pleasestopasking

joined 2 years ago
MODERATOR OF

Or they just don't care and think people will stay with them out of habit.

[–] pleasestopasking@reddthat.com 6 points 2 weeks ago (11 children)

Set an alarm for an hour and a half before you wake up. Pop the Vyvanse then go back to sleep. Makes it so much easier to get out of bed once the meds start hitting.

[–] pleasestopasking@reddthat.com 31 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

This is why work from home is such a blessing. In an office I could never be able to fuck around as much as I do, but I was definitely less productive overall because I wouldn't do the hyperfocus periods because I was recently l resentful about being at the office.

[–] pleasestopasking@reddthat.com 61 points 2 weeks ago

You're lookin at it

[–] pleasestopasking@reddthat.com 9 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

I know you're a real one because of the chomchom in the background.

[–] pleasestopasking@reddthat.com 2 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

If the container is big enough, consider putting the whole bag in there. It keeps it protected from light (if it's a translucent container) and keeps it even more compact so there's less airspace around it.

There's a lot of merit in the phrase "the truth will set you free." You can tear down the dam and drain the sea of lies. But when I say the truth, I mean all of it. Your wife has a right to know the whole truth, down to the last detail. To her, your life has to be an open book. She needs to be able to ask you anything and know that you will be honest with her, even if it's something she'll be hurt by. In fact, it's ok to preface answers with something like, "I'm afraid my answer is going to be hurtful but if you really want to know I will tell you.

I'm not disagreeing with you, but this should start with asking your wife if she wants to know all the details, if there's any hard lines, if she wants specificities or an outline, or if she'd rather not know it reassess later.

[–] pleasestopasking@reddthat.com 12 points 3 weeks ago

Why did you cheat Because you were angry with your wife? Because you like the other woman?

These are far from the only two reasons. Some people cheat because they are unhappy with their lives generally, outside of a partner, and don't know why. Some people have impulse control issues. Substance abuse. These are not excuses, but explanations.

Couple's therapy is often recommended after infidelity. I think it's far more important for the person who cheated to start with individual therapy. If you don't change your behavior you can't rebuild trust.

[–] pleasestopasking@reddthat.com 11 points 3 weeks ago

a paralegal made a mistake

haha good one

[–] pleasestopasking@reddthat.com 4 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Soup is a salad with way to much dressing

 

"If you raise the fucking hot dog, I will kill you. Figure it out."

In quotes and attributed, in a conversation about the Costco hot dog. But apparently I'm threatening violence. Lol

 

Whatever "too long" means to you. What eventually helped to lessen the pain?

 

Things like frozen lasagna and stew are classics for new parents, but not exactly the greatest light fare. What are your faves that:

  • can be easily eaten when you drop them off, or popped in the fridge for later
  • don't require turning on the oven
  • are refreshing in the heat
  • are nutritious, not too junky
 

I found this so easy and it's a great result! Perfect for summery pieces :)

 

Share a link and why you like them!

 

If you are a Procreate user (or want to be), come share your tips and tutorials, ask questions, and show us your art at this new Procreate community on the Reddthat server.

!procreate@reddthat.com

reddthat.com/c/procreate

 

Feel free to introduce yourself here! What is your experience with Procreate? What's your gear? What style(s) of art do you make? And anything else you'd like to share! 🖌️

 

I have English set as the primary language in my phone settings, but Spanish set as an additional one so I can swipe type in it – estoy probiendo practicar más lol. When I visited Lemmy the interface kept defaulting to Spanish for whatever reason.

Anyway after making my account I was able to change the language in my Lemmy account settings from "browser default" to English without having to delete the secondary language on my phone. Not sure why this is the only site that thinks Spanish is my default!

(Chrome, Android 13, Google Pixel 7 if anyone is curious.)

view more: next ›