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[–] baronvonj@lemmy.world 125 points 2 years ago (2 children)

So .. if he could receive a call ... couldn't he make a call to someone he knows?

[–] MystikIncarnate@lemmy.ca 184 points 2 years ago (2 children)

I remember reading about this. He was actually lost, in that he strayed from his trail and didn't immediately know how to return.

Rescuers were alerted because a family member had reported him missing after he didn't arrive home on time.

As the story goes, to the best of my recollection, the "lost" individual went for a hike and said they would be back before sundown. When they got lost, they obviously missed that deadline. They were biding their time in the forest until daybreak to try to find the trail to get back because it was too dark to look for it. So while he was "lost" it was mainly because the sun had gone down. He didn't feel like he was in any danger, and wasn't at any risk of immediately being harmed or killed; AFAIK they were reasonably familiar with that forest and they were more than capable of surviving in those conditions; so he had no motivation to seek help.

TL;DR: guy didn't feel like he needed help.

[–] _CottonCandyUnicorn_@lemmy.world 99 points 2 years ago (3 children)

I get that he didn't feel like he needed help. But he told his family he'd be back before sundown so wouldn't the thought to call or even text your family to let them know you're ok cross your mind? That's the part that seems strange to me.

[–] cactusupyourbutt@lemmy.world 61 points 2 years ago (1 children)

whats strange to me is that the family didnt try to reach him first

[–] KIM_JONG_JUICEBOX@lemmy.ml 19 points 2 years ago

Or why didn’t the rescuers text or leave a message?

Sounds like everyone has trouble communicating properly here. It’s like how to write a sitcom plot 101.

[–] lud@lemm.ee 22 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Maybe they forgot ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

[–] Gormadt@lemmy.blahaj.zone 21 points 2 years ago

Been there for sure

Just forgetting to tell family I was going to be later than I expected

[–] idunnololz@lemmy.world 9 points 2 years ago

Yeah that part is a bit inconsiderate.

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[–] blaine@kbin.social 41 points 2 years ago (1 children)

He was probably afraid to call for help due to the insane prices the search and rescue folks charge. Might have wanted to wait another day or two to be sure he was really lost before calling for help.

[–] pedro@lemm.ee 26 points 2 years ago (3 children)

USA: die or get crippled by debt for getting saved

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[–] ox0r@jlai.lu 94 points 2 years ago (3 children)

If it's important, they'll leave a message. Otherwise it's just another scam anyway

[–] quarrk@hexbear.net 27 points 2 years ago (1 children)

“Hey, sorry to bother you, was just wondering if you were dead. Please call back at your earliest convenience.”

[–] ox0r@jlai.lu 22 points 2 years ago

Yeah right, as if I'm dumb enough to fall for that one!

[–] RaivoKulli@sopuli.xyz 5 points 2 years ago

Hopefully you're not applying for a job haha

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[–] Designate6361@lemmy.ml 88 points 2 years ago

As someone who does not answer unknown numbers I am laughing and also cringing

[–] LogicalDrivel@sopuli.xyz 74 points 2 years ago (3 children)

If I pick up, then they know its a real number and I get added to a hundred more lists. Its taken me years of diligently ignoring the world to get to the point where i only get a couple of spam calls a day. I might not answer, either.

[–] jackoneill@lemmy.world 28 points 2 years ago (2 children)

I have 2 numbers, my direct cell that only family and close friends know, and my business line that I give out like candy. Business line is simply a virtual line that goes to an auto attendant that I this is si and so from whatever company, dial 1 to ring my cell or dial 2 to leave a voicemail. If you don’t hit a number it hangs up after 30 seconds. No more spam. Of course, some REALLY dumb clients think I’m sending them straight to voicemail because they don’t listen, but that’s it’s own kind of filter that I also appreciate

[–] KairuByte@lemmy.dbzer0.com 10 points 2 years ago

What service is that?

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[–] zagaberoo@beehaw.org 5 points 2 years ago

I always answer, and I still only occasionally get spam calls. I wonder whether I'm just very lucky or if wasting their time consistently gets you put on lists of a different kind.

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[–] c0mbatbag3l@lemmy.world 60 points 2 years ago (2 children)

It has nothing to do with social fear, every fucking call on my personal and work phone is a scam.

