aphlamingphoenix

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[–] aphlamingphoenix@lemm.ee 2 points 4 months ago (1 children)

I'm so glad you linked the Wolf Parade song and not She Drives Me Crazy.

[–] aphlamingphoenix@lemm.ee 5 points 5 months ago (3 children)

No American presidential candidate ever represents Americans' best interests. It is not possible to vote in your best interests here.

[–] aphlamingphoenix@lemm.ee 3 points 5 months ago

Lol, I've used a web service monitor platform called Wormly before.

[–] aphlamingphoenix@lemm.ee 1 points 5 months ago (1 children)

And the other side of that token is that people shouldn't have to rely on churches for survival. I'm sure you do good work, and I generally have no grief with (f/ex) the unitarians who also do good community work, but churches (and secular aid orgs, etc.) do not make society on their own and should not take the fall or bear responsibility for the failings of capitalism.

[–] aphlamingphoenix@lemm.ee 3 points 5 months ago

So... My father is a retired cop who used to abuse the shit out of me and my brother. Used to brag at the dinner table about arresting people for a crime he called "POPO" (that's Pissing Off a Police Officer). He simultaneously won't accept that these actions are abuses of his authority and power. He sees himself as a "good cop" among a majority of "good cops". So he doesn't even recognize his abuse as abusive.

So he doesn't understand why I tell his autistic grandsons not to talk to cops. He doesn't get that autistic people have processing delays and may not be able to understand an instruction, especially when it is being shouted at them in a high stress situation. Or that they may not be able to turn an instruction into the correct body movement. Or they may need clarification on the instruction, or like, just not be bossed around in the first place.

He completely flipped out, as a matter of fact, becoming verbally abusive toward me when I supported my decision with some uncomfortable citations (he had the same look on his face as he used to get when he would beat me, which caused some PTSD flare ups over the following months, but he did not strike, probably because he knew I'd have prosecuted his ass). He wound up on some insane rant about Jesus and God and love. Absolute delusional refusal of the notion that someone might not be a bootlicking sycophant for every cop in the universe by default, or that someone might feel uncomfortable around a person with outsized power and influence over them and a gang of others in the same position a radio call away.

[–] aphlamingphoenix@lemm.ee 4 points 5 months ago

You forgot outright refusal to engage with reality.

[–] aphlamingphoenix@lemm.ee 12 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Tell that to my Catholic trumper parents.

[–] aphlamingphoenix@lemm.ee 7 points 5 months ago

My partner and I go to the basement and see who can do the best job of it. We have an underground wrap battle.

[–] aphlamingphoenix@lemm.ee 2 points 5 months ago

I mean, culture war bullshit and hate is ignoring the city's needs.

[–] aphlamingphoenix@lemm.ee 13 points 5 months ago

That's odd. My HOA mostly just issues fines for things like weeds growing in rocky waterways.

[–] aphlamingphoenix@lemm.ee 5 points 5 months ago (1 children)

I think the general reception of this news shows that any successful prosecution would be seen as such an injustice, and likely to spark further acts of rebellion. I almost think it's in the ruling class's favor to let this one go.

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