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[–] Cocopanda@lemmy.world 3 points 4 months ago

I can create a new accounts if I wanted to. I just gave up on Reddit. They banned me for posting about how a local Nazi. Tried to get a youth center burned down because it had a LGBTQ flag up for pride month. The guy is a captain at a county jail to.

[–] Horsey@lemmy.world 3 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

2 years into the fediverse; left during the IPO enshittification nonsense when they removed public access APIs and made Apollo impossible.

My first account was on .ml roughly 5 years back, when it was basically the only instance. I had heard about there being a FOSS alternative to Reddit - but I quickly lost interest because the community was just too small back then. Re-activated my account when the API exodus happened, because there was finally a community large enough to provide a lived-in feeling. Have only gotten more dedicated to the Fediverse ever since.

[–] conicalscientist@lemmy.world 2 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

I'm on my last account. Having to farm new accounts has become too cumbersome.

Whenever some deplorables get angry enough to get that account banned then I'm done. This is a less talked about rate of attrition on reddit.

I've had one banned for replying that a comment was "self gratifying". The militant far-right internet warriors report spam enough such that eventually some careless content mod will click the ban button.

[–] Logical@lemmy.world 2 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Came here during the API changes. Still salty about it.

I gotta say though, that as much as I wish Lemmy was a viable alternative in every way, Reddit is unfortunately still the place to be for a lot of useful info and discussion. Granted, there's also a lot of crap. But Lemmy is just not big enough to replace Reddit in every way.

[–] lagoon8622@sh.itjust.works 2 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

Reddit is unfortunately still the place to be for a lot of useful info and discussion

This is true. For that I just browse anonymously with an ad blocker

[–] InfiniteHench@lemmy.world 2 points 4 months ago

I’ve grown very interested and supportive of the fediverse, its values, and advantages. I’m still on Reddit though mainly because some of my communities haven’t started here or reached a critical mass. Yes, I know: So start them myself.

I try to spend as much of my Reddit/forum time as I can here these days. And I’m doing what I can to promote this place.

[–] altkey@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 4 months ago

Picked if over API change, switched a couple of instances but still visit reddit in RO due to some niche communities staying there.

[–] Nusm@peachpie.theatl.social 2 points 4 months ago

I left Reddit the day the API ban went into effect and Apollo no longer worked. And to be clear, it wasn't just that Apollo quit working, but it was also the way the dev was treated. He was trying to negotiate with Reddit to keep the app alive. Reddit & Spez not only weren't negotiating in good faith, but then tried to make Christian look like the villain. Unfortunately he recorded everything and brought receipts proving Reddit's lies, and that was enough to make me walk away.

I spend the majority of my doomscrolling on Lemmy, and the only time I go back to Reddit is for live game sports threads (specifically for American football), which haven't really seemed to catch on over here. I have done a couple of playoff games with Mastodon hashtags, and that worked pretty well, but for regular season games, I participate in the Reddit live threads. But daily reading/commenting? It's over here now, and I'm plenty happy.

[–] TheFermentalist@reddthat.com 2 points 4 months ago

I left reddit a little over two years ago. The API debacle was the end, though I had been mostly offline for a few months prior.

The fediverse has only gotten better since. However, this is my fourth account. I joined vlemmy, which disappeared overnight, then lemm.ee, which shut down recently, then another instance which wasn’t for me, and now reddthat. I also signed up for hexbear after a few beers, forgot my password, haven’t been able to contact the mods, didn’t use an email address and haven’t been able to get back in since.

[–] turtlesareneat@discuss.online 2 points 4 months ago

Banned there for "inciting political violence" but then discovered you can get banned across multiple communities or whole servers here because a mod gets their feelings hut.

So, idk. Just trying to get used to the idea of not telling stranger my opinions on things, it seems weird.

[–] Outdated4134@lemmy.zip 2 points 4 months ago

Came here when Relay stopped working. Every now and again a Google search takes me there and I have Rdx so I can lurk without an account, but I don't really

[–] muusemuuse@sh.itjust.works 2 points 4 months ago

Them killing Apollo had me pissed, but for whatever reason I put up with it, waiting for something better. People were starting to talk about Emmy and I thought that was interesting and didn’t really look into it again until I said something mean about Elon and got caught up in a ban wave.

[–] skisnow@lemmy.ca 2 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

I’m not banned from Reddit, but I did come here out of disgust for their many many shitty policies, and their entire ethos as both a website and a company.

One of the worst parts is that all the draconian stuff they do, doesn't even seem to be effective at achieving its stated purpose.

[–] FRYD@sh.itjust.works 2 points 4 months ago

After Reddit killed Apollo, I refused to participate and only used it for news and to see discussions about random stuff. I’d heard about Lemmy back then, but it sounded like it was Reddit for Reddit rejects which didn’t sound appealing. After the big Bluesky migration, I tried it out and I was more open to the idea of the fediverse. Lemmy ended up scratching the Reddit itch when I tried it, even though there’s a serious problem with sub discovery that I think holds it back.

[–] moseschrute@lemmy.zip 2 points 4 months ago

Not banned from Reddit, but I was given a warning for suggesting big tech was unethical.

[–] Moonweedbaddegrasse@lemmy.world 2 points 4 months ago

Got a permanent ban, seemingly for using the word 'defenestrate' jokingly.

[–] DarrinBrunner@lemmy.world 2 points 4 months ago

I'm most interested in the smaller subs on Reddit, like ArchViz, Blender, some others, and regional sites--state and city level. Lemmy just doesn't have much activity on such comms, so I'm still on Reddit for that. I split my time about 60/40.

[–] mintiefresh@piefed.social 2 points 4 months ago

Came over to the 'threadiverse' after the whole API fiasco. It's been generally great. I do wish there were more users/content over here. But I think that will come with time.

[–] ptc075@lemmy.zip 2 points 4 months ago
[–] MapleEngineer@lemmy.world 2 points 4 months ago

I left during the API bullshit and never looked back.

[–] ramenbelly@lemmy.zip 2 points 4 months ago

After my fourth or fifth perma ,, I decided Reddit was probably not for me .

[–] oplkill@lemmy.world 2 points 4 months ago

Shadow banned due to automatic filter

[–] LockheedTheDragon@lemmy.world 2 points 4 months ago

I lived through Livejournal choosing to destroy itself and saw Reddit doing the same things and worse and walked away. Choosing short term profits over people makes me NOPE out. No bans or warnings for me. I guess I just don't type "dangerous" stuff even though I consider myself pretty opinionated.

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