Get that shit under control and then maybe I'll answer my cell phone once in awhile lol

Though if I was really lost I think I'd be answering every call tbh.

[–] sheogorath@lemmy.world 5 points 2 years ago

If you live in a supported country, (but only US have the automatic screening feature) I suggest getting a Pixel phone and use the call screening features.

https://support.google.com/phoneapp/answer/9118387?hl=en

I'm currently using a Samsung phone and it has a similar feature but the screening can only be done manually and Bixby's voice is miles behind Google Assistant's.

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[–] Surreal@programming.dev 46 points 2 years ago (3 children)

I wish people texted after failing to call me. I don't answer calls from unknown numbers either but if you know me then text me so I know it's not a spam number

[–] mkwarman@lemmy.mkwarman.com 14 points 2 years ago (4 children)

I agree, but I still have this idea that it's rude to text people unless you have gotten permission first. I think it's a relic from the 2000s-2010s when not everyone's phone had texting and if you did text them they could get charged by their phone provider. Obviously nowadays that's much less of a concern, but still feels like a social grey area for some reason

[–] die444die@lemmy.world 16 points 2 years ago (1 children)

It is completely opposite to that in my circles. It would be weird to call people without texting them first. In fact, one of my best friends texted me to ask if he could call me.

[–] mkwarman@lemmy.mkwarman.com 4 points 2 years ago

That definitely makes sense too, particularly when making new friends in my age group. I guess it's just when contacting people for business vs social communications? I'm not sure

[–] danielton@lemmy.world 7 points 2 years ago

Yeah, that's an archaic mindset. Most people would rather get a text these days.

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[–] Rentlar@beehaw.org 6 points 2 years ago

My elder relatives trying to send a text:

woman holding cord of rotary phone with a typewriter in front with paper

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[–] LillyPip@lemmy.ca 30 points 2 years ago (1 children)

For real.

‘Unknown’ or ‘Suspected Spam’ yeah, I guess I’ll just die.

If you don't, the spammers win.

[–] Evilphd666@hexbear.net 27 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Has signal.

Doesn't open map app.

[–] ArtisinalBS@lemm.ee 10 points 2 years ago (1 children)

In what imaginary world you're living that you have data in the middle of nowhere?

[–] quarrk@hexbear.net 32 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

You should have GPS without any service at all. You might need data for the map to load, depends on the app. If you’re lucky and the app automatically cached it when you had signal, or you manually downloaded the offline map, then you could navigate home in airplane mode.

All of this is moot because I think I remember reading the rest of this story. The hiker wasn’t really lost, they simply went on a hike without telling anyone, and ignored calls during that time because they were trying to unplug.

[–] 2Password2Remember@hexbear.net 19 points 2 years ago

if you want me to actually respond to you, leave a message. doesn't everybody know this at this point?

Death to America

[–] jimmydoreisalefty@lemmus.org 19 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Should have sent an email, come on now...

[–] WarmSoda@lemm.ee 14 points 2 years ago (1 children)

"Help I'm dying please send rescue".

Well that's an odd email from January.

[–] jimmydoreisalefty@lemmus.org 13 points 2 years ago (2 children)
[–] WarmSoda@lemm.ee 11 points 2 years ago

Lol "no. That's too formal"

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[–] SpaceNoodle@lemmy.world 16 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Did they not leave a fucking voicemail?

[–] The_Picard_Maneuver@startrek.website 22 points 2 years ago (1 children)

That's even worse than a call

[–] SpaceNoodle@lemmy.world 7 points 2 years ago (4 children)

How is it worse? If there's important information, leave it for me.

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[–] RightHandOfIkaros@lemmy.world 14 points 2 years ago

Why would he answer? They were probably trying to reach him about his car's extended warranty.

[–] yoz@aussie.zone 14 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Yeah, but it was a couple of years ago

[–] LostDeer 11 points 2 years ago (1 children)

This could be me lol

It is funny to be lost where you have cell service though.

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[–] duviobaz@lemmy.world 10 points 2 years ago

Totally relatable

[–] UlyssesT@hexbear.net 8 points 2 years ago

I'd do this. yea

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