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I don’t think our situation falls into poly-sexual since it’s usually one night stand type of situations though.
Monogamish fits my relationship and it’s been a term in use for decades at this point.
I'm polyamorous and none us three would do that. It's still a closed relationship - one night stands break that.
Y'all are definitely polysexual. It's just a semi-open type rather than fully open like swingers.
Isn't that an attraction to all genders? Why are you so hellbent on defining my relationship boundaries?
Last I checked that was pansexual. Idk where you got that definition though.
Just saying, the way you describe it comes off like the "no homo" guys is all 😅
I honestly just searched for it because I have never heard the term polysexual applied in this way. I also wasn't trying to imply that polyamorous people engage in one night stands and casual sex, either, but you read into that as well.
I'm bisexual, I've been involved in the kink, poly, and LGBT+ community in my area for a long time. I wasn't trying to "no homo" anything, I just prefer using the term monogamish to describe my current relationship because that describes it really well: