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Trans Megathread for the Week of 5/6 - 5/12 (hexbear.net)

submitted 1 year ago by SnowySkyes@hexbear.net to c/traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns@hexbear.net

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I hope everyone had a great week last week. Hopefully this one turns out even better for everyone.

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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 12 points 1 year ago (6 children)

idk how to tag this so I'm going to go for "dated language" even though that isn't really right and there's not any slurs. Also negativity. And uh, maybe some dysphoria posting. Just assume the worst I suppose.

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I don't know why I'm even thinking about being trans. Its like I'm being swallowed up by a whirlpool. I don't want to be trans, so why can't I just be okay with being a guy? Its so hard, and so confusing, and I'm not even trans yet. And if I do decide that's just going to be worse. I'll be ugly, and manish, and embarrassed. It'd be horrible. I can't do it. I'm trapped and drowning. I just... can't be trans. Why is my mind even thinking about doing it? I... I just have to stay. Why can't I go back? Why am I more and more upset... I just don't get it. Please brain, just let me live in peace. I used to be fine being a guy, why can't we go back? Whatever. I'm rambling and idk how well any of you will be able to follow anyway so I'm cutting it off here.

I'm so horrible looking too cri

I don't even know why I'm posting. No one can help. I guess, even as fucking pathetic as it is, knowing a few people are sympathetic will be reassuring.

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[–] Tommasi@hexbear.net 12 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (3 children)

I'm not saying all femboys are eggs, but when they inevitably have to chose between twink death or E, a disproportionate amount seem to realise they're maybe a bit trans after all.

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[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 11 points 1 year ago (2 children)

OH GOD OF FUCK I'M STARTING TO FEEL GIRL EMOTIONS ABOUT THINGS OH GOD OH FUCK

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[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 10 points 1 year ago

too many pretty girls give me big gender envy today :(

[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 10 points 1 year ago

very silly transition goals:

i want to win a MTG tournament at my local game store so I can have my name posted on their facebook page or a plaque on the wall or whatever. i have no idea if they hold pauper tournaments and i'm too broke to play any other format though

[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 10 points 1 year ago (2 children)

keep feeling like i want to cry at how hard i spent 20+ years trying to be a boy/man and how i just couldn't

wait, no, there are the tears. i feel them now

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[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 10 points 1 year ago

Oh wow! Meeting another trans woman off of craigslist this weekend mayhaps to look at me becoming her roommate. no more lying about my name or gender at home!

[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 10 points 1 year ago (1 children)

these big ass drawing needles are bullshit. they're big fuckin needles but they still take like a minute to draw out .4ml of gel

[–] Kuori@hexbear.net 10 points 1 year ago (3 children)

careful with large drawing needles. if your vials (i'm assuming) have that rubber stopper you'll punch pieces of it into the vial

it's better to use a small one and just eat the time commitment

[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 9 points 1 year ago (2 children)

microplastics-cool LITERALLY INJECTING MACROPLASTICS DIRECTLY INTO MY BLOOD LET'S FUCKING GOOOOOOOOOOOO

anyway, they only gave me some 22 gauge drawing needles so i'm just going to assume that's what they meant for me to use. i guess i can look for some smaller injection needles next time around though

[–] Kuori@hexbear.net 10 points 1 year ago

i think the risk is more rendering the contents no longer sterile than it is sucking up bits of rubber and injecting them (though that probably isn't good either)

22g is probably okay, i was worried they started you on 18g needles like they did me

it's called vial coring. you can look up techniques to avoid it, just searching the term on youtube should steer you right

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[–] Des@hexbear.net 10 points 1 year ago

i think if i can get it together enough to call a teledoc to get hair pills i might be able to do more later

[–] Jenniferrr@hexbear.net 10 points 1 year ago (9 children)

Pretty sure estrogen is just making my anxiety go absolutely crazy. I pretty much had a mental breakdown last night and I still feel like there's an elephant on my chest today. I just want my brain to be normal. I don't want to detransition either :( I'm so upset I wish I could go back to before all these intrusive thoughts started it's ruining my life :(

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