A community for respectful discussion and memes related to autism acceptance. All neurotypes are welcome.
Community:
Values
Rules
Encouraged
.
Helpful Resources
My least favorite part today: Waiting for someone to read from a mandatory script written for the least common denominator.
Before we let your wife talk to us about the bank account, you'll need to answer some questions to prove your identity, you must wait for all answers to be read before responding.......
We've been doing this so long that the people who invented it have died. Can I just use a fucking YubiKey and a pin?
Having to eat has to be my least favorite part of neourdivergence. "Oh, it's been a few hours since eating and I really want to eat"
This cited phenomenon is not a particularly neurodivergent one. Pretty much everyone sees the train wrecks coming.
If you are neurodivergent, not everything about your life and how your mind works is defined by that.
Object permanence has to be me least favorite part of neurodivergence. "Oh I walked away from that tree but I know it's still there."
I like your example so much better than my own.
It feels anecdotal, but I felt like I had a voodoo doll for my last manager. He was a nice enough guy but just hyper and careless. So he would do stuff all the time without thinking about what came next. I would see him on my commute sometimes following close behind other cars, speeding to red lights and such. Said to my coworker, 'He is going to not be here one day because he got in a car accident.' A few weeks later and he is out because he totalled his car into the back of another car. Another time the company was cheaping out on hiring someone to replace lightbulbs and he was like, I'll just change them myself! I said, "you need insurance to do stuff like that in an office, thousands of people fall off ladders every year" A few weeks later he was out for days, found out he fell off a ladder at his house. I didn't cause these things to happen, but I stopped vocalizing what I was predicting. As the wise Michael Scott once said, "I'm not superstitious, but I am a little stitious."
Everyone is taking as if pattern recognition gives you some kind of oracle powers of seeing the future.
Just to clarify, pattern recognition ≠ foretelling.
More often it just causes people to overthink and invent conspiracy theories.
"I see where this is going"
Goes in a different direction
"Oh, so this is part of the pattern where everyone is trying to fuck with me"
confirmation bias averted ... this time
That's also a thing, overthinking and obsessive interests.
And the talker types see the ability to see through their lies as "uncanny".
Pattern recognition is inherent to how the human brain works...
Sadly this describes every day of my life and has led to some serious, serious depression problems. Being able to spot things from miles out sounds pretty amazing on paper, but it's really truly a special kind of hell when you can't actually do anything about all the horrible, horrible things you see in the horizon. To anyone else who is also like this, I truly hope you shoulder it well. It is not an easy thing to live with.
I spent so long being part of /r Collapse. It was a bit latter than expected, but it is finally here.
Spent too much useful time going for longshot jobs, and trying to be something I'm not, instead of settling for what little I can get, like other people.
In the short-term, I have co-workers questioning why I'm doing things "wrong" and "correcting" me, then I watch as my back gets strained, and we lose time, making the "mistake" I had seen coming.
Pattern recognition with history autism has to be the worst version of this.
Unless you like fascism.
Great news if you do, because all patterns indicate a global speed running to Germany, circa 1939ish.
I am so autistic that when I went for my adhd assessment recently, they had me do this computer test with letters and sounds, and the sounds one, I recognised the pattern within maybe 2-3 minutes of a 30 minute test. Which voided my adhd results
Yes, though its also the basis for all conspiracy theories
I think the actual worst part about this is that pattern recognition isn’t supposed to be a neurodivergent thing. Pattern recognition is like a built in feature in humans, but most people have it beat out of them in school
Pattern recognition is like a built in feature in humans, but most people have it beat out of them in school
Like so much else, it's a trained skill. You don't have pattern recognition beaten out. You just aren't so heavily invested in a subject that you get it stamped in.
It's not as though we're born with the ability to hear Morse Code, for instance. You have to develop an ear for it.
It's also a double edged sword, especially when you queue in on a pattern without understanding the reason behind it. Plenty of patterns are purely coincidental.
Picking out a "message" in a series of sounds doesn't mean the dish washer is talking to you.
