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[–] YooperJeff@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

There is hope young traveler. At age 42, I replaced all the funky mismatched 'silverware' with 2 new sets of matchy-matchy black stainless. Life is good now and that wierd fork will never darken my drawer again.

I will not miss you funky forks and spoons, but you are forgiven.

[–] Sam_Bass@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

Yeah I have one thats been in the family for 60 years. Plain old chromed stainless so no value but sentimental. Fortunately its in a part of the drawer I don't access often

[–] HeyJoe@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago

My wife's parents died 5 years ago, and she took a lot of stuff from the house. She even took the silverware and mixed it in with ours. I can't tell her, but I absolutely hate them and will avoid at all cost.

I just use my hands for everything. So much easier, and if you don't wash up after, you have extra nutrients for the next meal!

So important in this economy.

[–] Pulptastic@midwest.social 1 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Yeah matching set for life. They don’t make it any more but I am still able to buy replacements from Replacements ltd.

My rule when picking this set was the spoons have to be strong enough to scoop ice cream without bending.

[–] HugeNerd@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I have one that somehow got bent and now doesn't stack nicely with all its clones. I don't feel like bending it back because of metal fatigue issues.

[–] Wizard_Pope@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago

I mean if it only got bent once and you bend it back metal fatigue won't really play that big of a role

[–] Wispy2891@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

I even don't know how there's that fucking heavy and thicker fork between my forks

[–] DarrinBrunner@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago

The heavy, thick utensils are my favorites.

But, really, since the kid moved out, and I'm alone now, I only use the utensils I need, and I use the same ones every day, washing as I go. Fork, spoon, sharp knife for cooking, small bowl-plate, large bowl-plate, coffee mug, big insulated cup for cold drinks, and a pair of clicky tongs.

[–] Therobohour@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

My gf just got some copper forks. I think I'll have to move out

I don't see that you've got any alternative

[–] rapchee@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago

i mean the shape is just wrong
i mean it is perfectly functional, easy to use, etc. but ... wrong

[–] mavu@discuss.tchncs.de 1 points 1 week ago

.. and 2 knives i hate.

[–] rarsamx@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

I don't like unmatching cutlery. Every fork needs to be the same style and bent at the same angle so they can "spoon" neatly in the drawer. (Yes, incorrect the bend when I see one who deviates) What kind of monster do you think I am.

In fact, that's why my wife and I live in different apartments. Her drawer loons like the thrift shop cutlery box. 😱

Edit: I'm just reading that people consider forks "bad" when the times are unaligned. It's quite easy to align them. I check them after each wash. Using a knife to slightly bend them in place does the trick.

I always wonder what happened to forks in other houses where they are all bent. Do people chew on them?

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