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[–] AstralPath@lemmy.ca 36 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Its too bad this is the way they feel they need to show their partners affection on Valentine's day; a huge waste of money directly into the maw of the capitalist machine.

[–] Flora@literature.cafe 11 points 3 months ago (3 children)

Absolutely! Don't waste your money on meaningless trinkets! And even better, if you ask me -- don't celebrate Valentine's Day at all! My partner and I don't do anything for it, we just do things for each other whenever we feel like it, and we're happier that way.

[–] AstralPath@lemmy.ca 4 points 3 months ago
[–] funkless_eck@sh.itjust.works 4 points 3 months ago (1 children)

I met my partner one v day and we first said I love you the following year the day before, so it has significance for us. She gets me a bag of Lindsor chocolates, I get her a bouquet of flowers, we write a card and are happy.

It about contributes to the capitalist machine as much as anything else I do: watch TV, read a book, go to the theater, drive to work, pay a guy to fix my roof...

[–] Flora@literature.cafe 0 points 3 months ago

I think watching TV and going to the theater are unhealthy too, but that's a larger conversation.

[–] taladar@sh.itjust.works 2 points 3 months ago

Wasn't the whole day invented to basically make meaningful romantic gestures impossible in mid-February?

[–] A_Union_of_Kobolds@lemmy.world 33 points 3 months ago

I, too, wait till the last possible minute for every holiday

[–] Boozilla@sh.itjust.works 28 points 3 months ago

Lot of judgement ITT. At least these guys have someone.

[–] venusaur@lemmy.world 14 points 3 months ago (1 children)

They’re pissed they can’t stand in line for Pokemon at Costco or Target instead.

[–] otp@sh.itjust.works 5 points 3 months ago

Those gigantic Snorlaxes are already sold out

[–] ZombiFrancis@sh.itjust.works 9 points 3 months ago (1 children)

You can only get away with day-of purchases when its perishable.

[–] Num10ck@lemmy.world 8 points 3 months ago

at opening time 5am my local supermarket parking lot was full of 40ish year old dad types grabbing flowers and chocolates and cards.

[–] starchylemming@lemmy.world 7 points 3 months ago (2 children)

they do seem to be a certain type too. with the caps and all

[–] Coreidan@lemmy.world -5 points 3 months ago (1 children)
[–] starchylemming@lemmy.world 7 points 3 months ago (1 children)

i didnt know wearing a cap + shorts + oversized shirt is a race

[–] Coreidan@lemmy.world -2 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Only two of them are wearing baseball caps. One of them is wearing a beanie. Sounds like you’re referring to more than there clothes otherwise you’re not even making sense.

[–] FenrirIII@lemmy.world 1 points 3 months ago (1 children)

It looks like a diverse group of lazy people to me.

[–] prettybunnys@sh.itjust.works 1 points 3 months ago

FWIW one dude looks like he’s in scrubs, so … maybe just a super busy dude there

[–] justme@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 3 months ago

Opening that box has never been a good idea

[–] fmstrat@lemmy.nowsci.com 4 points 3 months ago (1 children)

My partner and I stay far away from everywhere on Valentines Day. She also wears a 3D printed ring or the "nice" Amazon $9 ring, so I think I partially lucked out.

[–] justme@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Similar here. Our engagement/wedding rings we bought together. Since we have a coming Bank account it anyway doesn't matter who pays. Making a nice surprise is of course always nice, but that doesn't need to be materially valuable.

[–] fmstrat@lemmy.nowsci.com 1 points 3 months ago

For us, we are designing her "real ring" ourselves to either make or have made, but its very modest and more about the band design. We are very outdoorsy so that drives simplicity, too. Personally I have a cheap silicon ring, and love it since it barely feels like I have anything on.

[–] Thcdenton@lemmy.world 3 points 3 months ago

Aww thats cute

[–] Spacehooks@reddthat.com 3 points 3 months ago

Line at flower section was intense today.