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I recognize appreciating cool machines, I really do. I've just never been able to wrap my head around being a car guy. Spending huge chunks of change on a car, consistently modifying it, watching car shows all the time. I just dont get it. What's the big draw for you?

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[–] hawgietonight@lemmy.world 3 points 4 days ago (1 children)

I can start by saying that I'm a tech "guy". The evolution was simple: Puzzles, Lego, bikes, model R/C cars/planes, computers, motorcycles then cars. Add to that motorcycles and cars give you freedom of movement to go anywhere anytime in a whim, it is difficult to not geek about them.

Then, during a brief period of my life I lived in a big (for me) city and had to use the public transport and it was horrible. This only exacerbated my dreams of owning a motor vehicle. Car magazines helped fuel these dreams.

My dad loved sports cars, that didn't help the addiction ;)

[–] ILoveUnions@lemmy.world 1 points 4 days ago

Sounds like you lived in a bad city.

[–] Tracaine@lemmy.world 4 points 4 days ago (2 children)

I-I'm not? Am I? Oh god what kind of car am I?

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[–] tasankovasara@sopuli.xyz 1 points 3 days ago

Here's one who always liked customising the daily driver computers - Sway, custom configs, painting the laptop cover with very permanent enamel paint. Reasons are to make it run reliably, serving my preferences and looking nice and cared for.

Similar reasons apply with the car and motorcycle, only with the car it's not cheap fun (bike stuff is actually very reasonably priced). But I figured since I get paid every month, I'm going to use money on what sparks joy. And I'm keeping it sensible, only one car and bike at a time :}

[–] Donebrach@lemmy.world 4 points 4 days ago (2 children)

I just think they’re neat honestly. feel similarly about boats and trains and well executed meals and nice interior design.

[–] Chippys_mittens@lemmy.world 2 points 4 days ago

That's a pretty reasonable answer haha.

[–] P00ptart@lemmy.world 4 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (1 children)

It's a blend of art and engineering. I don't appreciate a lot of traditional art. Music, movies and TV, but not theater or paintings or most sculpture. But a good looking car just draws your eyes to it like an attractive person, but it's rude to stare at people. It's almost rude to NOT stare at a Porsche 911 GT3 RS.

Then there's the beauty of the engineering. Thousands of parts working together to make one beautiful machine do what it's supposed to do. It's like how society is supposed to work. But instead of a GT3 RS, we've got a '96 Dodge neon with no working starter, only two working forward gears, a door that won't open and electrical issues.

In today's world it's harder and harder to justify being a car guy, but I've loved em since I can remember.

Edit: I would add to that, the same feelings I have about cars being a blend of art and engineering, is the same reason I have a great respect for architecture. True great architecture is also a blend of art and engineering. You can replace the Porsche with Notre Dame, while the F-150 can be replaced with a modern factory. Utilitarian garbage.

[–] Chippys_mittens@lemmy.world 2 points 4 days ago (1 children)

That's an excellent answer I respect the engineering a ton as well.

[–] P00ptart@lemmy.world 2 points 4 days ago

There was one time I almost got in trouble with a gf at the time. I was driving and I saw an F430 driving the opposite direction, and I said "oh fuck, I'd kill to be inside you." Apparently there was an attractive woman on the sidewalk at the same time, but on the opposite side. She said "EXCUSE ME?!?" Then as I looked at her from the opposite direction, she realized I didn't notice the attractive girl, "you were talking about a car, huh?" I hadn't noticed the girl, and she hadn't noticed the car. I've never seen eyes roll harder than that.

[–] kbal@fedia.io 4 points 4 days ago (1 children)

I was a car guy, more or less. I enjoyed driving them, I enjoyed tinkering with them. I like going fast, I like shifting gears. I did some incredibly cool road trips, I did some autocross, I did some commercial driving too and enjoyed the challenge of finding the most efficient routes across the city.

But there are too many cars on the road, designing our cities around them was a potentially civilization-ending mistake, and we should all stop burning fossil fuels like right now and also stop spreading microplastics, oil, and road salt all over the land. There are better ways to commute. These days I'm more of a "fuck cars" guy.

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[–] Semi_Hemi_Demigod@lemmy.world 4 points 4 days ago

Car go vroom. Modded car go vroom faster. Simple as.

(It’s also a socially acceptable autistic fixation.)

[–] turkalino@lemmy.yachts 4 points 4 days ago

I like hearing them purr and watching their zoomies

[–] jodanlime@midwest.social 4 points 4 days ago (1 children)
[–] Chippys_mittens@lemmy.world 5 points 4 days ago (1 children)

For the most part yes. But when I didn't have much money cars were like my enemy.

