stella

joined 2 years ago
[–] stella@lemmy.blahaj.zone 15 points 2 years ago

auch unpassend, bin eher submissiv

[–] stella@lemmy.blahaj.zone 29 points 2 years ago (2 children)

würde mir ja gern den zwischenschritt sparen und direkt den schwanz schütteln. leider nicht gesellschaftlich akzeptiert

[–] stella@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 2 years ago (3 children)

incorrect. "he" for unknown gender is entirely an internet thing, because of the misogynistic assumption that everyone on the internet is male. in real life, youd always use "they" and not even notice as a native speaker

[–] stella@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 2 years ago

same. been on pills for 6 months now, never missed a day, levels seem mostly fine (next checkup is this week), and im very glad i only need to be touched by a needle every few months rather than every week

[–] stella@lemmy.blahaj.zone 39 points 2 years ago

the title of your post displays a serious issue that isnt given enough attention. the amount of discourse and controversy about trans people in politics and media leads to many trans people feeling like their existence, or their decision to transition, is a political one. it is not. there is nothing political about you or how you live your life. you dont have to appease anyone. dont let them force you into detransitioning. just be yourself, take care of yourself, and live as the person you want to be.

also, please stop looking at trans discourse in media because clearly it has affected you very negatively. do yourself a favor and cut off the negativity. get yourself a safe space, whether that be here, somewhere else online, or irl, and dont try to confront the negativity. its not worth your time

[–] stella@lemmy.blahaj.zone 32 points 2 years ago (4 children)

thats not how the fediverse does things

[–] stella@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 2 years ago (2 children)

nothing wrong with being slutty or having multiple partners of any kind! do whatever feels right :3

[–] stella@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 2 years ago (1 children)

i 100% agree! its so frustrating that the commonly used labels imply both the gender of me and the people im attracted to. id use those words you mentioned if only they werent so ugly

[–] stella@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 2 years ago (10 children)

the fact that they spelled "renaissance" wrong may have something to do with it

[–] stella@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 2 years ago

does it? where? it just says error for me

[–] stella@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 2 years ago

good point, thanks for the hint! im generally wary with config exports tho so ill still keep the app around just in case something goes wrong

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