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Millennials: It's ok to mourn the death of social media::Wired writes how "first-gen social media users have nowhere to go." Ouch.

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[–] BedSharkPal@lemmy.ca 229 points 2 years ago (5 children)

I'm just excited the internet is in part going back to its non corporate backed roots with Lemmy mastodon and the like. The internet started that way, and thanks to the enshitification it will hopefully slowly revert back to it

The idea that corporations were involved in social media was insane looking back. The results were exactly what one would have anticipated

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[–] grue@lemmy.world 92 points 2 years ago (2 children)

If by "mourn" you mean "tap-dance on its fucking grave," then sure!

[–] pete_the_cat@lemmy.world 22 points 2 years ago

I just moved to Miami and don't know where to meet groups of like-minded people. There is nothing on MeetUp, but there are groups on Facebook. I hate that I had to sign into that garbage fire for the first time in years. My whole feed is filled with "suggested posts" of people I don't know nor things I give a shit about.

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[–] Botzo@lemmy.world 75 points 2 years ago (3 children)
[–] Kyle_The_G@lemmy.world 85 points 2 years ago (2 children)

I only mourne reddit, that website was a lifestyle back in the day. Thats why i'm here lol. God I miss the good oll' days.

[–] Thwompthwomp@lemmy.world 45 points 2 years ago (4 children)

Yeah, it is a bit strange. That was a central hub of where I got news, jokes, stayed connected with internet culture. That's mostly gone now. So many things feel splintered anymore. I'm old so I don't keep up with the latest games, but that feels all over the place---too many games, too many communities. Streaming/TV stuff---very few people I know watch the same things I do, and I miss the joy of watching something new and then talking about it the next day moments. Worse now is that most people can't even access the same content since there are too many services. Music is strange now too. Partly, I'm just not connected to pop culture, but also everyone is listening to VERY different stuff (referring to college-age folks---most other millennials I know just listen to NPR, podcasts and 90s mixes). There doesn't seem to be any monolithic music culture at all anymore. Everyone has super customized spotify playlists. I know a big part is just millennial aging, but also reddit kept me connected to broader things, and now its just like everything else and enshittified and disappearing. sigh ... get off my lawn I guess :(

[–] partial_accumen@lemmy.world 17 points 2 years ago

That was a central hub of where I got news, jokes, stayed connected with internet culture. That’s mostly gone now. So many things feel splintered anymore.

Its returned closer to what the internet was BEFORE reddit. People cultivated lists of bookmarks for sites they'd visit for their daily special interests. Lemmy is still a larger audience than what we had before. For jokes you might go to fark.com or somethingawful.com. These were the user driven humor aggregators of the day.

[–] Bluetreefrog@lemmy.world 10 points 2 years ago (1 children)

There doesn’t seem to be any monolithic music culture at all anymore. Everyone has super customized spotify playlists.

I've noticed this too. In some ways it makes it harder to find new music.

[–] datavoid@lemmy.ml 15 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Makes it harder to find popular music, but way easier to find music that appeals to you personally

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[–] Tat@lemmy.ca 14 points 2 years ago (1 children)

fuck reddit, shell of its former self

[–] Kyle_The_G@lemmy.world 7 points 2 years ago

ya, thats why i'm here.

[–] DerisionConsulting@lemmy.ca 13 points 2 years ago (5 children)

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[–] DaCookeyMonsta@lemmy.world 8 points 2 years ago

Idk. I feel mentally healthier off social media. But its been around since I was in high school and I have no idea how to socialize with people outside my immediate circle now. My social muscles have atrophied.

[–] TORFdot0@lemmy.world 60 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Mourning? More like dancing on its grave. With the fediverse being everything social media 1.0 was and more, there is no need for the legacy platforms. I just hope that the fediverse can get some more traction with folks outside tech circles and we can normalize cooperation and free social platforms as in free speech not as in free beer.

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[–] naticus@lemmy.world 57 points 2 years ago (1 children)

It's also all right to laugh maniacally as it all burns down.

[–] kent_eh@lemmy.ca 17 points 2 years ago

That was my thought.

I don't mourn it's death, I celebrate it.

[–] oDDmON@lemmy.world 38 points 2 years ago

Once advertising got involved, it was all downhill from there.

[–] alonely0@programming.dev 31 points 2 years ago

Gen Z, I mourned Reddit for 30 seconds. Now I'm here.

[–] j4k3@lemmy.world 29 points 2 years ago (1 children)

"Social media is like a public toilet; anyone is free to use it, no one should drink from it." -Llama2 70B by Meta

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[–] Sygheil@lemmy.world 28 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Nah, forums are more organic old school is cool.

[–] ParsnipWitch@feddit.de 11 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (2 children)

Forums are social media as well, though. They just have different features. "Social media" are all websites and applications which allow sharing of content between users.

I think a forum was just less anonymous. I never remember any name on Lemmy, for example. On the forums ~back in the day~ I actually got to know the people. We even had forum meetings in real life.

[–] AdmiralShat@programming.dev 10 points 2 years ago (2 children)

I miss forums. Even on technical forums for a software, there was usually an off topic or random section to hang out in

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[–] hperrin@lemmy.world 26 points 2 years ago

I feel like it should read, “Millenials, remember to drink water in between your champagne glasses while you’re toasting to the death of social media.”

[–] Cowbee@lemm.ee 25 points 2 years ago (1 children)

The worst is the ever-shortening of content into an addictive format. It reduces mental clarity.

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[–] rustyriffs@lemmy.world 25 points 2 years ago (1 children)

It's not over though, it's really just beginning again.

[–] Corgana@startrek.website 29 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Something tells me the editorial staff at Buisness Insider might have a harder time than most visualizing an online social landscape built around being, y'know, social, and not for profit.

[–] rustyriffs@lemmy.world 8 points 2 years ago

Ah, now I'm tracking. I really should've paid more attention to the source.

[–] fne8w2ah@lemmy.world 24 points 2 years ago (3 children)

Especially fuck meta and xitter.

[–] HERRAX@sopuli.xyz 20 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Worst part is that they actually started out kind of great, and killed all alternatives. Then they became progressively worse because of their predatory algorithms and whatnot, and now it's borderline impossible to get friends and family to switch to an alternative like mastodon or pixelfed...

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[–] Number1SummerJam@lemmy.world 24 points 2 years ago (1 children)

The thing that threw me off Facebook was the 2016 election and the Cambridge Analytica scandal, even though I ran a popular meme page. I thought I found a sanctuary on Reddit, but looking back everything major on it was shilled to advertise or sow political discord. I thought Google Plus had a lot of potential, but nobody I knew would join and y’know, Google’s privacy record.

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[–] Kolanaki@yiffit.net 23 points 2 years ago (1 children)

As long as humans are social creatures, and the Internet connects us, there will be social media in some form or another.

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[–] Reygle@lemmy.world 23 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I for one celebrate the inevitable crash/death of all this social media. It's turned normal people into unacceptable drooling trash. That is if you're able to ignore the data collection and use of it, in which case it turned the whole internet into a dumpster fire as well.

[–] s_s@lemmy.one 6 points 2 years ago (1 children)

It's turned normal people into unacceptable drooling trash.

They always were. Social media just gave them a platform to you.

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[–] Blackmist@feddit.uk 23 points 2 years ago

Imagine mourning the death of social media.

I mourn its creation.

[–] metaphortune@lemmy.world 22 points 2 years ago (3 children)

I grew up on forums / IRC / IMs, later transitioned to Myspace, then Twitter / Facebook / Tumblr / Instagram. I had a lot of fun over the years, it definitely saddens me that I can't get the things I liked about those experiences back.

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[–] csolisr@communities.azkware.net 19 points 2 years ago

On one hand, it's a bit sad to see the average person not know about the Fediverse and claim "welp, there's nowhere else to go, it's either staying on the same ten junkyards I know or quitting cold-turkey". On the other hand, the relative obscurity kind of comes from the fact that there's no single main instance of the Fediverse. Sure there's things like Mastodon.Social, Lemmy.ML and Misskey.GG that concentrate most users of their niche, but by nature, there is not (and should not be) a centralized place where everybody is, that can be used as the poster child for the Fediverse.

[–] Luisp@lemmy.dbzer0.com 16 points 2 years ago

More like piss over the grave

[–] 21Cabbage@lemmynsfw.com 14 points 2 years ago (5 children)

I'm not mourning, I've just done what I've done every few years for at least a decade now and just found a new fucking home. Plus, I think this and mastodon will be my home for awhile now since the decentralized nature of it makes it really easy to avoid the bullshit that brought me here.

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[–] heygooberman@lemmy.today 10 points 2 years ago

Actually, I think I'm kinda okay with the "death" of social media. I mean, I'm already on this platform a lot, so...I guess I'm not missing much?

[–] Mrkawfee@lemmy.world 9 points 2 years ago

Hopefully it's just the death of surveillance and fake news infested social media with censors ensuring you don't deviate from the Overton window.

[–] hedgehogging_the_bed@lemmy.world 8 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (3 children)

Is this their first platform death? Come on, Wired!

Millennials have been losing platforms on the Internet for pretty much the whole history of the Internet. Just a handful of "social media" type services that have risen and fallen in my years of the internet: AOL Instant Message, ICQ, IRC, Usenet, LiveJournal, MySpace, on and on.

Most of these aren't even properly "dead", many I just.mentioned still have big user groups too. They just lost a critical user share when folks moved on.

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[–] autotldr@lemmings.world 6 points 2 years ago

This is the best summary I could come up with:


In Wired, Jason Parham writes about how first-gen social media users have nowhere to go.

Indeed, millennials have soured on the big social platforms: Facebook, Twitter, and even Instagram feel dead.

There's a lot of ways to feel about this: maybe relief, maybe anger at the companies who messed things up.

But Parham made me feel something different: sad.

He points out that "first-gen" users (like me) were part of a "golden age of connectivity," and for those years, it really was exciting.

I'm sad that golden age is over, and I'm not sure we'll ever experience anything like it again.


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