[–] jodanlime@midwest.social 3 points 4 days ago

I can totally understand that, it's not cheap to drive a car. I really don't consider myself a 'car guy' but I do like to go for a drive. I like to go around corners fast, I like to find an empty country road and see where it ends. I don't think working on cars is fun, most of the time. But I do most of the work on my vehicles to save money, rarely do I add anything aftermarket.

[–] CompactFlax@discuss.tchncs.de 3 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

A family member was a mechanic and spent all their time in the garage working on barely functioning cars. In retrospect, it’s probably their autism hyper fixation.

My second car was pretty nice, but it was murderously expensive to have services done, and the internet community around it was fairly firm about doing specific preventative maintenance. So I did that.

I’m not really a car guy anymore, because I don’t have the time to work on the cars like I want to, and I don’t have the space either. There’s too many other cars on the roads, which makes spirited driving dangerous. Now, I live vicariously through YouTube channels and mainly drive a toaster EV.

[–] CrayonDevourer@lemmy.world 3 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

I love cars because they're part art and expression, and part joy/relaxation. They're as unique as an individual's personality, and can be customized to suit. Driving on the open road is this synchronized dance of metal and flesh that propels you far faster than nature ever intended (less so if you drive an automatic). It's a testament to human progress. As someone who loves engineering in every specialty, cars blend mechanical, electrical, electronics, robotics, design...every engineering specialty there is, into 1 complete package that utilizes them all. Every inch of a car is meticulously crafted and lovingly sculpted by engineers, and its one of mankind's crowning achievements of modern society. It is singlehandedly the most complex, and most beautiful thing many of us will ever own.

Racing in and of itself has just as many forms, each pushing the limits of this engineering to new heights, and is a wonderful test bed for people to wring the most out of the world around us.

And each year, I marvel at the concept cars and the art of cars to come. It just tickles so many of my fancies.

This doesn't even begin to touch on the wide range that it's given me and others to travel and experience new places.

[–] d00phy@lemmy.world 2 points 4 days ago

When I was a kid, I watched Ayrton Senna drive a McLaren F1 car. Not long after that, my dad showed me an AC Cobra.

[–] krooklochurm@lemmy.ca 0 points 3 days ago

I'm not. I don't drive and never want to drive. I hate it.

[–] zxqwas@lemmy.world 2 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Why do you like your hobbies? I am not a car guy but talk to me about hunting rifles and I'll never shut up.

[–] Chippys_mittens@lemmy.world 1 points 4 days ago

I get the question is kind of nebulous. I've gotten some great answers though!

[–] ArbitraryValue@sh.itjust.works 2 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

I grew up in a big city so I didn't learn to drive until I was 23, and once I did, I realized how much I had been missing. A car with a full tank of gas really does feel like freedom to me, so I enjoy having a car that is good at being a car. I'm not particularly interested in aftermarket modifications, but I am willing to pay more for a car that is fast, handles well, and looks good.

[–] sem@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 4 days ago
[–] HexagonSun@lemmy.zip -2 points 4 days ago

I thought cars were awesome as a kid and teenager, and couldn’t wait to pass my test. Had my license within 6 months of being old enough to drive.

But then as soon as I went to uni I didn’t have the money for a car or a use for it in a major city.

And then I started to view cars way more negatively due to their impact on society and the environment and never became a car guy.

I love cars in computer games, but in real life I’m more of a “fuck cars” guy these days.

[–] LibertyLizard@slrpnk.net -1 points 4 days ago (2 children)

Cars are a symbol of wealth and social status. That’s why people obsess over them, but they will rarely admit this to themselves.

[–] CmdrShepard49@sh.itjust.works 3 points 4 days ago

For every dude that goes out and buys a Lambo to show off their wealth and status, there are 10,000 people wrenching and modifying their $2000 Honda or old truck. This viewpoint is honestly quite ridiculous and ignorant to me as I'm a huge car guy and see little appeal in some $300,000 supercar that the owner has done nothing with other than cutting a massive check at some snobby dealership.

[–] ArbitraryValue@sh.itjust.works 1 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

Having nice things is a display of wealth and status, but which nice things a person chooses to have still depends on what they enjoy and how they want to express themselves. Even among car enthusiasts, which sort of car one is enthusiastic about varies a lot. I know a guy who has a luxury SUV which is extremely comfortable. I, on the other hand, had a car which could go around corners really fast. Whenever my passengers bounced around as the car went over a bump, I would tell them "I paid extra for that stiff suspension."

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