OpenStars

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[โ€“] OpenStars@piefed.social 5 points 5 hours ago* (last edited 5 hours ago)

On the one hand, things aren't as bad as all that... yet. But they are coming, with absolute certainty.

Maybe take a walk outside? Enjoy it as much as you possibly can, just that once... repeat as often as desired, for one week (one month?).

Then start thinking about coping strategies. Some people may want to hide their particular identities (~~get~~ a beard - aheam I totally meant "grow" there, yeah sure), others may want to carry their passport with them at all times - and not in a place easily grabbed during a "robbery" (someone who might get off on sending someone legal out of the country by making it appear as if they were illegal).

But statistically speaking, for right this moment most people are safe? Again, for now... though this will not hold true for too much longer. And thus your anxiety: it is hard to stay ready for something when there is nothing you can DO about it. You can't fight, you seem to have decided not to flee (in the short term), hence you feel stuck. If it helps, we all die, and that's outside of our control. Decide how you want to live, from here on out, and then stick with that. Do whatever you have to in order to make that happen. It might mean leaving, or moving to stay with others than your family. It is hard to deal with so much at once but that is the path set before us now.

And do me a favor? Please be kind to yourself in the meantime while you figure all of this out ๐Ÿฅฐ. It takes a fucking minute to process all this, you know?

[โ€“] OpenStars@piefed.social 3 points 8 hours ago

Maybe YOU are...

(and also so am I:-)

[โ€“] OpenStars@piefed.social 2 points 13 hours ago

"yes"

(also basketball)

[โ€“] OpenStars@piefed.social 8 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

Naw, sounds like ~~too much~~ ~~too little~~ just the right amount of effort.

[โ€“] OpenStars@piefed.social 2 points 16 hours ago

That's okay - there are none that would offer it for this abomination! :-P

[โ€“] OpenStars@piefed.social 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I-I-I think I've seen this meme before, maybe a dozen, maybe a hundred times? It's impossible to tell!?

I find it anatomically incorrect.

The stick should go waaaay up in there, rather than him balancing on top of it as shown here.

Unless it's... both? In which case, absolutely approved!:-)

Are you so certain that you want to know?! ๐Ÿคช

G-g-glory to you, and your house!

(Runs away screaming in terror)

- literally every inhabitant of the shire

Not "constant" no... more like occasionally it opens and lets it out.

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(I really had to hold myself back from changing the second captain to caption... yes on ~~purpose~~ porpoise!?)

Edit: bonus second meme:

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I can haz meme? (piefed.social)
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not my OC

 

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(not my OC)

 

Not what you'd prefer to wear, but what you have to:-).

For me: as casual as I can possibly manage. In the past that has varied anywhere from shorts, up to button up shirts and slacks, or down to pajama type pants (combined with maybe a nicer shirt during a Zoom call:-).

But I'll probably have to dress up more in my next job, maybe, and I'm not really looking forward to it.:-(

 

Maybe a different religion, or especially political beliefs seems to be a big deal-breaker. Do you still find it worthwhile to keep them in your life?

I do. I have e.g. Christian Conservative friends, and Atheist Liberal ones, etc. I enjoy each one for what they are. I mean, nobody is perfect! (like me ๐Ÿ˜)

 

I've done well over an hour before (one way), but it definitely takes planning so not anywhere close to casual. At that point, perhaps other transportation may be used to return. And/or even if a daily/weekly occurrence, it takes discipline to do things like leave on time and stay informed throughout the day to handle weather events, plus wearing certain clothing to handle sweat and sun and rain etc. Biking is definitely preferable to walking for that level of distance/time, though I've done both.

More routinely, and perhaps with little notice, maybe... 20 minutes? (one way) It's hard to say bc it depends on what stores are where, whether the purchases will fit comfortably into my bag, etc. But I'd leave at a moment's notice for such a trip if need be and the conditions are conducive to it.

What about you: what's your cutoff?

 

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So... there's that, at least.

 

At least, it makes as much sense as anything else right about now...

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