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This doesn't even scratch the surface of how weird the Dutch are. See this translation isn't really accurate, "Geef me een klap papa" translates to "Hit me father". A more accurate translation would be: "Geef me billenkoek pappie". (Even though this stil isn't completely accurate, the daddy thing got borrowed from US culture, so would still be daddy even in Dutch)
Now this might be a bit stranger, but not all that different. However when we zoom in on the word billenkoek it gets real weird. Just like other languages, for example German, the Dutch can just omit spaces and create longer and longer compound words. Billenkoek is one of those words, comprised of two words namely "billen" and "koek". The first word translates to buttocks, which makes sense, spanking involves hitting the butt. However the second word doesn't have a direct translation in English, but is a collection term enveloping baked goods such as cookies and certain kinds of cake. So it could be translated into "butt cake" .
What do spanking and cakes have to do with each other? And what exactly is a butt cake? Who knows, the Dutch are just very very weird.
(for all my etymology nerds, the term comes from rewarding good children with cookies and bad children with a different sort of cookies, namely corporal punishment)
It's very strange, it seems Dutch is very like, food-based? That's not a great way to explain it, but stuff like using "lekker", which is Dutch for tasty, as like "good" or "attractive." Context seems v important
Yes context is very important in Dutch. Which is why translations are almost always off. A Dutch speaker can almost instantly recognize whether a translation was done by someone with a native speaking level, or a machine. That's why a lot of Dutch folk prefer English on their computers and phones. The Dutch translations are often terrible, or as the Dutch would say "tenenkrommend".
Dutch is also a language you can very easily unlearn, even as a native speaker. I've experienced this firsthand, where I mostly use English and German every day. My Dutch has gotten terrible over the years.