NotJohnSmith

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[–] NotJohnSmith@feddit.uk 1 points 22 hours ago

Sorry for the slow reply and thank you.

I'm not even sure at this stage if I can as I understand so little but here goes.

He's what I perceive to be high functioning. In fact most of what they call out I view as being just a little boy. I'm slightly concerned that this attitude comes from my own childhood and whether we establish that I'm also neuro divergent but am keen that I focus on him and not me.

He's bright, good with maths as his mum teaches this. Struggles in class as they're not great at understanding his needs and just see him as wiggly/playing class clown to impress others etc.

He has always had sound sensitivity so people calling that out is interesting to me.

We're working with the school to get better mechanisms in place to support himvand my wife is already amazing at helping him at home.

In my head I need to get onboard too, and transition away from being the typical authoritarian role that a dad may take. I need to understand better what autism is and how to support him

[–] NotJohnSmith@feddit.uk 2 points 22 hours ago

I'm sorry for the slow response and appreciate how much time you took to put this in writing. As I read it, it almost read like the desiderata for autism:

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Desiderata

[–] NotJohnSmith@feddit.uk 1 points 22 hours ago

Thanks so much for this. Also the words of wisdom.

[–] NotJohnSmith@feddit.uk 2 points 22 hours ago

Sorry for the slow reply, I appreciate your response and will certainly take you up on it

[–] NotJohnSmith@feddit.uk 3 points 22 hours ago

Does that need to be a truck though? I guess in your situation it does but I can't imagine living so far off road that I need a truck to run to the store.

I do like the concept of Bezos truck (having always felt EV design should have gone in the direction of small efficient low range cars) but feel it won't carry anything that a small estate couldn't.

[–] NotJohnSmith@feddit.uk 15 points 22 hours ago (9 children)

I see the same but cannot for the life of me understand how the stock isn't shitting the bed. The whole US market is irrational at this stage but Tesla is just ridiculous

[–] NotJohnSmith@feddit.uk 4 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

How do you know that's a bot please? Is it specifically a hot advertising that online photos hop equivalent? Is it a real software or scam? The whole approach is intriguing to me

[–] NotJohnSmith@feddit.uk 6 points 1 day ago

My grandfather loved going out on his bike when he was told he couldn't drive any more. It was critical to his quality of life. What's Trump got: just a once-superpower to grind into oblivion.

[–] NotJohnSmith@feddit.uk 8 points 1 day ago

The person you're replying to is Canadian and agreeing with your sentiment, pointing out an example of a product they have that can't easily be exchanged also.

Good work BTW on de-Americanising. I'm trying also but don't buy alot, particularly brands. I'm left with trying to not use American tech

[–] NotJohnSmith@feddit.uk 4 points 1 day ago (5 children)

Would you say you're in the minority or is it evident that most Canadians are boycotting?

Do you feel any slow down of the movement?

[–] NotJohnSmith@feddit.uk 4 points 2 days ago

Haha, majestic!

[–] NotJohnSmith@feddit.uk 9 points 2 days ago

Sorry for your loss, she will always be a beautiful dog.

 

My 5yr old son has just been diagnosed. The diagnosis was binary (yes:no) rather than a scale which was the first lesson for me.

I need to understand how to support him and am not sure where to start. Does anyone have any advice please?

 

Ok, hit me with ideas please. I can't afford to double the cost but am prepared to pay extra for European cat food, both dry and wet.

Anyone found good options? I'm in the UK which may limit my options

 

Only just taken it up, came from tennis so I'm a reasonable level (3.5ish).

I'm keen to play when I'm on holiday in Spain and wondered what people felt was the best way of approaching this.

Do I email the nearest club and ask them to set me up with some of their club members? Or maybe just focus on 1-2-1 coaching? (would that even work or would you need a pair to do coaching?).

Is there an app in Spain where you advertise to have a game? I think playtomic is meant to be but doesn't seem too active.

We're at a kids resort so I thought to ask the resort to try to organise but I don't think they'll want to be doing this just to entertain me lol

Any other ideas appreciated

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