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[–] DrMango@lemmy.world 27 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Why is this cropped so poorly?

[–] NickwithaC@lemmy.world 30 points 2 years ago

To avoid giving the original artist credit and also to avoid repost detection on Reddit.

[–] thorbot@lemmy.world 8 points 2 years ago

I didn’t crop it. I just stole it from elsewhere

[–] victron@programming.dev 19 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (3 children)

As a late 30s, shit like this stop being funny, because hits too close to home.

[–] Selmafudd@lemmy.ml 11 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Yeah happened to me too in the late 30s. This is the real midlife crisis, trying to come to terms with existential nihilism, it's not buying a fucking red convertible..

[–] victron@programming.dev 2 points 2 years ago

Ha, as if I had the money to lol

[–] Voli@lemmy.ml 6 points 2 years ago

Do you too have a letter from the municipal that you need to open but keep stalling because you somehow know yet don’t know what’s in it ?

[–] thorbot@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago

I too am a late 30s and I find this funny because of how close it hits to home

[–] GrayBackgroundMusic@lemm.ee 17 points 2 years ago
[–] GFGJewbacca@lemm.ee 11 points 2 years ago (1 children)

The hot take I've heard is that our ancient ancestors had a much higher chance of being killed by predators, so being on edge was an evolutionary advantage. According to this idea, the fear and dread of today is a remnant of our past.

[–] Lennvor@kbin.social 8 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Nah, I think that overstates the extent to which our ancestors were the hunter more than the hunted and ignores the social dimension. An early human might have been at risk for predators when they were out alone hunting or gathering but when you're with the group I'd think that's a much smaller threat. Having to deal with social threats from within the group, now, that's ever-present. And still present today!

Also, after reading a book about the evolution of agency that suggests the evolutionary innovation of humans is that we're a goal-seeking system that's able to function as a part of a larger goal-seeking system (collective action)... I wonder how much that can account for existential dread. We have a diffuse drive to be part of something greater than ourselves but it's not always clear what that should be.

[–] yA3xAKQMbq@lemm.ee 9 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I wouldn’t read too much into that, evolutionary psychology is a pseudoscience: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Criticism_of_evolutionary_psychology

Psychology is already a field full of rough concepts, bad statistics, and low certainties, we mostly have no clue why we’re doing things right now. Adding millions of years and unprovable speculation surely doesn’t help.

[–] Lennvor@kbin.social 1 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

If evolutionary psychology is pseudoscience (which is debatable to begin with), it's that way not because our evolutionary history doesn't inform our psychology but because our understanding of both those things is too immature for the questions most people are are trying to answer. But that in itself depends on the questions and the level of answer one finds acceptable. I've found Michael Tomasello's book "The Evolution of Agency" perfectly proportionate in the kinds of questions it seeks to answer given the information it has, and I think the wild speculations I extrapolate from it are totally fine to share in random internet conversations.

[–] MaxMouseOCX@lemmy.world 11 points 2 years ago (3 children)

Climate change is going to kill us all reasonably slowly, but it's OK because we're in the brink of nuclear war which will kill us quickly... Unfortunately, where I live isn't a historic nuclear target, but areas around me are, so I'll not be vaporised, and have to endure the chaos...

But... It's pizza day tomorrow so there's that.

[–] aubertlone@lemmy.world 7 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Damn dude...

It's pizza day for me today! About to go pick it up right now actually. Stay strong 💪 thru the wait!!

[–] MaxMouseOCX@lemmy.world 6 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Fuckin sweet... What you having?

[–] aubertlone@lemmy.world 4 points 2 years ago

Cheese pizza, pan crust, jalapenos, extra cheese, well done.

Was delicious and they actually baked it extra for once, even tho I ask for it ever time.

[–] thorbot@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago (1 children)

If there actually is nuclear war the fallout will affect the whole world. Even if you aren't near the blast you'll get a nice dose of radiation on the wind.

[–] MaxMouseOCX@lemmy.world 1 points 2 years ago

Yea, problem is I can shield in place whilst the worst passes and still be alive.....

[–] MasterNerd@lemm.ee 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I live an hour from an a facility used in the Manhattan project. Wish me luck

[–] MaxMouseOCX@lemmy.world 1 points 2 years ago

Nuclear weapons are big and devastating but... An hour away from a modern weapon detonation - I give you good chances.

[–] syl@programming.dev 6 points 2 years ago

Fck. This is me. Jesus. Keep busy!

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[–] Squire1039@lemm.ee 4 points 2 years ago

It's a strategy. At least would be labeled as "functional" and not some other things...

[–] yA3xAKQMbq@lemm.ee 3 points 2 years ago (1 children)
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[–] Haui@discuss.tchncs.de 3 points 2 years ago (1 children)

You never talk about the fight club.

[–] aksdb@feddit.de 4 points 2 years ago (1 children)

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[–] Aesthesiaphilia@kbin.social 3 points 2 years ago (7 children)

Why is everyone so anxious nowadays?

What's there to dread?

[–] Hildegarde@lemmy.world 9 points 2 years ago (1 children)

People are worried about getting the tops of their heads cropped off. Its become an epidemic.

[–] Mongostein@lemmy.ca 3 points 2 years ago

Happened to a friend of a friend of mine. He never recovered.

[–] ______@lemm.ee 5 points 2 years ago

I have anxiety. It's funny because I don't feel anything until it happens.its like my brain remembers "hey you should feel bad" and it happens, otherwise I'm cool as a cucumber

[–] irmoz@reddthat.com 5 points 2 years ago

Must be nice to be so comfy

[–] Rachelhazideas@lemm.ee 3 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I, for one, almost died at a mass shooting.

My body has left in a permanent state of pain and suffering, where every few days the pain intensifies and there is next to nothing I can do about it.

What about you?

[–] Aesthesiaphilia@kbin.social -1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

That's not existential dread, that's just everyday "life sucks" though

[–] Rachelhazideas@lemm.ee 2 points 2 years ago (8 children)

I'm in a permanent constant state of pain everyday. My entire existence is pain. I'm not sure what else you need me to go through to prove my existential dread.

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[–] ForbiddenRoot@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 years ago

Why is everyone so anxious nowadays?

For me it's financial, though as a middle-aged person I am nowadays also plagued with metaphysical questions.

About the financial part, I'm actually very well-off but the world has become such a complex place (or it always was and I am only realizing it now at my age) and I have little to no control over most aspects of it. I don't want to lose what I have worked towards because of geo-politics, climate change impact, global recession, or such things. It's not an existential crisis for me but there is some amount of anxiety and dread that I previously did not have.

[–] TimewornTraveler@lemm.ee 2 points 2 years ago

Avoidance of dread breeds more dread.

[–] Selmafudd@lemmy.ml 1 points 2 years ago

Are people more anxious or is it just more acceptable to talk about it??

[–] unreachable@lemmy.my.id 3 points 2 years ago

the reason to live

[–] MasterBlaster@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago

Too late... Le sigh.

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