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[–] melbaboutown@aussie.zone 9 points 4 months ago (2 children)

You have no idea how much that shit sets you back in life. While other kids are building skills and confidence and networking you’re stuck in survival mode and start out at a massive disadvantage.

Look at it like this. If you’re not able to thrive to that level yet and unable to provide whatever it is that they want, is it really your fault? What did they give you? It was their job to build you up and since that didn’t happen they don’t reap the fruits.

I think they get what they gave. /shrug

[–] Seagoon_@aussie.zone 6 points 4 months ago (1 children)

I bet Spud gives them more time and care they ever gave her.