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I can't take away the eraser or give it to him only when he asks, because I have more students.

He's impulsive but nice. His parents know he does stuff like that.

Any ideas?

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[–] CMDR_Horn@lemmy.world 45 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Talk to parents, get their written approval to put bitter apple spray on the erasers.

[–] sleen@lemmy.zip 8 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Agreed, putting something repulsive is the key here. This kind of strategy is used for nail biters as well.

[–] yermaw@sh.itjust.works 12 points 1 week ago (1 children)

That only works for so long. My mom got special nail varnish from the doctors that was supposed to stop me chewing my nails. Properly vile rotten stuff.

I ended up developing a taste for it.

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[–] Toes@ani.social 3 points 1 week ago

That stuff typically only works if you want to stop.

[–] ivanafterall@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago

My mom used to threaten me with hot sauce, but I love hot sauce.

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[–] DebatableRaccoon@lemmy.ca 27 points 1 week ago

Something similar to the spray they use on animals after a surgery? It's safe for consumption but it tastes god-awful to stop the animal licking the wound.

[–] voracitude@lemmy.world 23 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Sounds like it could be a stim thing - impulsive, you say? Any chance there's (undiagnosed?) ASD there? The mentions of bitter spray reminded me of when my mother tried that to get me to stop biting my nails. I just stopped using my lips and tongue, and only used my teeth...

Anyway, if it's a stimulation thing, maybe finding an alternative would be easier than getting him to stop entirely.

[–] TherapyGary@lemmy.dbzer0.com 9 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] LavaPlanet@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 week ago

Yeah, this is exactly what I was thinking, too. You redirect the behavior somewhere safe while still fulfilling the essential need.

[–] howler@lemmy.zip 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I'll find something else too, then. I don't want to harm him

[–] voracitude@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

I'd be curious for a follow-up post if you find a way to help him with this! I was this kid when I was little, and needed help and kindness, but there was no understanding for autistic behaviours back then so what I got instead was bullied. I appreciate that you went looking for help instead of just throwing up your hands 🤗

[–] howler@lemmy.zip 2 points 2 days ago

Hi! So I suggested nail chewing deterrent to the boss, checked that the kids have no allergies, bought the deterrent in a pharmacy and coated all the pencils and part of one eraser (they stop working with the polish).

All it took was one lick (and OMG their faces), they didn't put the pencils/eraser near their mouth again. I hope they remember the lesson next week lol. I coated all pencils so the kid I wrote the post about wouldn't get targeted.

I watched the kid that has me particularly worried and he didn't show interest in putting anything else in his mouth, nor did he have a change in attitude. Now that he isn't licking stuff, he is somewhat more focused in class?? I have to keep watching.

[–] howler@lemmy.zip 2 points 6 days ago

I'll update you!!

[–] remon@ani.social 16 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

Some pharmacies sell a bitter liquid (no idea how it's called) intended to to put on children's fingernails to prevent nail baiting. I guess this would also work on erasers.

[–] blimthepixie@lemmy.dbzer0.com 17 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I had this, it was called Stop n Grow

I eventually got used to and, even liked the taste

[–] new_guy@lemmy.world 10 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Yeah... I discovered I could file the upper layer of my nail to remove the polish. Guess how my nails ended up.

[–] RebekahWSD@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago

I had a bitterant put on my hands and now I just like bitter flavors lol

[–] ToffeeIsForClosers@lemmy.world 14 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Long shot but it could be a sign of iron deficiency. Eating, smelling and licking odd things like paper, erasers, I’ve heard of these associations. I even read about a woman who would spend her lunch hour smelling the concrete in the stairwell. Turned out to be iron deficiency.

[–] Baggie@lemmy.zip 6 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Chewing ice as well, supposedly it is motivated by iron deficiency.

[–] sefra1@lemmy.zip 11 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Don't all children do that?

I used to shew on everything, my friend used to literally destroy pens by shewing them too much. I think it's normal.

[–] RememberTheApollo_@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Could be just a bad habit as you say. Boredom. Might be worth checking to see of some kids have any other issues that might put them on an au/dhd spectrum. One of ours habitually destroyed pencils and erasers no matter what we did. Found out later It was anxiety and stress from undiagnosed neurospicyness.

[–] howler@lemmy.zip 2 points 2 days ago

Yeah... Parents noticed something wrong too and he's being checked.

I have things for students of all ages that for whatever reason need to destroy stuff, and they know I'll give them the item they prefer no questions asked (but I'm always there to listen to them). Before I figured out why those students were behaving the way they were, lessons were miserable.

One day I offered a girl a tray of used paper sheets to shred instead of the textbook and it changed my life lmaoo

This kid is not destructive, so my usual tactics don't work. The bitter spray did, tho.

[–] I_Has_A_Hat@lemmy.world 9 points 1 week ago

Give him a piece of gum?

[–] Treczoks@lemmy.world 9 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Well, there is stuff you paint on kids nails to prevent them from biting them, which basically tastes bitter. Maybe apply this to the eraser?

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[–] A_norny_mousse@feddit.org 8 points 1 week ago (1 children)

If they are the school's I would simply not give them to that student anymore, for very obvious reasons that every 9yo should understand. Let him use his own.

Is the act itself disturbing the class or his own ability to concentrate? If not, I do not see any further problem.

Haven't we all chewed on pencils to concentrate?

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[–] IWW4@lemmy.zip 8 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Don’t bother trying. It isn’t going to hurt the kid.

[–] BussyCat@lemmy.world 8 points 1 week ago (1 children)

It can easily be a chocking hazard, it’s unsanitary, and it can cause the child to be ostracized by peers which can limit their social development.

[–] CandleTiger@programming.dev 9 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Is eating erasers going to get you more ostracized than constant nagging from the teacher to not eat erasers?

[–] BussyCat@lemmy.world 5 points 1 week ago

Personally still going to put the blame there on eraser eater, but the whole point of this post was to find something that actually works to curb the behavior

[–] lovely_reader@lemmy.world 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

It doesn't sound like they're necessarily his erasers though

[–] howler@lemmy.zip 3 points 1 week ago

They are not

[–] Zagam@piefed.social 7 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Do like my ol' dad did make him smoke a whole pack. It'll put him off forever.

[–] neidu3@sh.itjust.works 9 points 1 week ago

"you can put that eraser in your mouth as much as you want, but first you have to eat this pallet of erasers from the supply storage"

[–] Fyrnyx@kbin.melroy.org 6 points 1 week ago

Roundhouse kick that kid to the moon.

[–] Tedesche@lemmy.world 5 points 1 week ago
[–] Lembot_0004@discuss.online 4 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

Why do you want that? Is there some inobvious harm in chewing erasers? Or money is the main problem? Let him chew his own erasers then.

[–] starlinguk@lemmy.world 6 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Other kids have to use them.

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[–] howler@lemmy.zip 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

He's not chewing them. He's putting them in his mouth whole. I don't think he'll choke, but other people want to use the eraser too. Yes I paid for them myself, as someone else guessed in the other answers.

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[–] Jhuskindle@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago

Did the parents take Tylenol? Equip him with erasers.

[–] spittingimage@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

Make him write in pen?

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