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Why do men keep on having dates with me and then eventually leave? (lemmy.zip)

submitted 6 days ago by choihanna@lemmy.zip to c/askmen@lemmy.world

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So before anything I'm a trans woman (20), I do not claim to be a real woman or try to put women down or mock them. So please I'd like to ask you to abstein from comments about it because I already know what I am.

I've been trying dating apps because they feel safer than just dating people from your daily life when I was a teen (friends and classmates).

I do have a note on my profile that notifies these men about what I am before they can chat with me, some unmatch, others will say bad stuff before leaving, but another big amount stay. Everything goes fine we chat for a long time, we have a few dates, but in the end they all seem to lose interest at some point.

It just makes me so tired of meeting a lot of different men every month. I don't understand what they want.

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[–] choihanna@lemmy.zip 1 points 6 days ago (1 children)

I haven't met any man yet who told me he got a lot of matches from older married women, maybe I need more male friends but I haven't heard much of it 😅

[–] rumschlumpel@feddit.org 6 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (1 children)

Have you met a man who gets a lot of matches from any women? Seems to be the main issue for most men on dating apps. Also, IDK why people would even mention that they're married if they're only looking for something sexual.

[–] choihanna@lemmy.zip 2 points 6 days ago

I don't know, it does seem dumb but that's what they do