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[–] Boozilla@lemmy.world 39 points 3 days ago (4 children)

According to my spouse: play D&D.

[–] AngryCommieKender@lemmy.world 9 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (2 children)

I started playing D&D as a two or three year old kid. Admittedly back then my involvement mas limited. My parent's D&D group called me "the Hobbit Thief," as they would put me to bed, and then I would sneak into the room, and steal dice off the table. Apparently I would then sneak back to my room and hide said dice under my mattress.accordong to my mother, either I was extremely fast, or they didn't notice the missing dice for several months. I had also taught myself to pick locks by that point, but that was to escape the tyranny of being inside, but I digress.

My first character I rolled up was when I was 5 or 6. No I don't remember them, but I bet my dad and mom still have the character sheet.

My parents are now in their late 70s and early 80s. They still play D&D and recommended being a DM to people that think they want kids. Apparently there is a fair bit of overlap in running a fun game, and a functional family.

[–] TheDoozer@lemmy.world 3 points 2 days ago

They still play D&D and recommended being a DM to people that think they want kids. Apparently there is a fair bit of overlap in running a fun game, and a functional family.

I am a parent, and this tells me I lack the requisite energy and creativity to be a DM. I struggle enough as it is.

[–] BreadOven@lemmy.world 4 points 2 days ago

Wow wholesome. That sounds great haha. I've only been a player, but when my son is a bit older maybe I'll try out being a DM.

Your post really made me smile. Thanks for posting and the good idea of family D&D.

[–] Bustedknuckles@lemmy.world 17 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I used to also... I used to. Looking forward to rolling a wizard when I get to the retirement home

[–] HubertManne@piefed.social 3 points 3 days ago

my old group would talk about the group nursing home they would need to be in some day to be running games.

[–] starlinguk@lemmy.world 11 points 3 days ago

D&D became popular in the eighties. Why should people who played it then start hating it as they get older?

[–] Hegar@fedia.io 8 points 3 days ago (1 children)

The only way your spouse could be correct is if you're still playing 2e and you're under 50.

[–] AngryCommieKender@lemmy.world 4 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I feel personally attacked. I occasionally dip back into 2.5E because Pools of Radiance, and Dragons of Winter Night are fun games, I managed to memorize the 2.5E rules by the time I was 13, and I'm currently 45.....

[–] Hegar@fedia.io 5 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Yeah i'm 43 but i got really frustrated with 2e era rules and moved on to cyberpunk, white wolf and gurps within a year or two of starting the hobby.

By the time 3e came out i was just not interested in fantasy rpgs anymore.

Since you seem to've been exposed to rpgs from birth, basically, you might count as slightly older in RPG-years than your real age? 😅

[–] AngryCommieKender@lemmy.world 3 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

Fair enough. My first attempt at a sci-fi RPG was the rather ill fated Babylon 5 TTRPG. I was exposed to Shadowrun, and Cyberpunk, but being 13-15 years old, an old Whovian, a Trekkie, and a Babylon 5 fan at the time, I couldn't see a future that was that bleak and dystopian.

It's only been recently, as in the last decade or so, that I have realized that Babylon 5 was a playbook, and a dream, for an anti fascist overthrow of a fascist government. Unfortunately we don't have a space station that can just barely support itself, with a portion of the military loyal to the constitution of earth, without the government, and can stand up to the government militarily.

Edit: nah, I'm not older than my real age. I'm 45 and can feel it. Every few months one of my joints introduces me to a whole new place that pain can come from. I may need to get some osteobiflex.

[–] Hegar@fedia.io 3 points 2 days ago (1 children)

My first was RIFTS, which i did not have the stomach for at all. By comparison cyberpunk and cybergen ran like a dream, just as my friends and I were getting into Akira.

I never tried the Bab5 rpg, but i stayed up late with my mother to watch it. I was shocked when rewatching a few years back to see lucille blooth playing a regime loyalist captain.

[–] AngryCommieKender@lemmy.world 2 points 2 days ago

Dear Lord, I forgot about RIFTS. I saw the descriptions of the sourcebooks in my TTRPG catalog that I no longer remember the name of, and thought that they were trying too hard.