PolarKraken

Received, thanks!

I'd like an invite please.

Well, fair enough. I'm certainly not looking for an argument either.

Might be time to re-evaluate now that some time has passed? Sure seems like someone with a grudge against UM created accounts to stir the pot and make them look (very) bad.

Your evidence here doesn't seem that compelling. The egregious stuff - posting from Breitbart et al, antagonistic trolling comment chains - doesn't match UM's conduct anywhere else (suggesting the troll-created-accounts theory for those instances of bad behavior).

And the non-egregious stuff (e.g. having multiple accounts for different instances (I do that) and posting to a community from one, not realizing another account had been bot-banned there) - those seem like the kind of missteps any average person would make under a crazy scenario like this.

I mean, what's the alternative theory? It was all UM, and they have since COMPLETELY cleaned up their act...so they can do what? More stuff like that someday in the future? That's a lotta pretty sincere effort for a long time, why bother? Anyone trying to attack and disrupt the Lemmyverse from an ideology/propaganda standpoint would just create new accounts. This sure seems to me like a normal-ass person who just wants to keep their account name and isn't willing to be bullied off of it.

To be honest, you come across as the vindictive unreasonable one at this point. Not tryna be a jerk, I was curious about all this so I looked at everything you posted, and I came away feeling like you really ought to just move on. Feels like an unhealthy and inaccurate hangup you're holding onto. But hey I'm just some stranger on the Internet lol, feel free to tell me to go fuck myself, all good!

Are you familiar with iFixit? They provide a ton of technical manuals from what I've heard, but I haven't personally used them. Also be aware of library.kiwix.org - they're a Swiss charity that provides archival downloads of knowledge bases, including iFixit. They might have more resources that you'd be interested in too.

Great reminders about the lack of physiological markers. The (or one?) elephant in the room, to me - I'd phrase it as - to what degree a kid's just naturally well- or poorly-suited to the public school environment itself.

A child that finds it difficult to sit in one place and listen to words about abstract material for hours every day...I mean does that sound divergent in any way?

One of the fundamental markers of childhood in my experience is a certain...animation, just this almost irresistible urge to move around, negotiate whatever activity is occurring and in what way, with whoever is nearby...switching activities and modes of play fluidly. Seems like the most normal shit ever to me lol.

I do recognize we need a standardized way to educate our kids in a modern society, but as we learn more about young brains, we gotta start developing a more diverse way to accomplish the learning and development of self-discipline. The one-size-fits-all approach just obviously leaves many underserved, and worse, leaves them internalizing a lot of frustration with self, not to mention taking all kinds of drugs to "treat those symptoms".

Well spill the beans ya old goat, which two games?!

Pshaw, dunk rejected! American cheese is a better product and better cheese than most give it credit for! Wish I still had the wall of text I stumbled onto that helped me see the light, I'll never do it justice.

But basically it's cheese with an emulsifier built-in, which was a true innovation when it was introduced. And that's why it melts so easily - you can even add some to other cheeses to get them to be more melty and gooey! American cheese makes other cheeses more cheesy - that's a solid W with nothing else needed.

But I mean...it's also, just self-evidently, incontrovertibly - the best cheese for a cheeseburger. I will fight IRL over this lol.

That other comment or post I'm thinking of went into the "grades" of it, and how much actual cheese is or isn't in some varieties, but I don't remember those details sadly.

Edit: punctuation

I'm eating ramen with a slice of American cheese in it right now and there is not a THING either of you can do about it!

Cheese goes on everything, fight me!

Reads to me like "a thing arriving via evolution does not assign any kind of moral value, good or bad, to the thing". Maybe going so far as "we should use language more carefully", but now I'm really reaching.

You're right that it's hard, and that it's kind of a "put on your own mask before helping others" scenario. If you're just barely holding on, you're right, you may not be well-positioned to provide help. And in that case, the critical priority for you should be to get out of that situation first. Easier said than done, I know.

But, take heart! There are skills and habits and such you can build along the way that play to your own strengths and which will be useful if things get truly gnarly. Starting on them several years ago would have been better than starting on them today, but starting today is better than starting tomorrow.

I had this big exhaustive list (in a Lemmy comment thread) of things to pick and choose from to try to slowly get better at - it's since been deleted! I'm working on tracking that down so I can provide it here, it was seriously useful (and heartening, in the way it shows how we can all contribute due to the wide range of things needed).

deuces ex machina lmao, that's a great idea.