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I doubt this will take off like, say, GlassDoor, but if it catches on, could be an interesting resource to make oneself feel better. Orders of magnitude more data are needed for this to be useful.

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[–] ExtremeDullard@piefed.social 35 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

The moment you realize a company is only a machine concerned with turning a profit and not an actual person you interact with and expect politeness and humanity out of, you'll stop feeling offended by companies ghosting you.

When a company sends you a letter to tell you your application has been rejected, it's only a courtesy extended to you by a HUMAN HR person who actually cares about behaving decently, not by the company. So enjoy the gesture when it happens, but simply ignore it when it doesn't.

[–] jtrek@startrek.website 25 points 1 month ago (1 children)

A hiring manager told me when she fills a position, it automatically sends the email to the other candidates. It's not a human touch.

[–] ExtremeDullard@piefed.social 17 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Not all companies use dedicated HR management systems - let alone good ones.

[–] jtrek@startrek.website 6 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I was going to write "this depends on the ATS used" but I thought that was a safe assumption. Seems not so!

[–] ExtremeDullard@piefed.social 8 points 1 month ago (2 children)

My point was, any minute you spend fretting about a machine not pretending to behave humanely with you, or reporting them for not pretending to behave humanely, is a minute of your life you'll never get back.

Just assume your application was rejected after x weeks - depending on your field of work - and move on with your life. Companies will never be humane.

[–] rudyharrelson@lemmy.radio 5 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

I think you and OP are viewing the problem differently.

I think you're saying "Don't worry about it when they ghost you", which is fine. I agree with that sentiment. I don't worry about it when companies ghost me.

OP, however, is saying a company's tendency to ghost applicants can be wielded against them to discourage the practice. By crowdsourcing information about which companies put in the minimal effort to send out a simple rejection message, some pressure may be exerted on companies that fail to do so. Looking bad on Glassdoor/Yelp/whatever can lead to some companies deciding to change their practices. Not because the company suddenly wants to do the right thing, but because they are now being publicly shamed for their bad behavior. And that could affect their bottom line

[–] jtrek@startrek.website 4 points 1 month ago

I guess? But imagine if enough people took a couple minutes to post about how organization XYZ sucks, and (because the stock markets are irrational vibes based) that caused their stocks to drop a few points. That's the only thing they care about. I'm willing to put in a few minutes if it might emotionally harm an asshole.

[–] Codpiece@feddit.uk 21 points 1 month ago (1 children)

There’s no reason in these days of automated systems why they can’t send out a “thanks, but not this time” email, text or whatever.

[–] HubertManne@piefed.social 6 points 1 month ago

I actually ususually get that. Once in awhile its from an email where I can reply thank you for your time.

[–] mesamunefire@piefed.social 17 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Friends and i have been sharing the same excel doc for years now. It has all the companies we have all applied to and thier respective process. Its helped weed out bad companies in our area for years.

Wr have been talking qbout making an app for years...but its easier to just do a control f or sort. And its been close to 20 years ish. Now its a libre office sheet. Its beem through many iterations.

[–] partofthevoice@lemmy.zip 8 points 1 month ago (1 children)

This is awesome but it can never have an impact on hiring practices. Making this information public can change behaviors, given the data can’t be cooked.

[–] mesamunefire@piefed.social 6 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I mean there is a VERY small pool of people that are good at their jobs and in our area of expertise. And once one of us gets a good job, we usually all try to go to that company within reason.

[–] partofthevoice@lemmy.zip 6 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Fair enough. You guys can basically collude to control the labor supply, if your niche is small enough. All the more power to you; I wish more of the labor force had guns like that.

[–] MountingSuspicion@reddthat.com 4 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Local subreddits used to have lists of things like top restaurants or little known museums etc. if your area has a community on Lemmy you might be able to contact the mods and see if they'd be interested in a sidebar link for it or something.

[–] hitmyspot@aussie.zone 4 points 1 month ago

People with their own community websites did this before reddit existed. Then yelp and google did it whole-scale. Then they enshittified it when those websites were gone/didn't rank.

[–] pineapplelover@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 1 month ago

I should do this for my area

[–] altphoto@lemmy.today 9 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Sometime ago I had the opportunity to interview and hire 4 interns for our team. We are a very small company and had like 300 applicants. It's brutal on both sides. I got things to do and deadlines to meet. I can only do so much. So I started replying to of the candidates that didn't make it. For us it's very technical and specific what we are looking for, but it's still hard to say sorry but you didn't make it. But regardless of what I feel, HR stepped in ...two HR people.... and they told me to stop sending closure emails. They AI crafted a single reply email and mass mailed it to the remaining people. I think with my heart as if I was the candidate. They think with whatever the fuck makes you think of people as "resources". It's probably something to do with not bankrupting the company by bringing the wrong people in and pissing off everyone else.

Some of that is true. One of our candidates turned out to be a nice guy but extremely lazy and entitled. It's hard to work with someone like that in your small team. Not only do you have to do the hard work that 20 people used to do before the pandemic lay offs but now you also gotta put up with some shit from captain know it all but only after you tech them 39 times what to know and when to know it.

[–] rudyharrelson@lemmy.radio 6 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

One of our candidates turned out to be a nice guy but extremely lazy and entitled

Not only do you have to do the hard work that 20 people used to do before the pandemic lay offs

Is the guy properly lazy, or is he just not willing to handle the workload of 20 people? I'm a hard worker, but only up to a certain point. If I joined a small team that had one employee trying to handle the work that used to be split between 20 employees, I wouldn't exactly be inspired to go above and beyond my post/pay grade; I'd be concerned that no amount of extra effort I put in would ultimately matter because the team is fundamentally understaffed.

[–] altphoto@lemmy.today 2 points 1 month ago

It's employee owned. But it's still under a management structure. There's a little nepo prick gunning for my job. Yeah life is good. I haven't quit because I want to keep feeding my kids. It's a tough position.

[–] corsicanguppy@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 month ago

They think with whatever the fuck makes you think of people as "resources".

Yeah. They change their own titles, but I worry it's still the same -- they just remembered the 'human' part of 'human resources' is merely an adjective.

[–] jtrek@startrek.website 7 points 1 month ago

Tried to submit one and it didn't seem to go through.

My hypothetical is a lot of recruiters are kind of bad at their job, but there's so many desperate candidates that they don't need to do much to get passable results.

[–] xylol@leminal.space 6 points 1 month ago (1 children)

That's why I like applying to government positions because they have like a tracker and shows you every step, and you get a response when the position closed and updates after interviews so you know your status

[–] mesamunefire@piefed.social 3 points 1 month ago

You at least know where you stand thats for sure.

[–] cm0002 4 points 1 month ago

I have MULTIPLE spreadsheets I've kept from every job search just for this day LMAO

[–] partofthevoice@lemmy.zip 4 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

It would be awesome if you could localize the results. Knowing that Microsoft is one of the worst offenders helps me very little, because I live in bumfuck nowhere. However, I bet I’d find some useful stuff at https://bumfucknowhere.didtheyghostyou.com/

[–] artyom@piefed.social 3 points 1 month ago
  1. Every company does this. So this will be great if you want a database of companies that exist.

  2. When you get a job, do you go back and notify all the companies that you interviewed with? Because I don't.

My advice: get as many interviews as you can. When you're done, forget about them and move on to the next one.