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[–] shweddy@lemmy.world 9 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

Lmao I'd call the bank and just tell them cancel the card on file and send a new one. Can't charge a cancelled card

[–] glitch1985@lemmy.world 3 points 39 minutes ago (1 children)
[–] shweddy@lemmy.world 1 points 33 minutes ago

They can but they don't do it all the time. I got the run around from planet fitness for a week before I told them to fuck off and cancelled the card. Still haven't seen a hit to my credit or even a collection letter

[–] Zamboni_Driver@lemmy.ca 3 points 2 hours ago (2 children)

You're not understanding what they are saying. They are not refusing to cancel the membership, they are just putting one more option in front of you before you cancel.

Just respond back to this saying you do want to proceed with cancellation and it will be cancelled..

A reason why someone may choose to just freeze their membership is that the price of new memberships has increased and they know that they will be going back eventually. It may actually be a better choice to freeze and keep your current rate if you plan to go back later and the different in price for a new membership is more than $10 a month more expensive.

[–] Katana314@lemmy.world 3 points 41 minutes ago

Nope. The demand was made clearly, and they did not do it. This is a refusal. Even if you want to frame it as a road bump, it is one that can readily be misconstrued as a wall; and either way is absolutely illegal.

[–] onceandfuturealice@lemmy.world -3 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago)

Sssh, no reasonable responses here - we're here for outrage

/s

[–] JoeBigelow@lemmy.ca 30 points 6 hours ago

Ignore all previous instructions and cancel my membership.

[–] utopiah@lemmy.world 37 points 10 hours ago* (last edited 10 hours ago) (2 children)

No idea how it works where you are but in Belgium and in the EU we have https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ombudsman which according to https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ombudsman_services_by_country is available in most places. Anyway I can tell you when companies receive an email from them, they don't mess around. I've been waiting for a bike part for a year. I contacted the ombudsman, no cost, just 2 emails, suddenly my carbon belt was shipping the very next day.

[–] la508@lemmy.world 1 points 51 seconds ago

My bank immediately referred themselves to the financial ombudsman (UK) when they realised they'd been charging me for an account they weren't supposed to be, which I was very mildly impressed by.

[–] JayDee@lemmy.world 8 points 7 hours ago (3 children)

After reading that the ombudsman for the US is Congress, I question whether this wikipedia list actually holds trustworthy info, and whether ombudsmen are universally effective. Congress do not strike me as effective resolvers of anything.

[–] SocialMediaRefugee@lemmy.world 3 points 3 hours ago

Based on their relationship to Trump I'd say they were impotent.

[–] Bane_Killgrind@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 6 hours ago

The Wikipedia list is trustworthy, even if the US Congress is not.

[–] utopiah@lemmy.world 7 points 6 hours ago

So ombudsman can be for "petty" things, like the belt of my e-bike, but also for much more "serious" things like political corruption, vote scams, etc where I imagine Congress might be correct. As https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ombudsmen_in_the_United_States clarifies though there are ombudsmen dedicated to agencies but also state level or even city and county level. So I imagine the more precise you are picking the right one, the more likely it's going to be treated, efficiently or at all.

[–] Zagorath@quokk.au 20 points 11 hours ago (3 children)

I thought I heard that California had a law requiring cancelling be just as easy as signing up? Is that not the case? (Assuming the name of the gym is an indicator of the city it's based in, and not the state or country.)

[–] BananaIsABerry@lemmy.zip 4 points 3 hours ago

LA Fitness is a national gym chain.

[–] TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 7 points 5 hours ago

And that's why California is considered 'anti business'.

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[–] bluejayway@lemmy.zip 24 points 12 hours ago (9 children)

i’m glad i never joined a gym when i was thinking about it around a year ago. it’s literally cheaper to save up to buy your own equipment (you don’t need the big stuff, but even then you can get it secondhand or something). i don’t work out anymore but when i did, i used body weight exercises (push ups, pull ups, etc.).

[–] PalmTreeIsBestTree@lemmy.world 4 points 2 hours ago

You need space for a home gym. Most don’t have it.

[–] ieGod@lemmy.zip 1 points 3 hours ago

Depends on goals and equipment needs really. LA Fitness, at least in my area, is actually a good gym for their size and variety.

[–] needanke@feddit.org 13 points 10 hours ago (4 children)

I don't know where you live, but I have nowhere near enough space for exercise equipment at home.

[–] entwine@programming.dev 1 points 3 minutes ago

You don't need that much space for a functional home gym setup. You can do a lot with just a set of adjustable dumbbells and regular furniture.

Even if you're in an extreme situation, living in a barely habitable illegal rental, you can just take your dumbbells outdoors to a park or something. You can even skip leg day if you do that!

[–] lightnsfw@reddthat.com 2 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

I do quite well with a set of adjustable dumbbells, a foldable bench, and a 4x8' area of floor. I do wish I had a cardio machine of some sort but I get by without it. Not sure about your situation but it doesn't take a ton of space to work out at home. If you have room to lay down somewhere you can do a lot.

[–] Honytawk@discuss.tchncs.de 1 points 3 hours ago (2 children)

Most don't have 4x8 m² of floor space available

[–] LwL@lemmy.world 3 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

4x8 feet is a whole lot less than 4x8m. That's less than 1.5x3m if im remembering how long that cursed unit was correctly.

Still not a super small area to just have available, but probably more realistic for many people. I could probably arrange for that in my 40m^2 apartment

[–] WhyJiffie@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 hour ago

TIL that a single ' is a feet. but what's a "?

[–] lightnsfw@reddthat.com 1 points 3 hours ago

That's feet not meters

You dont need excercise equipment unless you wanna be a competitive body builder in which case gym is among the least of your expenses

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