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I promised my kid they'd get a laptop when they learn to read well enough.

This turned out to be a good motivator and they can now read full books.

The kid likes competitions and challenges. I would like to come up with tasks they can learn to do with the laptop.

The reason I want my children to have access to a computer specifically, is that while TVs and phones are used to consume, computers are used to create.

I will be installing some Linux flavor on this machine, as it is a bit dated.

I was thinking about things like:

  • Write a short story
  • Install a graphics editing program
  • Draw a picture of a cat

To get them started.

Probably I need some easier ones first.

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[–] Swordinferno@lemmy.world 4 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Do you intend to include internet/web surfing, or hold back on that until later?

Search engines can be very useful, while also being awful.

But I do think teaching the kiddo how to navigate the website of your local library would be a good lesson for them.

[–] wizzor@sopuli.xyz 2 points 4 days ago

I was hoping I can keep that limited for now, although it's better for me to teach rather than let them discover on their own...

[–] pelespirit@sh.itjust.works 4 points 4 days ago (3 children)
  • Krita is free and awesome for that age. Maybe install it together. If you have a tablet or touch screen, it's really fun.
  • How familiar are you with (also free) Blender? You would have to install it and learn the basics. Just the 3d sculpting program might be a blast for him and have him edit a UV sphere. There are a few basic tips to get you going, but kids pick it up way easier than adults do.
    • The object mode is for the overall, individual objects
    • The edit mode is to work on, inside, the object you select
    • You absolutely have to have a scroll mouse
    • There is a description in the lower left corner that lets you edit the mesh you're "adding" or putting in, then it goes away. This messes up a lot of people.
    • At the top are tabs that let you select a layout for Blender for each focus. There is one for sculpting.
    • The upper right has a lot of icons that let you move around the program (solid, see-thru, etc., and perspective. You would have to know this stuff.
    • This video is for you right now if you don't know anything, and for him in a couple of years: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uOmYInaX-wE
  • Have him search Wikipedia on something he loves and to look for the sources.
  • Have him look for, speed up if necessary, and learn from youtube tutorials on topics that interest him.

Side note: Affinity (photoshop alternative) just became free, but I think that's too much. Good to know about though.

[–] rudyharrelson@lemmy.radio 4 points 4 days ago

Have him search Wikipedia on something he loves and to look for the sources.

I like this idea, but with the additional step of vetting the topic in question on Wikipedia before allowing the kid to read the page.

e.g.: the kid says, "I love MrBeast!" and wants to research him. That Wiki article, while mostly innocuous, has a fairly lengthy "Controversies" section, including blue links to topics like "sexual harassment" and "homophobia".

[–] wizzor@sopuli.xyz 2 points 4 days ago

I never learned blender myself, although I can do some cad... Need to include some 3d modeling for sure though.

I didn't know about Affinity, need to check it.

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[–] shittydwarf@sh.itjust.works 4 points 4 days ago

Get an old 486 and have them install doom via discs heh

[–] lepinkainen@lemmy.world 3 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Get them the Hello Ruby books, they’re great for that exact age

[–] wizzor@sopuli.xyz 1 points 4 days ago

Those are good.

[–] mushroommunk@lemmy.today 3 points 4 days ago

I'm not sure what's it's like now, but at that age I was just starting to get into visual programming. Using blocks to program. Started getting into Lego robotics. All my computer skills started there.

With Linux I would start them on basic terminal commands. Cat a file. Edit a file. Navigate. Etc.

[–] Pissmidget@lemmy.world 3 points 4 days ago

It's never too early to learn navigating drives and folders using the command line!

[–] lennybird@lemmy.world 3 points 4 days ago (1 children)

What was the curriculum you used for them to learn to read?

[–] wizzor@sopuli.xyz 2 points 4 days ago

Honestly the only thing we have been doing has been that we try to latch on to things they show interest in. For reading it was first identifying letters together while out and about when they were asking and turning it into a game. Later they would request to practice writing and want to have a sample to copy. We read to them a lot and have since they have been very little.

Now at school we just take checking homework really seriously and try to make sure they see us read books, not just screens.

[–] Treczoks@lemmy.world 2 points 4 days ago

Have you thought of using an Arduino, and let him program little things?

[–] MajorHavoc@programming.dev 2 points 4 days ago

My kid was all in on Tux Paint for a good while.

He eventually settled in to make cars and cats, but at first he just enjoyed making abstract art with all the colors and paintbrushes.

[–] kbal@fedia.io 2 points 4 days ago

The thing they used to show kids to try and get us interested in computer programming back when I was in school about a hundred years ago was called Logo. Apparently there's now an online version called LYNX which might be worth a look.

[–] comeonitsnotlike@feddit.nu 2 points 4 days ago (1 children)

This might seem a bit "too much", but as a linux user for 20 years, and someone that also is preparing a computer for my niece (she is 4 right now, but I'm going to give it to my brother so that he can decide when the time is right for her), I have to say you should look in to the new Commodore OS (yes; it is the Commodore!). It's a large OS, but it has everything. What you want to do is hide everything that shouldn't be accessible to your children, and that's as easy as right-clicking on "Applications" and unmark any app that shouldn't be visible (this is easy in any distro, but), it also comes with a few "education" apps (see image), that are very good as an introduction to computing. When they get older, you simply mark the apps you want them to have access to. I've used this dist for about 2 month now, and it is extremely stable. There are also other nice things that can help keep things a bit "fun", like the "Cube" (check my profile header for how it can look, it's from my current setup). The cube (in my opinion) is a great visual as to how, for instance, directories and such work; if you have let's say 4 apps open on your desktop, going in to cube mode you can see how they all are as "layers", this just makes sense (to me, at least).

I think you should check it out!

[–] wizzor@sopuli.xyz 2 points 4 days ago

I have never heard of this project, I will check it out.

The typing practice software is also a good idea (from your screenshot).

[–] aramis87@fedia.io 2 points 4 days ago (1 children)

While I like the idea of challenges to get them used to computers, I'd also suggest balancing these with challenges that may help them outside the digital/technological world. Maybe challenge them to write a short story or a letter to their grandparents in cursive. Maybe hand-stitch a running hem, mentally add and subtract numbers, walk a quarter-mile every day. Later on, maybe have them plan out and cook a really simple meal, or do some kind of simple repair or put together a flat-pack table or something. Solder or glue something.

I dunno, it just feels like so many skills aren't being taught to kids and they graduate with little knowledge of skills that make your life easier and less expensive - simple repairs, being able to research stuff, being unafraid to do things on your own. Don't get me wrong, I applaud your kid's drive and your desire to make them ready for the digitally-focused world they'll live in, I just see too many kids graduating and needing a massive amount of hand-holding for even the simplest things.

[–] wizzor@sopuli.xyz 1 points 4 days ago

I fully agree with you.

The kids can use most basic tools (hammers, drills, pliers), I try to involve them whenever we fix something around the house.

They can also cook some foods (pretty limited selection but relatively independently, including with the stove), but there is much to learn here.

We have also made sure they know how to swim, ride a bike, clean and treat wounds and even safely handle firearms (very far from anything approaching skill, but safety first).

I think we should practice stitching, that's a great idea and next summer project will have some gardening.

Eventually I'd be happy if I can get them to try some martial art, but so far they don't seem interested.

I am struggling a bit to teach them finance skills, since physical money is so rare now.

[–] olafurp@lemmy.world 0 points 3 days ago

Download a picture from the Internet, move it to the desktop with the file explorer only. Then print it out.

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