

[–] Ninjasftw@lemmy.world 7 points 1 month ago

I just can't bring myself to ever agree with that! Get off my lawn!

[–] Ninjasftw@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago

I would think with your username that sticking it in your butt would be the first thing that comes to mind!

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