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[–] Aru@lemmygrad.ml 18 points 2 years ago (1 children)
[–] MCU_H8ER@lemmygrad.ml 14 points 2 years ago
[–] MCU_H8ER@lemmygrad.ml 16 points 2 years ago (2 children)

I see some loser lib already downvoted this πŸ˜‚

[–] cosmonautjem@lemmygrad.ml 19 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

They are sad creatures. Don't worry about them. Their opinions are wrong.

[–] Redlogic@lemmygrad.ml 8 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Being sober is not liberal enough.

[–] WIIHAPPYFEW@hexbear.net 8 points 2 years ago

Sobriety disrespects ~~addiction profiteers~~ free market entrepreneurs

[–] Washburn@hexbear.net 15 points 2 years ago

Proud of u meow-hug

Sobriety is difficult, and to stay sober for 4 years is a great accomplishment πŸ™‚

[–] context@hexbear.net 14 points 2 years ago (1 children)

nice! how do you feel these days?

[–] MCU_H8ER@lemmygrad.ml 16 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Much much better. I don't really miss that stuff at all. I had some pretty dark times in my life due to it.

[–] Krause@lemmygrad.ml 14 points 2 years ago
[–] macabrett@hexbear.net 11 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Congrats, comrade. I've been sober since July 4th of this year.

[–] MCU_H8ER@lemmygrad.ml 8 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Congratulations! Keep it up πŸ’ͺ

[–] macabrett@hexbear.net 6 points 2 years ago

potential big emoterat-salute

I will do my best and I hope you find continued success as well!

[–] GrainEater@lemmygrad.ml 10 points 2 years ago

congratulation(s)

[–] lemat_87@lemmygrad.ml 9 points 2 years ago (1 children)

That's a big win and a great success, my best congratulations πŸ‘πŸ» I am now 3,5 month alco free (started 1 of May), and continue it to the end of life πŸ™‚

[–] MCU_H8ER@lemmygrad.ml 6 points 2 years ago

Congratulations! You got this πŸ’ͺ

[–] Frozengyro@lemmy.world 9 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Congrats, what were your biggest challenges? What and when did you realize it was worth it?

[–] MCU_H8ER@lemmygrad.ml 12 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I don't want to get into specifics, but I just couldn't live like that any longer. After about a year of sobriety I realized that I didn't have many positive memories associated with alcohol.

Being sober actually allowed me to start reflecting on my life and lead me to start thinking about things. Ironically, it was also a catalyst into me learning about Marxism as well.

[–] Bartsbigbugbag@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Dude. Sobriety was so important in my radicalization and moving from disaffected and alienated to educated and principled. I didn’t realize how badly alcohol had lead me astray until things got out of hand, and now I too am multiple years sober. Keep it up!

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[–] DankZedong@lemmygrad.ml 9 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Good for you. How do you feel after all those years?

I had a period of 8 months sober some years ago. I can handle my alcohol now, though I am slowly starting to drink less and less. It's been three weeks since my last drink, actually. Sometimes I want to fully quit as well, but since I don't have a problem and I like to drink a beer every once in a while, I keep wondering if I should.

[–] ghost_of_faso2@lemmygrad.ml 7 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Big difference between substance misuse and substance use comrade, if you have a healthy relationship with it now thats great and likely doesnt need changing; for some people a clean break is the only way however.

Its all about the relationship you have with it and where it lands on your life priority list; when substances start becoming more important priorities than real life shit is when they tend to become issues.

[–] DankZedong@lemmygrad.ml 5 points 2 years ago

Yeah, I guess I knew the answer already and it's yours lol. I don't know what I wanted to hear.

[–] klieg2323@lemmy.piperservers.net 7 points 2 years ago (2 children)
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[–] bennieandthez@lemmygrad.ml 7 points 2 years ago

Thats awesome to hear, i myself am on my journey to being alcohol free. Life is much better without drinking.

[–] juchebot88@lemmygrad.ml 7 points 2 years ago

Congratulations, comrade! Keep it up!

(Also, based username)

[–] aaaaaaadjsf@hexbear.net 7 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

Almost at 3 years myself comrade. Congratulations

[–] MCU_H8ER@lemmygrad.ml 6 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Keep up the good work comrade πŸ’ͺ

[–] some_guy@lemmy.sdf.org 6 points 2 years ago

As a functional alcoholic who wants to quit (I've done it twice, but gave in to temptation), I salute you. The first five or so days are the hardest. Then, it's like, why would I want that?

[–] Grebgreb@hexbear.net 6 points 2 years ago

great work keep it up

[–] Fissionami@lemmygrad.ml 6 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Congratulations πŸ‘πŸŽ‰
And here is me who has never touched alcohol ever in life

[–] MCU_H8ER@lemmygrad.ml 7 points 2 years ago (1 children)

If you haven't, don't start.

[–] Fissionami@lemmygrad.ml 4 points 2 years ago

Not planning here either. (Just not very sure of the future and what it holds for me)

[–] Rasm635u@lemmygrad.ml 5 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I haven't either, but that's bc I'm a minor

[–] Fissionami@lemmygrad.ml 5 points 2 years ago

Well. I'm well beyond minor now. But it is more about the curiosity didn't kill the cat (not yet)

[–] ComradeSpahija@lemmygrad.ml 6 points 2 years ago

Congratulations comrade!

[–] blottica@hexbear.net 6 points 2 years ago

I hope you have gained the balance in your life or whatever it might be you were looking for by staying alcohol free. Congrats meow-hug

[–] rjs001@lemmygrad.ml 5 points 2 years ago

That’s awsome!

[–] blakeus12@hexbear.net 5 points 2 years ago

congrats, comrade!

[–] arefx@lemmy.ml 5 points 2 years ago

Been sober since March 2016 and it keeps getting better. Good job.

[–] chalupapocalypse@lemmy.world 4 points 2 years ago

Good work dude.

[–] Spacemint@lemmygrad.ml 4 points 2 years ago

Congratulations, be proud!

[–] Kir@feddit.it 4 points 2 years ago

You are amazing 😌

[–] Trudge@lemmygrad.ml 3 points 2 years ago

I'm proud of you comrade!

[–] Rasm635u@lemmygrad.ml 3 points 2 years ago

I have never drunk alchohol

[–] redtea@lemmygrad.ml 2 points 2 years ago

Late to this but congratulations!! πŸŽ‰

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