Except, John's enlarged Dodge Ram makes him statistically a greater danger to everyone and their kids. In daily life, John is a more relevant danger to me than pretty much anything else. If John is in the USA, the children at this school are most likely to die of a car collision -- with increased fatalities correlated with popularity of trucks like John's -- or a firearms incident, funnily enough also subject to a statistical correlation with light truck ownership. Between 19 and 24, vehicle collisions are the number one cause of death regardless of gender; only beat out by poisonings and suicide as you get older. Again, light trucks are correlated with higher rates of fatalies. If you're in those age groups and don't have a substance abuse or mental illness disorder, John is the most likely thing to kill you in your life.
People like John are apathetic about the casual brutality of such a vehicle, that is in fact the point of the hypermasculinity molded into it. I don't want him around me, and I don't want him around my kids. He chose to be dangerous and individual rights doesn't mean you can threaten others with impunity. That's why neglect can land you with murder or manslaughter charges.
Make no mistake, American fascism will sustain itself through a Democratic Party member. Their interests are common, but their image is not. Trump's fascism is clumsy and dependent on the good will of blackmailers to survive, it will not last long. Democrats hope to walk into an authoritarian regime that would not be possible through their usual tactics of control and carry on the same work with less resistance.