shark_phenomenon

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I apologize if I sound like one of those typical “loudmouthed” Americans here. I’m Autistic and planning to visit Vancouver Island for my 30th birthday trip with my family this July because I want to visit Canada and help support Canada with my tourist dollars (Elbows Up!) and still support that Pacific Northwest connection. Canada for the most part is an incredibly safe and friendly travel destination. I am purposefully choosing to visit Vancouver Island over anywhere in the States. For me, British Columbia feels extremely similar to the US West Coast... minus all the anti-intellectual, anti-science and religious fundamentalist people of course. I might not be able to buy many Canadian-based products here in the States, but traveling to Canada is a fantastic way for me to make a great contribution to the Buy Canadian movement, “help” support our northern neighbors against our horrendous government, and protest against "American Exceptionalism".

I am coming from Washington state. We have so many cultural and geopolitical similarities. When I visited the “big” Vancouver city back in 2018, most of the locals were incredibly friendly and I had so many wonderful conversations. Unfortunately with our current government as well as a sizable portion of the American people who are completely out of touch with the rest of the world, majority of Canadians are boycotting most US products and all travel to the USA. And let’s be real, we deserve it after all the sh1t Trump and many of his supporters are saying about your awesome country! Unless an economic catastrophe happens, most Americans who still support Trump will never learn. They will continue to think that their country is the best in the world. The worst part about all this is that even after Trump is gone, the damage has already been done. Majority of Canadians will view the USA as an acquaintance and not a good friend. Growing up as a kid in the Portland area, I remember that many of the most popular and well-liked kids in my school were Canadian immigrants from the Greater Vancouver area. Nowadays, it makes perfect sense that people in BC are canceling all their Washington state trips while opting for much more friendlier places such as the UK, Portugal, Netherlands, France, Japan and even Mexico.

With all of this being said, how are regular American tourists and especially tourists from the northwest USA viewed here in BC in general? Especially Americans who spend money on Canadian businesses and stay in hotels or regular B&Bs while avoiding Airbnbs at all costs? I am planning to visit Vancouver Island with my immediate family. We plan to stay for 3 days and drive all the way to Sproat Lake and do some hiking and sightseeing before coming back to Victoria and catching a ferry back to Port Angeles. I wished we could go all the way to Tofino and Ucluelet, but all the lodging situation there is precarious during the peak season. We’re exploring Victoria and some of the popular nature sports in the southern and central parts of the island.

[–] shark_phenomenon@lemmy.world 3 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

Florida is unfortunately a MAGA and Trump stronghold, and even I don't want to spend any tourist dollars there.

 

Sorry if I sound like one of those "loudmouthed" Americans here. I'm planning to visit Vancouver Island for my 30th birthday trip this July because I want to visit Canada and help support Canada with my tourist dollars (Elbows Up!) and still support that Pacific Northwest connection. I am purposefully choosing to visit Vancouver Island over anywhere in the States. For me, British Columbia feels almost the same as the US West Coast minus all the anti-intellectual, anti-science and religious fundamentalist people. I might not be able to buy many Canadian-based products here in the States, but traveling to Canada is a fantastic way for me to make a great contribution to the Buy Canadian movement and "help" support our northern neighbors against our horrendous government.

I am coming from Washington state. We have so many cultural and geopolitical similarities. When I visited the "big" Vancouver city back in 2018, most of the locals were very friendly and I had so many wonderful conversations. Unfortunately with our current government as well as a sizable portion of the American people who are completely out of touch with the rest of the world, majority Canadians are boycotting traveling to the USA. Let's be real, we deserve it after all the sh1t Trump and many of his supporters are saying about your awesome country! Unless an economic catastrophe happens, most Americans who still support Trump will never learn. They will continue to think that their country is the best in the world. The worst part about all this is that even after Trump is gone, the damage has already been done. Majority of Canadians will just view the USA as a distant acquaintance. Growing up as a kid, some of the most popular and well-liked kids in my school were Canadian immigrants from the Greater Vancouver area. It makes perfect sense that people in BC are canceling all their Washington state trips while opting for much more friendlier places such as the UK, Portugal, Netherlands, France, Japan and even Mexico.

With all of this being said, how are regular American tourists and especially tourists from the northwest USA viewed here and in Vancouver Island in general? Especially Americans who spend money on Canadian businesses and stay in hotels or traditional B&Bs while avoiding Airbnbs? I am planning to visit Victoria and the rest of your incredible island with my immediate family. We plan to stay for 3 days and drive all the way to Sproat Lake and do some hiking and sightseeing before coming back to Victoria and catching a ferry back to Port Angeles. I wished we could go all the way to Tofino and Ucluelet, but all the lodging situation there is precarious during the peak season. We're exploring Victoria and some of the popular nature sports in the southern and central island.

