Hoping to hear everyone’s week went well this past week. Go out there and have a great week this week everyone! 
Just confessed to my friend that I have a crush on them!!!! Happy pride eve :#
this post was submitted on 27 May 2024
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move into house with 2 other trans girls
look in fridge
3 jars of pickles
yeah this is a trans girl house
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I have an intense urge to be cuddled and worked up the courage to make a dating profile, despite being super nervous about being trans on a dating app.
I instantly match with some guy.
He just sends "Hi", "horny?", then a picture.
Definitely not opening that.
This was a terrible idea, I panic and delete my profile.
Still have not been cuddled.
Can a transfeminine person be transmisogyny-exempt? 
I am guessing "no" and that a transfem who hasn't been affected by transmisogyny is simply lucky and still has that specter forever lurking over their shoulder. But I am interested in what other people think.
transphobia doesn’t just address any empirical transgender individual or group (although sometimes they’ll mark a distinction between real “transsexuals” and “transtrenders” who are indoctrinated by gender ideology) in as much as it attacks the sense in being transgender itself. their rhetoric addresses you even if you aren’t around to hear it, their legislation addresses you even if you are made the exception, and their violence targets you even if you’re lucky enough not to feel it.
Transmisogyny is a specific form of misogyny that targets transfeminine people, as well as a specific type of transphobia. It's not simply transphobia towards transfeminine people. All trans people are transphobia-affected, but not all trans people are transmisogyny-affected. For example, trans women being pushed into sex work (second type womanhood) is one result of transmisogyny, while anti-transmasculinity takes on the form of patriarchal society trying to detransition trans men and force them to be mothers and wives (first type womanhood). Both are obviously transphobia. The broad concept of transphobia is useful, but sometimes more precision is necessary.
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new job is fun i hate it
WHADDYA MEAN I HAVE TO GO TOMORROW TOO????????
I'm excited to get back into cosplay
I need to get into that shit it would be so awesome... what kind of girls (or non girls) are u planning on doing
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been feeling extra hungry lately. i heard that's a good sign the fat redistribution is working
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Been trying to change how I react to and create narratives around my negative emotions and thoughts. Maybe it will be helpful for people here.
pretty mild dysphoric thoughts, I guess
When I think "I feel like a man today. This makes me sad, but it must be proof that I'm a man"
Instead, I'm trying to think, "I feel like a man today. This makes me sad. I'm a trans woman experiencing gender dysphoria"
When I think, "Your emotional state is all over the place and changes radically each day. These mood swings are proof that you are mentally ill, and this trans thing is a symptom of your illness"
Instead, I try to think, "Your emotional state is all over the place and changes radically each day. You're processing emotions and working through things that you've ignored for a long time. It will get easier over time"
When I think, "You're only doing this because you think it will fix you and make you happy, but you'll find out later it was all a mistake"
I try to think, "I don't need fixing, and I'm only doing this because it has already, at times, made me happier than I've ever been."
Maybe you could share your own healthy patterns of thought
today's fun emotions: so sad i want to throw up 🤮
actually hang on i'm not sad anymore but i am really nauseous. can't... can't trans women get something close to a period? isn't nausea one of those things you can get on your period? ah fuck
t4t cuddle session whennnn 😵💫
God I’m just touchstarved rn
Ikr
new unjust depths chapter
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i was loudly complaining about how much i hated being cis as young as 14. how the fuck did it take this long for it to click for me