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Maybe I’m just too picky, but if the actor isn’t “my type” or I’m not attracted to him, I won’t enjoy the video. I have favorite actors (Jmac, Tommy Pistol, Ken Matsumoto, Charles Dera, Tyler Nixon, etc.), and a lot of the time I specifically look for videos with them instead of something new or random.

I’m curious what it’s like for you.

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[–] Sludgeyy@lemmy.world 7 points 1 day ago

The women have to have an attractive face. Face>Body. I don't really care for porn with the face hidden but if I can imagine her having a nice face then it could work.

Weird/unattractive guys in a video kill it. Rather just be a "normal" guy that I don't really pay attention to.

I'll be honest, I watch some trans porn sometimes because I really don't care where the dick is attached too. As long as she has a pretty face thats what matters. In a way seeing her pleasure herself with something that I can relate to is much more enjoyable than watching a solo pussy performance (probably my least favorite porn, she would have to have an absolutely beautiful face). I'm imagining any dick I see in porn as my own.

I'm picky too and 90% of my porn experience everytime is searching for "the perfect video". Guess it's like foreplay. I won't generally watch a video again unless I stumble upon it again. I do have some woman that fit my ideal dream girl look and will sometimes search for just them. But I do really enjoy the hunt lol.