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[โ€“] jobbies@lemmy.zip 34 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (7 children)

More users.

And for lemmurs to stop being so binary and assuming every discussion is a war zone. Defend a Jewish person and you're a fascist. Defend a Palestinian and you're anti-semetic. Make a 'whore' joke and you're a misogynist. Criticise capitalism and you're a tankie. Accidentally and innocently misgender someone and you're transphobic. Defend trans folk and you're woke. Its all so bloody exhausting.

[โ€“] psycotica0@lemmy.ca 12 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Oh I see, so you hate Free Software! Fucking typical, unsubscribed, and I will not be returning. ๐Ÿ˜›

I was on the cusp of leaving Reddit just before the API fiasco, and Redditors treating every interaction as combat by rhetoric, a contest rather than a discussion, was one of the main reasons.

Yes, that happens here, but it's, like, the same two or three people every time. For several of your examples, particular usernames come to mind. The background vibe is much more chill, I feel.

[โ€“] phoenixz@lemmy.ca 3 points 1 week ago
[โ€“] wopalopa@lemmy.world 3 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

agree on the first part, second part is just the modern internet sadly

[โ€“] highrfrequenc@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago

Its always been this way.

This person just said they would like to be fascist anti-semetic misogynist tankie and transphobic without catching shit for it. In the old days of the internet, we definitely would have told them to shove their head up their ass

[โ€“] ApollosArrow@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

The sad part is that the centralized platforms that are popping up and adopting anti politic stances are feeling much friendlier. People here complain about centralized platforms, but all the fighting is ironically just pushing people over to those platforms.

[โ€“] Typotyper@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 weeks ago

Same with posts. I posted something to TIL and it was instantly tagged as self promoting my channel. That was my last post. Message received.

[โ€“] WhyJiffie@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 week ago

I don't think any of that is Lemmy Official Opinion. it just shows there are all kinds of people here, some of them maybe a bit too sensitive in their topic.