EDIT: Fixed some wording and typos.

Absolutely. There is actually some very good and educational stuff on TikTok, just like Reddit. However once you go away from the purely educational content and into where the influencers, politics and activists are, it gets toxic very fast. Even trends like this whole "winter arc" that I am seeing on TikTok that focuses on fitness and improving physique easily can easily be a gateway for teenage males and younger men to fall into the alt-right pipeline. I was never into the alt-right, but I did have similar thoughts towards a very large and loud segment of women on the site (not in real life however).

 

Bit of a long post here.

I am an 29 year old Autistic guy from the northwest USA who started developing a serious addiction to Instagram and TikTok during the COVID pandemic. It got worse around 2022 when I lost my job. TikTok, like Reddit, does have lots of very informational and interesting content on there and I enjoyed watching lots of travel videos as well as many math and science related videos. What made TikTok a very attractive platform for younger Americans was how it tapped into a niche market very well. TikTok was mainly good for short form video content and especially videos that were under a minute. There were lots of interesting information on TikTok and interesting features that made it much more interesting to use compared to Reddit. Since TikTok is a very international platform, we could see lots of news and travel content from all over the world. I loved watching travel and international videos on TikTok However even those “educational” travel videos can become toxic as it’s mainly travel influencers who travel all over the world to visit nice places and make give us FOMO. In reality, they most likely come from wealthy families, have an abnormally high carbon footprint flying to all sorts of different places, and likely staying in Airbnbs instead of hotels to save up on any accommodation costs.

Unfortunately like Twitter and even Reddit, TikTok does have some major problems when it comes to toxicity and trolling. Especially if users are relatively anonymous by having some obscure username and profile picture. Most of these problems started when I got into some problems with some younger women on TikTok I didn’t know but made me very angry for some reasons. I made some nasty messages about them until one of them called me out. Thinking about it now, I very much regret it now and I wished I could apologize. After this, I’ve been contemplating about deleting TikTok. I already uninstalled Instagram but I still don’t want to delete it completely as I have lots of great material on there from the past.

TikTok, and social media in general, has became a massive scourge for younger people. It has made marginalized men significantly more misogynistic and chauvinistic. It has made marginalized CIS heterosexual people significantly more homophobic and extremely transphobic. It has made people in general much more racist towards people of other ethnic and racial backgrounds, and much more bigoted towards people of other religions.

Nowadays, TikTok has suddenly became an extremely vile place for anyone who is Indian. Many of these incredibly racist and hateful comments are being made by non-White people of color and sometimes Pakistanis and Bangladeshis who share the same racial background as us. TikTok a Chinese social media giant that was banned in India for some bizarre reasons, but this means that India has become the punching bag for jokes. I don’t mean playful jokes. I mean genuinely disgusting and racist comments. I am of Indian-origin (born to Indian immigrant parents) and right now there is a conflict going on with India and Pakistan. On one video, there is a comment made by an anonymous user that has over 3,000 likes that said “I hope Pakistan nukes the sh** out of India and cleans the entire world of this plague!” On another video, another comment with almost 50,000 likes said “The smelliest war in the world!” India has a myriad of problems, especially when it comes to public safety and corruption. However after reading some of these comments, I am ready to pull the plug on my TikTok account and say “Bye Bye” to TikTok forever. I hate how Google also uses TikTok for many videos as well.

 

I am an autistic 29 year old guy who started developing a serious addiction to Instagram and TikTok during the COVID pandemic. It got worse around 2022 when I lost my job. TikTok, like Reddit, does have lots of very informational and interesting content on there and I enjoyed watching lots of travel videos as well as many math and science related videos. However even those “educational” travel videos can become toxic as it’s mainly travel influencers who travel all over the world to visit nice places and make give us FOMO. In reality, they most likely come from wealthy families, have an abnormally high carbon footprint flying to all sorts of different places, and likely staying in cheap Airbnbs instead of hotels.

Most of these problems started when I got into some problems with some younger women on TikTok I didn’t know but made me very angry for some reasons. I made some nasty messages about them until one of them called me out. Thinking about it now, I very much regret it now and I wished I could apologize. After this, I’ve been contemplating about deleting TikTok. I already uninstalled Instagram but I still don’t want to delete it completely as I have lots of great material on there from the past.

TikTok, and social media in general, has became a massive scourge for younger people. It has made marginalized men more misogynistic and chauvinistic. It has made marginalized CIS heterosexual people more homophobic and extremely transphobic. It has made people in general much more racist towards other ethnicities.

Nowadays, TikTok has suddenly became an extremely vile place for anyone who is Indian. It’s a Chinese social media giant that was banned in India for some bizarre reasons, but this means that India has become the punching bag for jokes. I don’t mean playful jokes. I mean genuinely disgusting and racist comments I am of Indian-origin (born to Indian immigrant parents) and right now there is a conflict going on with India and Pakistan. On one video, there is a comment made by an anonymous user that has over 3,000 likes that said “I hope Pakistan nukes the sh** out of India and cleans the entire world of this plague!” On another video, another comment with over 10,000 likes said “The smelliest war in the world!” India has a myriad of problems, especially when it comes to public safety and corruption. However after reading some of these comments, I am ready to pull the plug on my TikTok account and say “Bye Bye” to TikTok forever.

 

I am an autistic 29 year old guy who started developing a serious addiction to Instagram and TikTok during the COVID pandemic. It got worse around 2022 when I lost my job. TikTok, like Reddit, does have lots of very informational and interesting content on there and I enjoyed watching lots of travel videos as well as many math and science related videos. However even those "educational" travel videos can become toxic as it's mainly travel influencers who travel all over the world to visit nice places and make give us FOMO. In reality, they most likely come from wealthy families, have an abnormally high carbon footprint flying to all sorts of different places, and likely staying in cheap Airbnbs instead of hotels.

It started when I got into some problems with some younger women on TikTok I didn't know but made me very angry for some reasons. I made some nasty messages about them until one of them called me out. Thinking about it now, I very much regret it now and I wished I could apologize. After this, I've been contemplating about deleting TikTok. I already uninstalled Instagram but I still don't want to delete it completely as I have lots of great material on there from the past.

TikTok, and social media in general, has became a massive scourge for younger people. It has made marginalized men more misogynistic and chauvinistic. It has made marginalized CIS heterosexual people more homophobic and extremely transphobic. It has made people in general much more racist towards other ethnicities.

Nowadays, TikTok has suddenly became an extremely vile place for anyone who is Indian. It's a Chinese social media giant that was banned in India for some bizarre reasons, but this means that India has become the punching bag for jokes. I don't mean playful jokes. I mean genuinely disgusting and racist comments I am of Indian-origin (born to Indian immigrant parents) and right now there is a conflict going on with India and Pakistan. On one video, there is a comment made by an anonymous user that has over 3,000 likes that said "I hope Pakistan nukes the sh** out of India and cleans the entire world of this plague!" On another video, another comment with over 10,000 likes said "The smelliest war in the world!" India has a myriad of problems, especially when it comes to public safety and corruption. However after reading some of these comments, I am ready to pull the plug on my TikTok account and say "Bye Bye" to TikTok forever.

 

I'm an Autistic 29 year old guy who can do everything normally, but I can really struggle with finding a job and keeping a job. Hearing what RFK Jr. had to say about the Autistic community, we need to show up on the streets to show that we can stand up on our own have our voices be heard loud and clear. The Trump admin wants to make it sound like they have good intentions for us, but that is not the case! We already live difficult lives fitting into society as we can do just about everything by ourselves but still be socially different. It's not supposed to be a curse, but it is. I didn't go for the April 5th or April 19th protests. I also feel left out not attending any of the BLM protests back in 2020 while all my other family members got to attend one. I live in Portland, a very politically active city.

[–] shark_phenomenon@lemmy.world 5 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

It was a nice concept in the 2010s when it was like an advanced version of Couchsurfing or a digital version of a homestay. Then of course it became an unsustainable business model and went to dogs when it became a money making scheme for finance bros to buy up housing and charge 4-star hotel prices.

[–] shark_phenomenon@lemmy.world -2 points 1 month ago

I booked the Airbnb room (not an entire unit, screw that) in an owned-occupied house back in December, and this was before one of the founders joined DOGE. I wished I stayed in a hotel though since they weren't super expensive ($180 a night with taxes). I stayed in a hotel in NYC though.

 

I visited your awesome city in February of this year. Despite the Boston stereotypes, I found the people very outgoing and friendly. I'm from Portland where I wanted to explore the NE USA since I love train travel and walkable cities. During my travels in Boston, I carefully chose to stay in an Airbnb room near MIT since hotel prices can be absurdly expensive and I wanted to be ethical. From there, I walked across the Longfellow Bridge to Back Bay and made my way to Beacon Hill where I checked out Quincy Market, Newbury Street and Seaport.

I hoped to escape the dark and dreary PNW weather in exchange for colder but much more sunnier weather. Little did I know that this winter would be a difficult one. It snowed on my first day Temperatures hovered around 22°F (-6°C), but the lack of wind and dry sunny weather made it feel similar to a dreary 40°F (4°C) day back home.

The old-world British architecture and layout made the city feel very vibrant and inviting, even in the difficult winter months. I was impressed seeing so many people outside and enjoying the vibrant ambiance on Newbury Street. Thank you Boston!